so you're basically saying they're just
dating me because I can buy any things
I knew my family would have advised
against me marrying a visa but I still
did it anyways we've been married for
six months and it feels good I hate bein
married to George I think that a lot of
people don't like to admit it but
everyone loves a good train wreck if
that weren't true traffic wouldn't slow
down on a freeway when there's an
accident on the other side of the median
but for me I really love watching a good
disastrous relationship I loved it when
shows like Jersey Shore went on the air
even though that show was fake I loved
seeing it on MTV's true life and I like
to indulge in watching a relationship
burn in the modern day so I have a show
that I've been waiting to talk about for
quite a while called 90-day fiance which
i think is perfect marketing from The
Learning Channel they have found a
formula that literally guarantees that
the relationships will be destructive
and therefore interesting to watch the
premise of the show is that these
couples get a visa and have their future
spouse fly over to America all on their
own dime TLC pays for none of it they
don't even pay the people on the visa
because it's illegal and despite the
popularity of the show American cast
members only get like $1,000 in episode
after they get their visa they have 90
days to decide if they're going to get
married or be deported and the American
partners are supposed to wonder are they
are they in it for the green card yes
they're in it for the green card
all of them are I mean they aren't even
getting paid for the show why would you
even have to ask that we get it though
you can't afford a high-status partner
from America so you're rummaging through
the discount bin from another country to
see if you can get a good deal on a
spouse I mean this show is so
transparent on that point that you can
tell who the foreigner is just by
looking at the couples so guys let's
play a game in the comment section I'm
going to show you a few pictures of
couples and you tell me your answers of
which partner you think is a foreigner
let's try the first couple
who is on a visa Molly or Lois got your
answer next tell me which one of these
two is in it for the green card
Alexandra or Josh Nikola is on who is
rummaging through that discount bend to
find a spouse with a higher number do
you think Mohammed is the American or is
it Danielle last one cult or Larissa
which one of them is pretending to enjoy
the sex
all right guys pencils down let's get to
our main couple George and Anfisa Anfisa
is a female entrepreneur /x cam girl
from Russia who wants to live the
American dream George is a pot dealer
from reef recycle fornia who said he
would buy on visa anything she wanted
when she moved to America when George
asked me to come to the States he
promised to get me whatever I want or
whatever makes you happy I am beautiful
and I like nice clothes nice shoes nice
purses so
I expect him to pay for all that what
about price point what are you
comfortable with ha what does your most
expensive dress um our most expensive
dress would be $45,000 you keep wanting
more and more like when is the end after
you want some you want some - no after
you get that year I want to know yeah
like there's never gonna be an end to it
now after seeing all this you might ask
why would George put up with her she's
not attractive and she's definitely not
worth $10,000 a month I mean if she was
like a 10 I can see why George wouldn't
just kick her to the curb
so really none of this makes sense but
then I found something that better
explain the situation and so the handful
of women watching this you should pay
close attention this is how ugly plastic
surgery makes you look take a look at
these before and after photos on the
left we see a pre plastic surgery Anfisa
who was a strong eight or nine out of
ten on the right we see a post botox on
the-- so who has lowered her number to a
seven the big Botox lips ruined the
symmetry of her face which makes her
look like a clown and that is always the
case with Botox Botox looks gross and
men don't like it that plus a little
weight gain and by the time she's
married to George she brings herself
down to a five or six keep in mind that
when this was filmed she was in her
early 20s now if you were to watch any
videos on George and Anfisa and then
also read the comment section you will
see that many people are saying that she
is virtuous because she's honest about
her gold-digging behavior and George is
the bad guy for not meeting her demands
and they were partially right George
didn't lie about his wealth but she's
not honest either but her own words the
deal was that he would give her money
and she would be attractive so basically
you're saying if I can't provide I'm
worthless
but she didn't hold up her end of the
bargain after she moved she got Botox
and fake boobs which again ladies lowers
your number you are spending money on
and going through painful surgeries for
stuff that makes you look less
attractive so she got fake boobs Botox
and then gained a bunch of weight George
originally bargained for a nine but by
the time they were married he ended up
with a five that makes her a liar and
even if she didn't make a bunch of
choices that made her look less
attractive just because she was honest
about her intentions doesn't make her
actions right if a killer is honest
about murdering people
does that absolve him of his crimes I
wonder if the woman in joint on theses
honesty also called men pigs who openly
say that they are only interested in a
woman for her looks outside of that for
those who who are unaware this is the
kind of person Anfisa is she broke
phone's plural I tried calling her she
uh she raised my phone
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that's just an attention thing I feel
like I'm pulling over what do you want
she's calling me up and texting me
trying to FaceTime me and see where I'm
at and trying to control every move that
I do hello
it's the prom well what what are you
doing this is a go through all the time
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what is the problem I am coming back I
am coming back on because I think I
deserve more than 50% no matter when we
divorced I think I deserve everything
and he's not going to take it from me
she doesn't want to take on debt but
then yeah it spends my money so what I'm
not gonna screw myself over just because
you you want to be happy I'm agreeing to
certain things
nothing I think you're too mature to to
know this
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so what don't smile at me like that I'm
telling you it's tell me what huh I'm
telling you that it's me what now you
