Hey guys, welcome to my video on
how to become irresistible to women.
Now, if you're new to my channel
I help guys decode modern women,
so you can find attract and keep your keeper.
You're here if you know that while women
absolutely definitely need to learn and appreciate
a lot about men
you can only do what you can do,
so you're here to learn what you can do.
Welcome to just the tip.
Okay, so today we're going to be talking about
the most desired traits that
women are looking for in men.
And we're going to break them down so that even you
if you're an average Joe
can actually cultivate them.
In fact, especially if you're an average Joe.
Now at first glance, these traits are going to seem obvious
but you might have got them wrong
especially if you've had bad experiences
with emotionally damaged women or toxic women.
Which yes, there's more out there right now.
But let's look at the truth about what high value
the kind of woman you really want actually desires and why.
We're going to look at status, leadership,
money, appearance and confidence.
But it's not what you think
first, let's talk about status.
Well, status is probably one of the most important
metrics women are looking for in a man.
What is status and why is it important to women?
When it comes to dating and women
status is basically how well regarded
you are by other people.
Especially people who you respect
and who the community respects.
Even if it's a small community of just
the people she knows,
why is status important?
Well, here's something you probably haven't heard before.
When you're well regarded by other people
who are respectable in her world in the community
basically they've done the filtering for her.
So, she has less to filter for
if you're already well regarded by others.
Now, you'll be happy to know you don't
have to be a celebrity to have status.
In fact, all you need is a social circle.
You don't even have to be the life of the party,
you don't even have to have lots of friends,
but you do need to have a few close connections.
It shows her other people have filtered
and found you socially acceptable.
Which actually takes some of the pressure off her
to be your whole social world as well.
So, you'll do yourself a major favor
by cultivating a few close connections, friendships.
Now, I hear you saying but how do I do that, Anna?
Here's an example, one of the guys
who did my wake up to love program
loves hiking, he's an introvert.
So, he started a hiking meetup group
co-ed and because he genuinely loves hiking
and feels most relaxed in nature.
He was able to become a natural leader
and was regarded by their group
as fun and personable.
And this brings us to the next tip
because status isn't just about having friends
it's also about leadership.
Because even independent boss babe feminists
want a guy who can lead some of the time
and more traditional women actually prefer
the man lead most of the time
while taking her feelings into consideration of course.
And why is leading important?
Again, it shows you can actually
maneuver and handle yourself in the world
and she can count on you when stuff
comes up that she maybe can't deal with,
which is going to happen in a relationship
for both parties at some point in time.
But also, it takes the pressure off her
to always have to make those decisions.
And key point, it allows her
to relax and de-stress
and lean into her genuine
and generous feminine side.
Women are attracted to leaders, so why not
be the leader of your own destiny
by starting your own meetup group
for a hobby or passion that you're interested in.
For example, I suggested to another
guy in my program who loves food
and is a foodie that he start a meetup group on foodie
like going to restaurants and whatnot.
So, the suggestion was co-ed
that way, he can meet other people
who have the same interest as him
building a social circle
starting the meetup group shows
leadership and having it co-ed
allows him to potentially meet women
who are interested in the same thing he is
while also making them feel safe in a group setting.
So, that's where it starts, the idea is
to take the group home.
So, eventually it becomes
a cooking class or cooking events
where you can do potluck at each person's home
and by doing that you introduce friends
to your own home.
Eventually when you get to cook for her alone
she's already going to feel comfortable
in your space because she's been there before.
Key point, women's primary need is what?
Yes, to feel safe physically and emotionally
and going from eating out to eating in
actually ties into my next tip.
Now, this is the one where a lot of
guys have a little bit of a wrong idea
so, it's about money heating things up in the kitchen
not only shows her you have a passion
and leadership skills
and impresses her if you actually know how to cook something.
But it also saves you some money
money is important to women.
You heard that right
but it's not about being a millionaire.
Why is money important to women?
I've already given you a hint twice
women's primary need is what?
To feel safe
financially, emotionally, physically, the works.
So, it's more about the stability and security
that money brings not only that,
but men who are able to achieve some level
of financial security not necessarily wealth
have specific traits that women find admirable.
The biggest one being commitment
you have to be committed
to actually getting ahead in the world financially
do women like commitment if they're looking for a long-term relationship?
Pardon me, I can't quite hear you.
Yes, they do
but you can demonstrate financial responsibility
in a number of different ways
that don't spoil her rotten
or break the bank and make you spend
more than you actually can afford.
You can work to advance your career.
You can start a side hustle, you can manage your finances
like a pro and work on becoming debt free.
Bonus, no debt no hope and remember these are things you want to do
for you never mind anyone else.
Again, remember high value women, the kind of woman you desire
values the character traits
that allow you to become financially secure
because she knows even if you lose it all
you'll be able to get back on your feet
and she won't have to live where?
Right under a bridge
and this actually reminds me
of the rock bottom story
she leaves a guy at rock bottom
more on that later in the videos
stay tuned for that super important.
In the meantime as an example,
I know a guy who started a small side hustle
making leather jewelry and wood art.
Not wood art.
