big shout out to the ghosts and the ghostettes welcome to the live happy fourth of july to
everyone on this episode we talk about leaving your mc when is it time to leave
when is enough enough we get into biker news and we're going to take your calls on this episode
of demons row tv and no yeah we ghostin baby
my ghosts my ghostettes let me know in the comments if you've ever felt like leaving your mc
or you had to leave your mc for whatever reason health work the schedule just didn't work for you
lack of brotherhood there's so many reasons why people leave clubs this is the reason why
i always say the most important aspect of this culture of mc culture is the hang around process
you need to hang around long enough to you know who you're dealing with who's who sometimes
management changes and that's why we get caught in these positions if you hang around long enough
in the beginning you will see the red flags people can only be fake for so long but if you've been in
a club for years and you're thinking about leaving I'm big on accountability what what am I not
doing or what did I do wrong did I do something wrong is it other people is it political this is
what happens in clubs there's a lot of politics involved in clubs are you making it to a certain
amount of events brothers don't know what's going on with you and they will blame you
because they don't know what's going on with you you could have health issues
you could have work you know that you have to get done and sometimes you can't make it to certain
events there could be something with your kids and you're the type of person that you don't speak out
about certain things brothers will look down on you and that is a major thing as a culture that we
need to work on and we're all guilty of it we've all had our times where we're going super hard and
somebody else may be going through something and instead of asking them what they're going through
or sympathizing with that brother or trying to help the brother we look down on a brother we
we we are better than a brother he doesn't ride enough he doesn't go to enough events that's not
brotherhood brotherhood is actually reaching out to your brother and finding out what's going on
and that's why i have so much love and respect for mike ball and insanos mc shout out to the
insanos mc shout out to mike ball they are a prototypical like i like to bring them up because
they're a story that all of us here know if you don't know mike ball he lost his leg and the
way his brothers were there for him that's the standard to me for what brotherhood is and I've
seen a lot of clubs go through those situations where a brother goes down and they just you know
they you don't hear about them anymore you ask about them hey how's bro doing or whatever oh
i don't know you know there's a lot of those type of situations and i know people have busy lives
and they go through whatever they go through but to me brotherhood is is bigger than just the patch
brotherhood to me is i still love you if you're not even in the club anymore i still consider you
my brother i have known people that we were in a club together and now they're in a different
club and i still love them the same please y'all judge people off how they treat you and how you
treat them judge people of your relationship with them i never and another thing title
title is a responsibility it does not make you better than other members it does not give you the
right to be disrespectful to members it does not give you the right to put yourself on a pedestal
above people there's too much politics and power plays in this culture we need to bring it back to
the basics of just caring about a brother like people get into positions and it's like they're
not even a brother anymore they're like a father you know like they think they're like a father or
a mother the way some of these dudes act to be real with you a lot of dudes act like females
emotional if you're around it's like what have you done for me lately if you're around a lot you know
they love you but if you got stuff going on they they hate you they're talking bad about you behind
your back and that's another thing if you want a strong club if you're a newer club or if you're
in a club that has been around for a long time but they're still struggling you need to have a rule
if you have a problem with a brother you address him to his face or at the table so
that other brothers can intervene if one of the brothers is bugging out and is clearly all focused
and he needs to hear it from the other brothers but things need to be brought to the table and
people need to know face to face what's going on and a lot of these clubs don't let your board run
everything you have clubs where the board makes all the decisions and fully patched members have
no say-so fully patched members if you're a fully patched member you earn the right to have a say
so and this is what makes people leave their mc but what are the reasons why you should leave
your mc one to me that's a major thing lack of brotherhood if you fail or sisterhood because
you know it depends on what club you in but if you don't feel that basic love as a brother or sister
it's not the right place for you and you need to move on because they're holding you back
lack of direction is a reason to move away from something if you're in a certain club and they
go in a direction where maybe you're in a 99 and they transition to a diamond and you're not really
about that type of life you you enjoyed it when it was a 99 but now that transition is not good for
you then you move on it's not don't put yourself in a situation that you don't have to be in
also club hoppers have ruined the culture because people bring their issues that they
may have got kicked out of another club or the other club seen those issues and kicked them out
or they just didn't want them there anymore so they they're not out bad but they're like you
know kind of like out bad but then they just jump into another club all the issues that they came
from with that club they bring to your club that goes on in a lot of these clubs and a lot of clubs
are so thirsty for numbers and dues they continue to bring in more people just for numbers and that
is the worst thing you could do because it eats the club from the inside out quality over quantity
all day all day so my goals my goal sets take care of your family your work what you got to do
there's demands at certain clubs that are higher than other clubs do what works for you and your
family at the end of the day because a lot of these people switch in and out of clubs and
they won't even be around a couple years from now that's the way it goes a lot so you got to make
the decision what works for you and you got to be real with yourself am i the one who's wrong
or are they the ones that are bugging it sometimes it's it's both you know sometimes it's both but
let's get into a quick clip from heather she had a quick little statement that i think is dope
check it real quick what's up bro it's heather moe your favorite row reporter coming to you live from
the lake in the show me i'm here to reiterate the challenge from church last sunday we need
to double our membership we need 200 000 members by july 10th that's the deadline that's the date
that's our party so each person needs to get at least one member to subscribe if we did that we
could double overnight but not everybody's going to do that so overachievers please add a few for
us okay and debbie girl i am calling you out you owe me 15. so everybody get out there get it done
this holiday weekend network make friends join the road that's where it's at we'll see on the 10th