can talk all about how they edit reality
TV most of you probably know me from a
reality TV show and I'm sure you know
that these kind of shows are heavily
edited but no matter how they edit this
show if I was in a relationship with her
and she broke two of my phones did a
factory reset on my phone because she
was mad screamed
now at me keyed my car or hit me if she
did just one of those things then the
relationship would be over clever
editing didn't make it seem like she did
that she actually did those things now
on the topic of um pieces recent
behavior since her husband was arrested
for driving with nearly 300 pounds of
weed in his car she has lost weight in a
lot her Botox to wear off
which raises her number back up a little
bit curious though she says she hates
being married to George and as soon as
he is gone in prison she starts making
herself look more attractive I'm sure
you guys know what she's planning to do
especially considering they have already
been married long enough for her to
still get permanent residency even if
they get a divorce all the while being
supportive of George during his time of
need
Anfisa is weighing her options should
she stay with George or leave him
judging by her recent decision to become
a competitive bodybuilder it looks like
she wants to leave him but her actions
support both games whether she is trying
to monkey branch or not Tom Leykis would
call this investing for the future women
will pay for a few dates upfront to rub
you in and then once you're hooked
expect you to pay for absolutely
everything she spends $200 on a few days
and then gets tens of thousands of
dollars spent on dates in return if you
try to call her out on it she will just
refer back to the beginning of the
relationship and say oh I'm a gold
digger don't you remember that one time
when I paid for a date three years ago
if George is the best Anfisa can get
that any time he calls her a gold digger
she could just bring up the fact that
she was nice to him while I was in
prison and rope him back in she will use
that as blackmail on him for years
she might even throw in the I do
everything for you and you do nothing
for me cleeshay
just because someone was nice in the
past and paid for something doesn't mean
you are currently exchanging equivalent
value that's like paying a contractor
for one job and then expecting him to do
all of his future jobs for free
now if Anfisa goes the other way decides
she wants to leave George and that
causes her legal issues then she can
point out that she cared for him when he
was in jail so she didn't just marry him
to get a green card this is all her
playing the game
she's already shown us who she is and
that kind of person doesn't magically
flip into a saint in two years time
particularly when there's no benefit in
doing that so why is George putting up
with this why won't he just leave her
why didn't he leave Anfisa
during the show it's not like he wasn't
warned about her behavior honestly I
believe that she thought she was coming
here to the US thank you for every
single thing that she asked for yeah
that's what happens when you pay for
somebody spread their legs
I knew my family would have advised
against me marrying an visa but I still
did it anyways people have told him how
this whole thing is going to play out
and he is not unaware of his situation
so I want you guys to pay close
attention because when you see a guy
like maybe one of your friends walking
right into an obvious trap this is why I
want you to think of George like a
heroin addict if someone is addicted to
heroin it doesn't matter how many times
you tell them it's bad for them they're
still going to do heroin
George is an addict he is repeating a
destructive behavior despite the
negative consequences why because he
likes being stepped on by women and
she's very controlling she likes to be
bossy and I kind of like that I kind of
like her firmness of you know her
standing her ground but I also stand my
ground too so you know that's where
conflict comes into play believe it or
not there are actually a lot of rich
guys who are into this there's a really
interesting episode of Joe Rogan with
Ciara Lynch where she talks about how
guys would pay her so they could watch
her waste their money shopping online
now understandably some of you were more
normal friends may not be into the sub
Dom culture but it's still a variant of
this if you know someone who is in a
terrible relationship and they stay with
that partner they are doing it because
they're an addict we measure addiction
by negative consequence and there are
all kinds of bad things that can happen
to you when you're in a relationship
with an abusive partner like I'm Visa
now of course if you see a friend in
danger then as a good friend you can
warn them you would be a terrible friend
if you saw your friend walking towards a
cliff and didn't try to stop them you
can give him the tools to avoid the
negative consequences but if he ignores
your warnings then the only thing you
can do is let his addictive behavior
cause him to fall and that might mean
some pretty disastrous things that might
mean jail it might mean losing half of
his stuff it might mean paying five
years of alimony it might mean paying
eighteen years for a kid that's not his
it might mean becoming homeless oh well
that's what he's chosen and if you try
to get in the way of his failure you
will only make it worse
for example let
say you have a family member who is an
alcoholic and they lose her home you say
no problem just come live with me by
doing that you have just removed the
consequences of their bad decisions so
instead of saying wow I see the errors
of my ways they're going to say great I
don't have to pay rent anymore so I can
afford to drink George from 90 day
fiancé is experiencing that now his
relationship with on Visa has had
negative consequences
he is currently in jail and who's to say
that he didn't make that mistake with
his medical marijuana business because
he was trying to rake in more cash to
meet unfreezes demands now he has
already been warned so if someone helps
him like posting bail or becomes his
emotional tampon for all his problems
with his wife that he would just say
great I have all the support I need so I
don't have to make any changes and
that's how the cycle works that's why
these people won't listen to reason
that's why every addict is in denial
they need strong negative consequences
before they will make any changes you
can help people who want to be helped
but if they refuse you then the best
thing you can do is shut up and don't
support them when they are hurt by their
bad choices otherwise you will make them
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