Man in the video: "This video is pure evil. Women have no self-esteem guys.
They really are low self-esteem creatures.
That's why they need attention from me and constantly to feel good about
themselves because they have very low. Self-esteem.
All this makes her feel like she's not good enough.
You're making her feel like she's unimportant.".
Matt: I officially want to gouge my eyes out.
Apparently you should make her feel worthless and tear down her self-esteem.
That's flat out evil, but it's okay, man.
I'm here to help you and give you an honest,
non way to get women obsessed over you without manipulating her,
being fake or having to tear her down.
And it works 10 times better than all that other garbage out there. Trust me,
go try it out for yourself and then come back later and you can thank me in the
comments.
What I'm about to share with you is like the holy grail for making women want
you.
And I'm going to give you the simple formula for creating an almost irresistible
attraction. And it all comes down to just two things.
All right? Most coaches out there.
They're going to tell you that you need to hide your intentions and don't let
her know that she likes you. Okay snowflake,
that's going to land you directly into friend jail. Do not pass.
Go do not collect $200.
And you well know that it's pretty hard to escape friend jail.
You know I'm right. Or you won't land in fringe, jail.
You'll just land in no man's land where she doesn't give a about you.
And she deletes you.
Because even a woman with a shred of self-esteem isn't going to chase a guy who
shows no interest in her. Plus, what are you going to do?
Go up and approach her and just talk about some random thing that neither of
you to care about. Talk about the weather or who lies?
More men and women use all those old indirect pickup tricks?
News flash, buddy.. Those pickup tricks don't really work very well anymore.
So this is what you need to do instead:
The formula for obsession is:
First she needs to know that you're interested in her.
She needs to feel your desire by desire. I mean,
telling her that you're interested in her telling her that you're attracted to
her, asking her out, making a move on her,
make your intentions clear.
Don't listen to the idiots out there that tell you to hide your intentions and
don't show her that you like her because (A) that's dishonest.
Let's think about it.
Do you think a woman would prefer a guy who is honest or dishonest?
Hmm. I don't know. And it shows that you're weak.
That you're a coward that you can't man up and own up to your sexuality.
That you're a man and you're attracted to beautiful women.
So instead of hiding it.. Own it, because guess what?
When you show her your desire, the right way,
there's a right way and a wrong way to do it.
Going up to her and just being "Hi. You're cute." It doesn't show your desire.
It just doesn't really do anything. It doesn't turn her on.
But when you do it the right way,
like we show you how to do in our live coaching programs and our bootcamps.
You can actually turn her on within seconds of meeting her.
That's right. You can actually make her feel aroused.
You'll see her eyes light up. You'll see her start blushing.
You'll see her become more feminine.
She'll start giggling and doing things like this.
You'll see that she's highly attracted to you.
When she can feel your masculine desire for her in a
non-creepy way. And I don't mean like,
"Dang girl!" Where you're checking her out from head to toe.
Like she's a piece of meat. No, that is just creepy.
And if you want to see some examples that make sure to follow me on Instagram
and check out my stories and my reels were actually post examples of me
approaching real life women. In fact,
I've been known to even go live sometimes and approach women, and guess what?
Anything is possible. Anything can happen. And look, man,
when we work with clients live in person, most of the time,
when we teach them this in the very beginning on day, number one,
they're always coming off as way too nice and friendly. It's like, "Hey,
you're really cute. Hi, what's your name?
My name is Matt!" That does not turn her on. That does not spark attraction.
And that does not show your desire in a masculine confident way. In fact,
you don't actually have to give her a compliment at all.
You can show your desire through your demeanor, through your vibe, your energy,
your masculine grounded-ness.
It can come out through your eye contact and just the way that you're smiling at
her and the way you're looking at her. And she can feel it.
Even without any words, you can make her light up, but here's the deal.
You can't just keep showing your interest in her and showing her that you like
her. That's going to push her away. She's gonna be like, oh,
this guy likes me too much too soon. He doesn't even know me.
Therefore he must not have any standards.
So the next thing in the formula is:
You have to be a challenge. You have to challenge her.
Do you see how this is a dichotomy of showing your interest,
but then taking it away. It's like, oh, I'm attracted to you. You're pretty,
your looks got my foot in the door.
But I don't know if I want to hang out with you yet.
I don't know if I want your number. I'm not sold on you yet.
So you challenge her. And this is what gets her to start subtly chasing you.
And you can challenge her by just being busy.
By having other things going on in your life.
Tell me one cool thing about you.
Tell me what's something cool about your friend. Are you funny?
You can challenge her by just not being sure of her yet that you're not sure if
you want her number yet.
You're not sure if you want to go on a date with her and you're not sure if you
want to sleep with her, because you're a man with standards.
You don't just hook up with any girl or you can ask her a qualification
question, a question that shows that you have standards. It's like,
you're not really sure about her yet.
So you ask her a question to see if she actually is somebody you want to keep
hanging out with, or even keep talking to. Now,
I can give you a bunch of examples of qualification questions. And like I said,
there's a lot of examples on my Instagram,
but this isn't about you having the same standards of me.
This is about you figuring out what you want in a woman.
What are your standards?
And then challenging her and qualifying her based on what you're actually
looking for in a woman.
She has to earn your attention and your attraction for her.
And this is going to make her like you so much more because we appreciate what
we have to work for. Isn't that right?
If I just hand you the keys of a brand new car, you're going to be pretty happy.
You're going to think "I'm the man!" But are you really going to take care of
it? Are you really going to clean it and wash it and get all the repairs needed?
Probably not because you didn't have to work for it. You didn't have to earn it.
In fact,
that actually happened to me a while nack when I didn't have much money,
my grandparents gave me their old car. I didn't take care of it at all. In fact,
somebody hit the side mirror. I didn't even get it fixed.
