What's up
Tonight Becca will be meeting my mother Donna
Thank you. My father Scott three of my other brothers and my sister my cousins and my aunts and my uncles
And my little cousin Harper
Coming into tonight my biggest concern with Colton is he hasn't been in really more than one relationship
He doesn't have a ton of experience to help guide him
So I'm looking forward to sitting down with his family to see if Colton is really ready for a lifetime commitment
It's wonderful to have you in our house
I can't wait to get to know you better and I have to tell you a happy and perky I
Haven't seen you this happy ever. Thank you
My mom and I have a great relationship I can tell my mom anything should we go have a talk?
Yep, this guy my dad and I have a coach player type relationship, but I'm lucky
I'm fortunate to have mother and a father that cares so much about me
How is the whole thing been it's been so good for me
But also so challenging I just want to make sure that your foundation is built on honesty and trust and openness
You know going into this like obviously with TIA that was gonna be something that was gonna be brought up at some point, right?
So where is that at? I dressed it like a man and
I threw all of the cards on the table we both communicated with everybody involved. I'm proud of you
I mean for being that honest and addressing that yeah, what conversations she had with you about
Arie
You went on one date
She was engaged. Is she ready? How do you bounce back from being in love and being engaged to?
doing this
I know I know enough about what?
Makes Becca Becca to know that she would not put herself in this situation if she wasn't ready at the end of it
I don't want you to think because you had your card conversation. Everything else can be put to the wayside
There's another hard conversation to have but there's always gonna be hard conversations in a relationship staff. Welcome to marriage. I know I
Trust golden, I trust Colton's judgment, but it's tough thinking about Colton in that position
Knowing that he could have his heart broken. So I'm a little bit guarded. So
I'm gonna dive right into it. Um, are you okay?
With the honesty that he's told you about
Tia
Yeah, I think I mean I've never questioned
Kohn's honesty, he's been really upfront with it. It wasn't serious and they hung out that one time and went their separate ways
so the question that I asked him after that was he seems to have explained himself, but yet has the
Love and the engagement between you and Ari been addressed with him
No, and that's honestly a really good question. I feel like we've scratched the surface on that, but he
Hasn't really dives deep
I guess and asked those questions to me that breakup was really hard and I went through all of the grieving the anger the
hurt
But I would never want the fact that Ari wasn't honest with me and indecisive
To stop me from still wanting to find my person
I loved hear you say that because that's the way I would describe what Colton's looking for
Colton is so ready to find his person that he can spend time growing with. Oh
But it has to be right, right
As much as I want happiness for him as much as I can see how much he cares about you right now
unless you
Truly care the same about him and don't want you to pick it
It's better to have
Someone hurt now then down the road if it's the wrong decision
How are you holding up it's been good so far. It's been fun
So what are your thoughts on how your relationship is? It's
Something that I was a little skeptical going into and I know you were very skeptical
But it's working how open and honest and transparent and vulnerable. Have you been?
Very
I've been
You know, I shared the fact that I'm still a virgin with her and in the past
I've hidden that from a lot of people because I don't give that part of me away to everybody. It's very private
Yes, and it was something that needed to be addressed later down the road
But as you know, thanks these sweets are coming up and you know
I just wanted to let disclose that before that was probably the toughest conversation that I had been help with her
Do you think she loves you? I think so. Oh my god. That's crazy. Yeah
Do you see?
having enough time with her to make a decision whether you want to
propose
You know, I want to wait for you today to see because today was gonna be telling today
I would have my answers of where I was at with her. Where are you? I love her
I think that there's a very good chance that I can be engaged at the end of
The fact that he told me he was in love tonight
Sort of shocked me, but I'm excited to see him open up and be vulnerable
He's going with his gut and I trust his judgment
What have you seen so far from him that has made you?
Propel the relationship forward versus some hesitations Tiffany. Yeah
well
I guess I do have a concern and this is why I'm really happy that we're sitting down because you know
mama knows best and you know him better than anyone and
He's acknowledged that he hasn't had a ton of experience in the dating Department
last week he opened up about just
The fact of you know, like not being that intimate with women and and he just shared though with the beans
Yeah, and so which we don't talk about often, right? No, and I'm sure it's very
hard for a mother
Mother son conversations, right? Yeah, and I totally get that and
what I took away most from that conversation was he felt like people had judged him in the past and and
he got a lot of crap from
Mother. Oh, yeah. Yeah a lot her talk, but honestly from that more attractive
But he's sticking to who he is as a person, but I guess just because he hasn't had a ton of experience
I think this like can you see him committing?
for a lifetime
Before I just talked to him I'd have been pretty skeptical but he blew me away with his transparency
If he's falling in love with you when he's ready to make the next step to a proposal
Colton's mom. Donna is amazing
She said that if he found the right person Colton would be ready to take the next step in a relationship and get engaged
That's what I wanted to hear
Already and Colton's family. It's pretty darn awesome
It's so nice to meet you the entire day and night went exceedingly well
So, yeah, I hope after tonight he can get to the point where he feels like he's not only falling for me
But he is in love with me
Then I'd love to hear those words
How're you doing? I'm good. How was that for you? Good good. It was good. I thought that it
Was everything and more that I needed? Yeah
Today seeing this my family. I know that I'm in love with you and can't be happier about it
I'm Colton tells me he loves me. It makes me feel so special
I'm happy that we pushed through and saw something in one another that I wanted us to keep on going
Miss you again, but I won't be as long as my brother
Everything that I've seen in Colton just in his actions
I could see a husband a life partner a teammate. I'm falling for him
He's just wonderful
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