Hello, it's Mark here from Make Him Yours, and today, we're going to have a bit of fun.
It's how to flirt with a guy using your body language and most specifically your hands.
I'm going to show you a few little secrets of body language so that you can be a better
flirt. Don't forget to download the 12 Texts to Make Him Yours and I will see you in just
a second.
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All right. We recently had the second video on how to touch a guy, and there's a few tips
in there on how to use your hands to touch a guy. And today, I just wanted to cover some
extra tools with body language that you can use so you can flirt and get the best communication
and messages across using your body. So the first one is make sure your hands are above
the table. So hands are interpreted as a sign of honesty, of openness, of communication.
This is why they make you raise your palms when you're swearing an oath. You always want
to have your hands above the table on a date. See how in this date scene Jermia's hands
are together and below the table. This shows that she's a little withdrawn and not quite
feeling as confident on the date.
Now she brings her first hand up. She looks a little better and with both hands above
the table, she looks much more confident and expressive. And don't forget, having your hands
above the table doesn't mean you always have them together, blocking him off either. Keep
them nice and open and the guy's going to feel that you're open and receptive to him.
Number two, palms down for confidence and strength. Palms up for openness and vulnerability.
So what you do with your hands and the way you hold your palms communicates different
messages to the guy. Palms up can be a much more open and vulnerable state or it can be
a state of uncertainty. Whereas if you put your palms down, you appear much more strong
and confident. See how in this clip Jermia seems to be seeking his validation, her palms
are up, she's wanting a response from him as opposed to now she turns them over, says
it how it is and is looking a lot more confident and certain within herself.
Overall, you're going to find a natural balance with this that works for you. You just want
to make sure that what you're communicating with your body is congruent with what you're
saying and what you're feeling inside of you, so palms down is going to be more confidence
whereas palms up if you want to make the flirting more intimate. Number three, no fidgeting,
so there's two ways, two clear ways that nervous energy will come across to your date. I'm
going to talk about one of them in part two of this little video series, but the first
one right now is fidgeting with your hands. When you're constantly playing with things
or letting out that nervous energy with your hand movements, your date is going to sense
that and he's going to feel nervous as well. See how fidgety and nervous Jermia seems in this clip?
She goes from grabbing the one bottle to her fork and then it's both hands on the fork.
Her date's going to feel the nervous energy coming from her here. As opposed to now. She
takes a deep breath, puts the fork down and like the confident secure woman that she
is. She portrays a lot more certainty to her date, and again, makes an amazing impression.
Well that's the video. Thank you for watching. Let me know your thoughts, comments, questions.
What'd you think of these flirting tips? Should I bring Jermia back and do another video on
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[Showing bloopers] Pause this conversation. One moment. We'll assess what's happening
and it's under the table quite dogmatic right now. It's been the pool. It's conversation,
I'm not really sure is intentional or not. Yeah. So I'm still nervous and that's on my
hands. When something's happening under the table, be your hands, can you see like this
nose? And instead I'm actually projecting it's really good, Mark. And I'm pretty good
at that. And now I'm uncomfortable. I'll say that even a little bit more, but kind of like
working in to use my hands like a little bit more, cause I'm very, very talented as on
my feet. Oh Doug, really.