He's actually quite naturally creative
and crafty in a crafty kind of way.
So, not only did he enjoy it
but he was also able to make enough extra bucks to buy a boat.
Now, he loves fishing and that's not necessarily
the best way to meet a woman
but it makes him happy
and he's able to bring it up
in conversation if he so chooses
which not only shows incentive,
but also his creative side
and something that he has a passion or interest in.
And proves that he can save up for something important.
Do women want a man who can save up for something important?
Probably, right. If you're thinking about having a family,
if she's thinking about having a family
then being able to save for something is going to be important to her.
Now, something else he's also
particularly good at is this next tip.
Appearance, ain't going to lie
appearance is important to women.
But unlike a lot of guys think you don't have to be
six feet tall with six pack abs
to be physically attractive to her.
To women, it's less about your physique
and how you put the whole package together
and how you carry it.
Key point, men and women are different in some ways
now, here's the truth
that you may not agree with
but I'm going to back it up with some points
you'll be like oh, yeah right, okay.
Maybe that's true, all right.
So, men care less about women's fashion
and more about what's hiding under it.
Whereas brain scans, studies,
and the proliferation of men's
nudie magazines and porn clearly indicate
that men are more interested
in the actual physical looks of a woman
than women are of the same thing in men.
Okay, so why is appearance important to women then?
Because it shows your state of mind
and how much you care
never mind about what other people think.
Let me explain, if you dress like a slob,
are excessively overweight,
never bathe or brush your teeth,
eat garbage all day long, that says something about you.
Sorry guys but you know it does.
It not only says
how much you care or don't care in general,
but also how long you might live or not live.
Women are looking for long term if you want to keep her
she's going to be looking for down the road are you going to survive?
Are you going to die?
Is she going to live under the bridge?
She is not going to feel safe if your choices
are rocketing you to an early grave
and before you say women are all shallow
and just looking for Chad
let's put the shoe on the other foot.
Namely your foot, do you want a woman
who's a slob, excessively overweight,
doesn't brush her teeth or bathe,
eats garbage all the time?
Exactly and even though
hot does not equal high value
you probably want someone who cares
a little bit about their health and appearance,
same goes for women.
And while some guys
think they need to be in perfect shape
that's not actually the case
unless she's excessively insecure or vain
if you are looking for a low value shallow throwback
you're on the wrong channel.
Otherwise, you can elevate your physique
by working out, by dressing well for your body type,
eating healthier, grooming yourself,
dressing well does not mean dressing expensive.
For example, some of the guys
who took my wake up to love program
who had slacked in this department
started getting healthier by eating better and yep,
hitting the gym these are the easiest things you can do
to get started.
And as a result, they gained more energy,
they gained more confidence, their skin cleared up,
they balance their hormones
and they looked and felt way better and you know what,
it boosted their confidence
and changed their interactions with women.
Which brings us to the next tip.
Confidence, yes, confidence is key
but key point, confidence isn't about
being loud or obnoxious or even overly alpha.
True confidence is actually about being non-needy,
not desperate, and comfortable in your own
skin around other people and in the world.
Why is confidence important to women?
When you value yourself and exude self-assurance,
women will value you too.
I've said in many other videos
women mirror your feelings about you
because when a man isn't needy
he's choosy and selective
is the opposite of desperate.
Key point, she knows if you're choosy and choose her
then she's potentially worthy of you
and she also trusts
your interest is actually sincere
and you're not going to just level up
when your self-esteem increases
and you find out oh, I can have who I want to have.
If you're already in that mindset and you choose her
she trusts that you're actually going
to be loyal to her. Said another way,
she knows you have other options
but you chose her.
All of these things
that the guys mentioned did
are things that helped them build their true confidence.
But there are other things you can do that are
specific to you and your life.
my wake up to love program will
help you find the specific solutions
to where your blind spots are.
You don't need every woman,
you just need the right woman for you.
Key point, some of the things you do
won't work for every woman that's actually good news
because that's part of your filtering process.
Remember you don't have to be a celebrity or some hot shot.
A lot of good women
just want a regular normal guy
who has some of these qualities to some degree
and who isn't desperately needy.
If you want help developing these qualities
where you need it most then you definitely want to
consider my wake up to love program
because it's actually going to focus on the areas of status
in all of these categories where you need it the most for you
never mind anybody else.
And it's a one-time cost and you have access forever
if you fully commit to doing the work in my program
all the homework then you can actually start feeling
like a totally different man in just a few weeks.
But fair warning, some of the homework is uncomfortable.
You're going to be doing some work at home
and you're going to be doing some work out in the real world.
It's going to get you out of your comfort zone
where does life begin?
Right out of your comfort zone.
So, if you want to become irresistible to women
then check out my program today
and if you've already done my program
and you've slacked in any of these areas,
then you want to review
some of the points in it
so, that you can get back on track.
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what happened to the guy
who was left at rock bottom
you're going to want to watch my video
on she leaves a guy at rock bottom.
You're going to want to watch that because
there's the guy that got left
and then there was Bob
who was in the same predicament
didn't get left behind, no.
So, be like Bob watch that video
thanks for being here, God bless.