hi everyone Adrienne Everheart your feminine energy dating and relationship
coach in this video I want to talk about five ways to get a man to fall in love
with you these are five feminine energy methods that will really entice a man to
fall in love with you in this video I'm just gonna give you some feedback on how
to utilize them and really put them to work in your life and your relationship
right now. see how wonderful it feels to have a man respond to this and actually
see the falling and love that happens with him right before your very eyes so
the big one I want to talk about is being caring so feminine energy a lot of
people think that it's nurturing it's doing things for the man it's making
things happen for him and taking care of him and while women do have a nurturing
quality we are definitely going to want to take care of something smaller than
us that can't speak they can't feed itself that can't fend for itself that's
why we become mothers and that's why that that's in our DNA to do that with a
man it's a different sort of complicated issue because you can't really do for
him and take care of him in the same way you would a child that this will
actually drive him away and not really help him fall in love with you because
he's gonna feel a little bit like there's a microscope peering down at him
he's gonna feel micromanage and it's gonna challenge his masculine energy
with you so one of the biggest things that I encounter with my clients when
we're having a problem with the man really showing that warmth in that love
again is that they're not connecting with him on failures it's not like every
day your guy goes around failing at something but every day to most of us we
experience something that's a little bit to our chagrin we are a little
dissatisfied with how something turned out and we might just go well try it
again tomorrow or we might just say some sort of passing comment without a lot of
heart and a lot of ones to it so you might think that that's being nurturing
being nurturing means you say hey to me this is a therapy session let's
discuss your failure and really it isn't it's about taking a moment a very
important moment to mourn that loss with your man not too long ago my husband and
I were setting up a tomato garden in our backyard and we kept noticing we would
have a couple of new tomatoes and then they would disappear the next day and I
was pretty sure it was a squirrel or some other animal but my husband was
really upset about this because he had worked very hard at building this tomato
bed he had put a lot of effort into putting the bags of soil and we know we
were creating something and that's what men like to do they like to create
something and watch it unfold so at first I was like well we just need to
get a fake you know owl and we need to put up netting and I went right into my
problem-solving skills which don't get me wrong I'm an intelligent gardener I
know how to handle these things but I didn't take a moment to grieve what was
happening so this is kind of a cute example with Tomatoes but I want you to
apply it to your own life get your man to fall in love with you because when he
comes home and he goes someone treated me some way at work or someone cut me
off at this intersection I want you to take a moment and look at him and
connect and go oh my goodness use my really really get him tool which is you
see his face you name one emotion oh you must be feeling so wet down that's all
you have to do is take that moment to mourn his lost with him and listen to
him listen to him go on about it for a couple of minutes and just listen no
solutions no advice no solving and no fixing it no telling him what you think
will help with the situation just listen and let him get into his masculine
energy so he can solve it and feel better so number one is I want you to be
there with him for support during his failures number two we're going to talk
about comfort now again you might think comfort is action but I'm going to talk
about comfort in a very different way which is what women can do better than
anybody else all you need to do is think about how wonderful it feels when
someone looks at you and listens to you and you feel like you're the only person
on the planet they aren't challenging you on how you
feel they're just really getting you about it and it's something really
comfortable that comfort is a type of warmth and warmth again we get very busy
we get you know in our boy pants we're at work all day we've got a million
things to do when we get home from work and I want you to take time to breathe
and tune in to warmth and warmth is where you're just focusing on slowing
down and having a warm energy exchange with that person and something that I
have to remind myself is right now in this moment in time this is who's in
front of me this is who needs my love and attention and there's nothing else
going on in the world except this situation right now and I can really uh
that person all of my warmth and attention in that moment you don't have
to go out and cook him a big meal or make sure that you do something for him
or take charge in some situation for him you just show up with warmth and really
look into his soul look into his eyes and again unzip your heart
imagine your heart unzipping and all this warm red beating light coming out
and going right towards him ladies this is why a man falls in love
with a woman because unlike any other woman out there you're the one who
really gets him you're the one who can give him that warm comfortable place
