hello hello Hana the Suburban Witch here and today I want to talk to you about cord cutting.
So what is cord cutting? Well we can often find ourselves
through life in an attachment with another person that is no longer serving
us so this person may be pulling us down and maybe a negative attachment it might
be a toxic ex it could be a toxic friend and it could just be someone who doesn't
really make you feel good to be around them but some for some reason you feel
drawn to them or stuck to them or you can't get them out of your mind
or out of their life, this is when a cord cutting ceremony can be really really
beneficial to you, and what this does is it severs that emotional and energetic
attachment that you have to this person and it sometimes doesn't work the first
time you may need to do this ritual depending on how that cord is fastened
to you you may need to do this a couple of times and that's okay
the other thing with a cord cutting ceremony is they can be really emotional
this might be person that you have invested years and years of time and
emotions with it could be a family member there could be a lot of reasons
why this is really really difficult to do and that's okay too
just make sure you do it when you're all ready and when you feel safe and like
you can let go and this is the right step forward.
now there's a couple of different ways you can go about a cord cutting ceremony, you can do it purely in
the mind as a visual representation of what's going to happen or you can do
this with props so depending on what sort of person you are is going to
depend which calls to you. I'm going to show you the one with props first
because that will give you a good idea and then you can sort of make up your
mind from there. So one of the best ways is to get two candles that have really
long wicks so that could be a little bit harder to find generally you want ones
that are hand dipped because they, these ones are, they've been held by this and then
dipped in so that is giving us a longer wick. You could find a candle maker who
will do this you can even find a candle maker who makes a two candle with one
wick type of deal right so that is out there what you would do with this though,
is either you can dip it in wax to join the two wicks together or you can simply
tie them together so that you have two candles one wick. Now what you would do
with the self dipped candle as you might have seen in my candle magic episode is
you would melt this section onto a plate or a candle holder that would then help
it to stand upright. What you can do with this one as well this is about a spell
candle it's a short term short burn candle maybe one to two hours you can
carve your name on one the other person's name on the other any sigils
that you want or you've created for that person for yourself you can write on
here that you're wanting to be free, wanting to be free of any attachment that
sort of thing whatever you believe will put power into it, and choosing a candle
with the right color that's representing that relationship will help too. So a Pink
can be really good for a friendship or someone that you really truly love or
loved, red might be for a sexual relationship or something that was very
intense maybe something like a twin flame or a karmic connection so that can
be you know your choice which color you go with, family member could be blue it
could be white just depends. Go with what your intuition tells you is right okay
if all else fails I think white is a really good one to use or even black as
well for this purpose so what you do is you will tie those two together have
them both sitting on their plate and then you're going to sit there and take
a few deep breaths imagine you and this person sort of imagine your image over
them you can use a photograph you can put that under the candle that's totally
fine you could even glue a photo of the two of you onto here as well like the
photo and then like the candle wick. So what it's doing is it's showing you a
visual representation of those two together breaking apart and then let
them burn out. So that is a candle magic form of cord cutting.
Now the next one is quite similar and it is simply using a string
so again you might put a picture of either of you attached to the ends of
this string or even in the middle you're going to do whatever feels right to you
and this ceremony you can make it your own the more personalized you make it
the more power it will have and again lighting the middle or you can use
scissors or a dagger a knife anything like that to sever through this cord
okay that will break that energetic attachment so it's a nice simple one you
just need a piece of string.
Lastly now, this is my personal favorite, that's just my vibe is a visualization. Now what you need to do with this
I recommend you set your space so have your candles or your smoke cleansing and
your crystals out anything that makes you feel safe and ready to perform a
working then what you're going to do is you're going to visualize yourself in
your spiritual or auric body so imagine you and your aura okay so it's not
imagining you in this space here and now the physical plane, more in the spiritual
plane, so you imagine that and then you imagine that you can see this cord this
energetic attachment usually it comes from our stomach near the solar plexus
chakra think of it almost like an umbilical cord and if you have seen the
movie Donnie Darko similar to that where he has those big cords running out but
smaller I've generally in my imagination and has been smaller so this energetic
cord that connects you to that other person you can imagine their aura and
their energy so you can stretch out your mind stretch out your imagination to
imagine both your spiritual bodies okay now when we're talking energies this is
your energy body your spiritual body distance and time do not matter so you
can imagine even no matter where they are in the world it can be someone who
has passed on as well, it doesn't matter, you can still imagine both your energy
bodies and that cord that attaches now I find a good way to do this is to imagine
how that cord looks is it strong? is it brittle? is it dark?
is it decaying? how does it look? how does it feel? really really visualize what
this cord attaching you looks like and then and you can do this, you're
visualizing, you can do this physically with your hand or you can just do it in
your mind's eye you're imagining that you cut this cord
now the key with this one it's a little bit different to the others is you
imagine I mean those cords are flailing about in the middle of nowhere they can
reattach, so you want to imagine both ends of that you just cut them putting
them into the ground okay into the earth it's called earthing right so that goes
to the ground it's not going to connect back to you again, now if you're not
quite ready to let this relationship go you can take an extra step and imagine a
brand-new cord going from you to this other person but it is healthy and it is
flowing with light and good energy and this can help repair a relationship as
well it's not always to completely cut someone out that can help repair or if
you're not quite ready it just makes it a little bit less toxic but if you're
wanting to completely cut them off cut it out pop it into the ground and then
close your aura back into yourself and come out of your meditative state. Now try
this see how it feels to you see how it changes things in your physical realm
and if it hasn't done a lot it could be a really strong attachment and you may
need to try a couple of times that's okay that is normal it just depends on
that energetic attachment that you have with that person so I really hope this
helps you please leave me a comment subscribe like the video let me know any
suggestions you have for future content I am all ears
and as always I hope you have a lovely day wherever you are today bye