I just threw that sucker in the back seat and went along on my day.
But the vehicles that I had to work for, I treated them like gold,
because like I said, we value what we have to work for.
And most guys are way too easy.
They show way too much interest way too soon. And that's like,
the game is done for the woman.
She knows that you're a hundred percent sold on her and that's not fun anymore.
She wants to have to chase you.
She wants to have to earn your interest in her.
She wants a man that's a challenge because a man that's a challenge is a man
with options.
She doesn't want to feel like she's the most attractive woman that you've ever
dated. She wants to feel like, yeah, you've dated better looking women than her.
And she had to prove herself that she is actually better than all of them.
By the way, man,
make sure to subscribe to this channel because I want to help you meet your
dream woman. So again,
most guys screw both of these up by not showing any interest or if they
do, they do it in a very supplicating way. "Like, hi, you're so pretty.
What's your name?" In this needy cringey voice.
And then they're not a challenge at all. They just have a nice, safe,
platonic conversation and then try to get her number.
And maybe she'll give out her number or her social media,
because she wants to reciprocate the fact that you gave her a compliment.
The truth is it's probably not going to go on a date with you.
Because you didn't actually show your desire and make her feel something,
make her feel turned on, make her feel aroused. And then at the same time,
challenge her.
You didn't make her work for your attraction and attention towards her.
So she doesn't really feel compelled to see you again. And see,
I want you to understand that these are not tricks. These are not hacks.
These should be at the core of who you are as a man.
You need to embody this because you're not afraid to show that you're a sexual
man who happens to like women and you have a life.
So you naturally are a busy guy.
You don't have time to just spend with any woman. She's gotta be worth it.
That's why if you watch my interactions with women, you'll see me show desire.
And then you'll see me challenge her with qualifying questions.
Now you might see these clips, and think awesome, Matt, that sounds great.
So can you just give me a list of qualification questions that are going to make
her chase me and obsessed with me? My man, I'm going to stop you there.
Because I'm not here to teach you a bunch of techniques.
I'm here to help bring out the true, honest to God,
real authentic version of you. So your qualification questions,
they should be congruent to you,
your personality and what kind of woman you're looking for. Now,
this isn't something that just happens in the beginning of the conversation.
Like you show your interest and then you take it away and you challenge,
and then you're done. This is like I said, you embody this.
This is just how you are.
That you're not afraid to tell a girl that you like her and show some interest.
It's not always in a direct way where you tell her you're attracted to her.
Oftentimes it's in a more indirect way. Just through the way you look at her,
the way you flirt with her or the way you make moves on her.
But you're also not afraid to rock the boat a little bit, take a step back.
Maybe even walk away from the interaction.
You're not the kind of guy who only tries to play it safe and say the thing that
you think she wants you to say, you're the kind of guy who's true to yourself.
And you will walk away if she doesn't meet your standards. So again,
it's not some kind of technique. It's who you are as a man and to do this right?
You gotta have your beliefs, right?
You gotta believe that you can walk up to her and tell her what's on your mind
and believe that she will be attracted to you. Believe that she'll be into you.
And if she's not no big deal, you don't let it affect you.
You don't cry about it because I'll tell you the truth, man,
the more attractive she is, the better. This actually works.
Even showing desire. I know that sounds crazy. Beautiful.
Women get complimented and guys showing desire in them all the time,
but they don't do it the way that we show you how to do it.
They don't do it in an authentic,
masculine way that actually turns the woman on.
And they sure as hell don't challenge her. In fact, they do the exact opposite.
They say, "Wow, you're so beautiful. I'll take you anywhere you want,
please." They come off with that type of energy and it repels women.
And for this to actually work, you need to do two things. Number one,
you need practice.
That can mean go out there and approach hundreds and hundreds of women,
which takes a lot of work. You know,
might take months and years for you to do that. If you're a young guy,
then go do that.
But if you're a busy guy and your time is valuable because we also know that
those hundreds of women are not going to give you feedback.
Then I highly recommend that you role play with our female coaches because
they'll give you feedback. You'll learn how to show your desire the right way,
in a way that actually turns them on and doesn't come across as creepy or needy
or insecure or anything like that.
And you'll learn how to challenge them in a way that gets them to chase you.
They'll give you feedback and you'll keep practicing and role-playing it over
and over and get feedback from me and my team until it just becomes part of who
you are and you can do it almost effortlessly.
And the second thing for this to work is you have to have your beliefs in check.
If you see yourself as this low value guy, insecure,
and beautiful women would never like a guy like you. It's not going to work.
You gotta see yourself as a high value, high status, attractive confident man.
You have to believe without a shadow of a doubt that she would be attracted to
you. And if she's not, it's no big deal. It doesn't hurt your feelings.
You don't feel bad at all. You're completely unfazed.
You just go up and talk to another woman.
And the fastest way to do that is to go through our identity breakthrough
process, where we actually rewire your brain.
So you transform into this new, better, more confident,
powerful version of yourself from the inside out.
So if you want the model training where you can,
role-play this over and over again.
So it becomes almost effortless and you want to go through our identity
breakthrough process.
Then I recommend that you book a free breakthrough call with me and my team.
And we'll see if you're a good fit for our coaching program.
There's a link down below in the description,
book a call and see if you're a good fit because the truth is man,
YouTube videos. They're nice,
but they're only going to give you some information.
It's the application of that information. That's going to transform your life.
And if you go out there and do it the wrong way,
then you build a lot of bad habits. So it's much better to have an expert,
a coach, a mentor there with you through your journey,
who can give you feedback, tell you what you're doing, right?
Tell you what you're doing wrong.
And he can make the necessary adjustments along the way.
So you don't keep messing up and push women away and waste years of your life.
So if you want coaching, click the link down in the description, again,
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