you're the one who really listens to him and can celebrate his accomplishments
and failures now moving on to number three I want you to celebrate his
accomplishments this is one that we pass by so often and they're everywhere in
the day so my husband does bike riding and he goes on really
long distances and sometimes he comes home from his bike riding he'll say oh I
finished my route in like you know 22 minutes and I don't really know what
that means I know it must mean he was fast and I know he had a good time
so I sometimes don't really get it but I can tell in his energy that this is an
accomplishment that he's feeling and sometimes in baseball he'll share with
me what his team is doing and I know a good bit about baseball but I don't
understand everything and he'll tell me an ER a or an average and I'll go that's
great and he'll say actually it's not good that's not a good average and so it
doesn't always work out but at least you're trying to celebrate
accomplishment celebrate things that feels good to that person when he comes
home and he just left the car wash and the car is cleaned boo look at that
pretty car oh I can see my reflection in it you're celebrating a win ladies this
one goes a long way with men number four this one is a little more difficult for
some of you because remember feminine energy is something we're doing for you
we're doing it for you to get you grounded in your body out of your head
out of thinking doing where you're exhausted a lot of the time and get you
back into your body and feeling good and feeling like a feminine energy woman so
I want you to take two weeks time or as long as you can and don't criticize your
man don't criticize him about anything don't tell him some other way he should
have gone or the way that you do it or the way that it's really supposed to
work anything that remotely sounds like criticism or he didn't do it right or
it's wrong just get rid of it get rid of it for a good two weeks now this is
gonna be like going on a diet for a lot of us so it's gonna start with the first
couple of hours of just noticing how you speak to him and how much you're on him
how much you're on him to make things happen I have a big problem with this
one myself because I get very task-oriented
and I want to get everything all zipped up everything put away everything took
care of and I end up exhausted and my man ends
up feeling some distance with me and that's what men do they'll feel distance
when they're overly criticized and that's why they're not spending time
with you so we want to make sure you're doing those other steps I talked about
before and try giving criticism of any type a hiatus know how to speak your
feelings speak your feelings without any expectation of an outcome but give
criticism a hiatus for as long as you can you will find another workaround
it's amazing how it works everything will work out perfectly without the
criticism number five this is my last tip for you to get a man to fall in love
with you and that is to make love visible make love visible we have all
heard of something called resting blank-faced and this is where we have a
facial expression or look to us that isn't very inviting or warm and I want
you to really learn how to make love visible so even in your text
communication or when he comes home from work it's not that I want you there
waiting by the door all smiles and ready to be the biggest cheerleader in the
world but when it is time to show love and appreciation make it visible with
your face with your smile with your voice with the energy in your body with
the things that you do and say even for yourself when you show yourself love
your children love your home love your plants love your animals you know
everything in your life that you can show love to your making that love
visible and this is what a man wants at the end of the day he's been out there
competing with so much other masculine energy you see so when he comes home he
enters the very magical world the woman and the man likes being there he likes
being there not because he gets cradled and taken care of like a baby but
because he is the king of that castle this is where he rules and I'm not
saying you don't have boundaries or rights or you're a doormat or anything
like that but this is his I'm in his place to be king of the
castle and have this beautiful loving warm woman to spend time with him you're
gonna like it it's gonna feel great cuz you're gonna have to do less and not
work so hard at hoping you get attention and affection but you get to just be you
and receive and so this is where the man wants to come home and he wants to feel
this warmth this happiness he's come home from a long day at battle and he
wants the world to feel a little bit of comfort with the two of you where you're
supporting one another you're being there for each other you're celebrating
your victories and nobody's barking orders or criticisms at the other person
so ladies try these out with the man you're dating with your husband if
you're in a relationship try these out to really warm back up love and get him
to fall in love with you now if you want to learn more I have an
e-book called "500 ways to talk to a man" it is a digital download you can keep it
on your phone your tablet or your computer you can even use the magnifying
tool that's in most PDF readers so you can actually find terms that you want to
learn about immediately so I really recommend checking out that book and my
programs and courses over at I heart love Academy the links are all below
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