Harry and Meghan finally arrived at the Hague and most probably you thought that something
was off with their body language.
And it has a lot to do with Meghan's behavior, for a hidden reason that you're about to find
out.
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Of all the footage that I have seen, there's this hard to find video that shows a very
distinct attitude between Meghan and Harry.
As usual, It's best if you let your intuition absorb what you can see at first sight.
But before I give you the answer, we have to take a look at Harry and Meghan's main
attitude.
Especialy Harry, that has a great stride, walking tall with his shoulders broad and
a very good attitude.
It reminds us of that 2017 Invinctus Games Entrance with Meghan.
He also displays solid handshakes and good posture.
As for Meghan, it's great to see her NOT trying to push Harry away, so it seems that she's
been watching my videos!
Now, maybe Harry's cheerful attitude is because Dutch authorities have declared them VVIP,
which, it would be easy to suppose that it means "Very Very Important Persons".
But let's be honest.
I'm sure that in this case, the acronym stands for Visibly Vain Indifferent Poseurs.
I do my best not to be too rough, but when I find out that Meghan is going to read The
Bench, AGAIN, there's no way to get around something that is fundamentally wrong.
It's not that reading to children is wrong.
It's that it looks like she's trying to push her book once again.
And no, it doesnt work even with putting the words 'secret reading' on it, because if we
found it through the Daily Mail, then it's as secret as Kilye Jenner's love life.
Exactly what happened with the 'secret' meeting with the Queen.
It got leaked to the press just for attention, and in this case, that attention should be
exclusively for the Invictus Games.
Well... maybe this is some kind of punishment from the publishing company for books unsold,
who knows.
But If it was for Meghan, she will not stop until she gets to read it in space.
Maybe she can find some 'privacy' up there.
Meghan's choice of wearing white has almost always been the right one.
There's more than a few examples of this color looking nice on her.
Except for you, Twiggy dress.
Please, go and... play with your marshmallow friend!
It's a way to project innocence and being pure, and when she manages to connect it with
a nice, genuine smile, then it works really well.
The problem is when she begins to force the effect with gestures like this one, with her
hand on her chest.
You don't know if she's merching the jewelry, or something.
It always looks unnatural on her, because she's got a very strong, Leo personality that
doesn't cater well to those defensive hand displays.
And it was inevitable that people were going to compare Meghan's attire to what Kate wore
on her second day in Jamaica, a few weeks ago.
Which, now that we can look at them, side by side, proves that there is more than one
way to wear orange!
But something that I don't like is when people begin attacking someone's personal features,
like suggesting that Meghan had 'aging spots' on her hand.
While it's true that as people age, their hands begin to display subtle spots, it's
not that difficult to look for other photos of Meghan to realize that those are just her
freckles, and they have been on display since those high resolution, engagement photos.
Besides the face, hands are strong focal point in the way we read and interpret other's behavior.
If you want to pay attention to someone's hands, make sure you do it in moments like
these, when she's doing that strange handshake with her fingers extended over the person's
wrist, which is a very sensitive area.
It's a subtle invasion.
I'm not sure that Meghan does that on purpose, but what I can tell you is that THIS kind
of gestures go hand in hand, (pun intended) with her strong personality.
Now, Meghan is in dire need of a manicure, and I really don't want to come off as nitpicking,
but I had to say this for a very good reason.
The way we take care of our hands says a lot about how we take care of ourselves.
That is a relationship that happens automatically in our brains.
And it's not only that she needs a manicure for aesthetics, because the real problem is
that the world can see that she bites her nails.
You can see that right below the nail and on the side of her thumb, the skin is pinkish.
Thats' from stripping skin with your teeth, which is exactly what happened with her ring
finger here.
And yes, many people bite their nails, but it doesn't make it a good thing.
Because you're revealing to everyone that you feel some kind of anxiety or distress,
and that's not something that you want the world to know.
But Meghan is actually listening to me!
As I said, she's behaving quite well upon arriving, and one thing I noticed is that
in many instances, her thumb is inside Harry's hand, or it's his thumb the one that it's
on top.
That's one of the things I have mentioned in other videos.
That Meghan, with that strong character of her, always has a dominant grip, or a dominant
stare, or a dominant attitude.
But maybe, just maybe, she knows that she had to let Harry shine this time because they
were in his turf, in his big moment so she had to go with the flow.
Even so, it would be hard to think that people are buying into this sudden change.
But well, there's always the option of just ignoring Meghan, just like this gentleman
that is not impressed AT ALL with her conversation.
Yeah, he's definitely ignoring her.
Or maybe he doesn't want to appear on Netflix for free.
Who knows?
That video I showed you previously is important because in a moment when they thought that
the cameras were not rolling anymore, they displayed their usual behavior.
Harry's chin just drops to his chest.
It's like introvert people when we have spent most of our social energy and we cannot pretend
any longer.
Meghan, on the other hand, still has her chin up and looks energetic and confident.
It's easy to spot that she loves this kind of engagements, when there are a lot of eyes
on her.
There's also the difference between their facial expressions.
I'm not saying that Harry has to smile all the time, but it's always the same contrast
between them.
Not to mention that Meghan's hand is resting over Harry's in a dominant position too.
That's easy to miss, but at the same time is a confirmation that their usual couple
dynamics hasn't changed after all.
It was just waiting to manifest at the right time.
And speaking of manifesting, there was no way that Meghan was not going to spot a long
distance camera at some point of this event.
You know that those abilites can't just be tossed aside like that, including that clear
display of the Meghan Claw, of which I already did a video some time ago and we were expecting
a new appearance sooner or later.
Anyway, it's nice to use Meghan and Harry's example to study body language thanks to being
able to track their behaviors for such a long time frame.
And this is what makes them such a great case.
Not to mention the memes.
Oh, the memes!
they make my work so much fun!
It's something that I just can't help, because I have come to realize that my mind works...
let's say, in mysterious ways.
But well, closing the production of this video they were making their grand entrance to the
Invictus Games inauguration, so whatever happens next, you're gonna see it on tomorrow's video.
let me know in the comments.
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My name is Jesús Enrique Rosas and it will always be a pleasure, my body language buddies!
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