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Imagine a man praying to God
that he gets to marry you.
That man is the man who God has for you.
That’s what we’re going to talk about today,
and discuss this idea that the man
who God has for you,
will pursue you.
As well as a couple other things
I want to mention real quick.
Now, before I get into this subject,
I want to hear your comments on this;
your thoughts.
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Now,
let's get into this,
the man who God has for you
will pursue you.
Yes,
he will pursue you,
but that doesn't mean he’s going to chase you.
I see a lot of women of God,
a lot of believers,
who get into this mindset.
That they can pretty much go hide in the corner,
and that God’s going to drop this
man in their lap.
And everything is going to work out because
he's going to come after you,
and he's going to make it happen.
Unfortunately,
this way of thinking
is a set up for disaster every single time.
Because the reality is that, yes,
the man who God has for you
is going to see your value.
Is going to want something serious with you.
Is going to want to build with you
and he is going to be willing to put forth
the effort
to getting to know you,
and reaching that next level with you.
However,
if you take an approach
that says he has to chase me,
he has to earn my attention.
He has to jump through all these extra hoops.
You are a very likely to either
push him away
or block the pathway of that man
getting to you in the first place.
Now, you may say, “Well, no, that can happen,
because if that’s who God has for me
then it will all work out.”
That's not true.
Again,
we have choices we have to make
in life,
and we have to understand that
plenty of people,
plenty of women, since I’m speaking
directly to the women on this one.
Have set themselves up for failure.
Have pushed those men away.
Have sabotaged those situations.
Have been unable to
properly receive,
nurture and experience
the great relationship,
and not just the great relationship
but the great life
that God had laid out for you.
You have to be aware
of not only
how to be ready and
willing--
and I know you may say you’re willing,
but actually, emotionally,
mentally, and spiritually
willing, and ready
to receive,
nurture, and embrace
that man, and that life, and that purpose,
that God has laid out for you.
You also have to be able to
know how to recognize it.
Because so many women
get hurt,
get caught up in dysfunctional relationships
because their selection process
is off.
They are choosing the wrong man to entertain.
They are
allowing themselves to be
occupied by dead-end relationships,
and men who have no interest
in pouring into you
the way God intended to.
Let me give you something real quick
I have my book,
The man God has for you.
It is a best-selling book.
You can check the reviews.
Women are going crazy over it,
are loving it.
It is setting them free
from negative cycles,
negative relationships,
and it is helping them
find that great relationship.
Not with just with a man
but with themselves and with God.
I want you to check it out.
Again, The man God has for you.
Real quick, you can also click
the link in the
description or you can click the link
that I have in the comments section,
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I'm telling you,
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Let me touch on something that I mentioned
in the book.
One of the chapters or one of the sections,
and it piggy-backs off of the statement I just
made about women selection process,
and getting involved with the wrong guys.
There’s a section in the book,
that talks about
the prayer that most women pray.
That prayer is,
"God,
if this man is that for me,
please, remove him from my life."
Or, and I’m paraphrasing because you may say it in
a different way, but essentially,
“God, if this is not the guy
take him away.”
“Make this easy for me.”
“Eliminate the situation
from my life.”
In the book,
I explain
why this is not the way to pray.
Let me give you one of the biggest reasons
why this is not the way to pray
because in a lot of situations,
if not most, or all,
what you’re essentially doing
is.
One putting the responsibility on God
and not yourself
to make the right choices,
and to move in the right direction.
That’s not what God's trying to
teach you.
If you have a child, think about it.
Do you want to always do
things for your child,
or do you want to teach your child
how they can do for themselves,
and moving direction that you know is best for them?
Guess what?
God wants the same for you,
so one, you have to always
be willing to embrace
your role and your responsibilities
to make the right choices
through his guidance.
Also, the other issue with this
prayer is
you essentially go into this position
of a wait-and-see.
When you're waiting and seeing
you have your guard up.
You have walls up.
You are essentially not
pouring into the situation,
and you're waiting for the next
ball to drop
that says,
"Get out of this situation."
Or, "He’s not the guy for you."
That may sound okay, to some of you,
but if you haven’t healed,
if you've already been through some things,
then you are already looking at things
with a very skeptical
eye.
Therefore if you are going to
jump at any little thing
even when it's not
something you should be running away from.
Or even when it is something that can
easily addressed
and corrected,
so you put yourself in the very
defensive position
by praying in this way.
In the book,
I give you the way that you should pray.
The way you should address this issue
and talk to God about it,
so that you can make sure
to know when you’re dealing with the right one
or the wrong one.
There’s a bunch of other things in the book
it breaks down the seven traits
to look for,
to know if this is the person
you could spend your life with,
and to know of this is the person
that God truly has for you.
Be sure again,
click the link in the description.
Click the link in the comments
and also
leave your thoughts below.
Yes.
The man God has for you
will pursue you,
but he's not going to chase you.
You got to make sure you are ready
and able to receive him,
so that you can experience
the love that God has set forth for you.