- Being classy is really a part of being high value.
High value men love classy women, and the thing is
there are not that many classy women out there
and that's in society in general I think,
I really do think it's a hidden gem.
So today we're gonna be talking about four attractive things
that tell men that you have class.
I'm sure you will absolutely love this video,
and again, make sure that you are honest with yourself
and you try to do as much self-reflection as you can
because then it's gonna help you the most.
Hi ladies, my name is Ieva,
I am one of Greta's high value women coaches,
and today I'm gonna be talking
about four attractive things
that tell men that you have class.
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So the number one thing to look out for
is to not wear certain clothes.
This is a really simple thing, but it is 100% overlooked.
Don't show your cleavage,
especially in the early stages of dating.
It definitely gives the wrong signal,
which is something that is very important.
If you are going out with a guy
and you are not married to him,
you're not engaged to him or anything like that,
make sure that your skirt is not too short.
These are the simple things I'm talking about
when it comes down to clothes.
It does not come across classy at all,
and actually it comes across quite slutty,
which is a complete no-go for a high value man,
especially if he is looking for a life partner.
So have a look at your wardrobe
and make the changes yourself.
I mean it's great to look nice and to feel good
and to show your personality,
but you are not going to win anyone over
if you wear clothes that men's eyes
are literally gonna be glued to.
So that is a big no no.
Instead, try to find your own style,
by maybe going for something more classy, more fun,
or even more elegant.
This will make a very big difference
in the way people will treat you,
and in the way men are going to look at you
and react to you.
And they're either gonna take you seriously or not.
And if you're going to be wearing clothes
that show a lot of cleavage,
then it puts you in the quick fling section.
Number two is you have manners.
Obviously having good manners is a must,
and I personally think it is extremely attractive
whether that is a man or a woman who has good manners.
The fact is if you have good manners,
that will always rub off on your guy,
especially when you have a partner,
you're obviously going to be spending time together.
So the characteristics of the person
and the traits do rub off.
Having good posture, having good manners,
and being respectful are just the elementary things
that make a woman classy and that a high value man,
would really be attracted to.
In accordance to this
of course taking care of yourself is important
but this does not mean that you should go over the top.
It's definitely not about being vain
or putting too much into your looks.
I also think that is actually a big no-no.
I think it's more about taking care of yourself
in a classy, respectful and elegant way.
Also of course, listening to people
and not interrupting them mid sentence
is obviously a must, but is so overlooked,
and this can be practiced
simply when you're talking to friends as well,
because it's just as important there too.
When you are not interrupting people
and letting people finish their sentences,
this shows a lot of emotional control and a lot of class.
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Number three is you are feminine.
I personally think being feminine is super classy
and I am really a fan of it.
Being confident and happy and being a woman
and being in your feminine is very attractive
and also very classy.
For a woman in most cases,
being feminine is a natural state.
Also don't call your guy names like dude
or names that guys call each other,
I really wouldn't do that
because it's something that a guy calls a guy
and not a girlfriend calls a boyfriend.
Also the backside of this is that
he might then start treating you more like a buddy,
instead of an actual girlfriend.
So make sure that you look out for that.
The fourth thing is you are kind and have confidence.
Confidence is 100% not about being mean.
You can be confident
by not even taking yourself too seriously
and being okay with laughing at yourself,
if you do make a mistake or say something silly
or do something silly, that's perfectly fine.
As a matter of fact, that is very attractive for men
because it shows that
you are a fun person to be around with
and someone that you can have a good laugh with.
Confidence is so much more of an inside job.
So for example, if someone actually
crosses the line with you,
setting a boundary is a must
and Greta has a great video on setting boundaries,
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and learning how to set boundaries and doing that
in a polite and firm way shows a lot of class,
because you set a standard
for the respect that you deserve.
Being kind and understanding
also shows a lot of class as well,
I think because it shows that you are capable
of seeing other people's opinions and hearing them out
and not just your own, which shows a lot of open-mindedness,
it shows smarts and it shows class.
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