Hey, Tripp Kramer here from Tripp Advice.com. We're talking about how to hold a girl's
attention. I want to say this first off. First off, she should be holding your attention. Just
remember that. When you're talking to girls, when you're meeting girls, when you're going on dates
with women... you want to make sure that they're holding your attention and you're paying attention
to what she's saying so you can see that this is a girl that is worth your time. We want to
flip the roles a little bit here. However, I know that's not what you wanted to hear in this
video. And that's not what I want to necessarily teach on this video. There are ways where you can
make it so you can not necessarily just hold a girl's attention, but get her more interested
in the conversation which in turn will hold her attention when you guys are talking. I have a few
awesome techniques that you're going to learn. And this is going to be super helpful for you because
there are times when you go out and you meet a girl and conversation dies or maybe you slip up
and you're interested in her but things just fizzle away. It's going to help with that,
which is going to help with you getting numbers and going on dates with girls that
you're interested in. And if you don't learn this, then you might get stuck in conversation
and you might be very boring and it might not help you. What's cool is I have a whole different array
of tips that are going to help you. Everything from things that you're going to do in terms of
your body language and things you're going to say. Let's dive into it. The first one (and
this is in order too, you'll see what I'm talking about in a second here) is when you're going over
to approach a woman... so this is an approach tip. If you're going over to approach a woman at a bar,
on the street, in a coffee shop, wherever, you got to make sure that you're in front of her. A lot of
guys, they're so nervous to be occupying someone's space (which I understand) but they're so nervous
that when they go over, they go to the side and they're doing this shoulder talk where they're
side to side and they're at this 45 degree angle. It's okay if that happens right off the bat.
But very soon after, you have to be facing her like this. Like a mirror,
shoulder to shoulder like this like you're looking into a mirror. This is going to hold her attention
because then she can't be looking elsewhere. And then she's not thinking that this is some
casual conversation. Instead she's thinking oh, this person is trying to talk to me and engage me
and have a conversation with me. She's gonna feel like this is an optional conversation if you are
like this 45 degree angle and not facing her completely. It's okay, you don't have
to get right in her face when you do an approach. That'd be weird. But as you go up and talk to her,
you want to slowly be making sure you're turning your body so you guys are facing each other.
I have a full diagram of it which you can check out in my Magnetic book. I talk about when you're
approaching women how to get to that point. Which I just did, but you'll see an actual diagram.
I'll put a link down below if you want to check that out. The second thing is when
you're talking to a girl... this is a little bit more advanced but you can change the speed
and the tonality and inflection of your voice. A lot of guys are very monotone when they're
talking to a girl because they're so nervous. They're just talking like this... at this very
dull pace... and dull sounding voice. We don't want that. What we want is,
when you're talking to her maybe you speed it up like this a little bit and talk like this...
but then you slow it down and you're talking to her like this... and then you speed it up again
for a second then slow it down when you're talking like this. And the inflection of your voice should
be more commanding as well. See how I'm going down in inflection as I'm talking to you?
Instead of like this as I'm talking to you? You're going down an inflection.
The inflection of your voice at commanding tone is going to get her more interested in
the conversation. Also the speed in which you're delivering things and changing that
as you guys are talking is going to get her more engaged. Again this is a little bit more advanced,
you can practice it a little bit. It helps you be a little bit more interesting and deliver more of
a personality and more energy and excitement when you're talking to her. And even slowing it down
like I'm doing... right... now. Another way to get her attention because this is going to
snap her out of whatever's going on when you guys are talking to each other is a light touch to
the arm. Or I'll even say just breaking the touch barrier in some sort of way. In a way that I like
to do it that makes it easy is this light touch to the arm. When you guys are talking to each other
and you're accentuating something or you're talking about something specific,
you take the back of your hand right here and lightly touch her arm or her hand. Boom, we've
made this connection and now she's like whoa, here we go. We've now made this touch connection. She's
going to notice that. People notice when they're being touched by other humans. I should mention
here, please be appropriate. Obviously we're not going to be touching anything in terms of
sexual body parts. I like to say, just touching her hand, the inside of her arm right here. Even
right here on her arm when you're talking to her and making a point and that's going to boom bring
some more attention to the conversation. Here's another one counter intuitive here. Boy do I
love this one because it definitely makes it more interesting and it does get her more interested in
the conversation and really brings that attention to the conversation. I want you to be accentuating
topics where you to disagree. If she ever brings something up and you know you don't
like that thing or maybe you guys are on a first date and you saw on her profile that she loves
something that you don't love. Maybe it's music or food or something, bring that up. A lot of guys
are scared to do this. They want to connect on the things that are things that you both like. That's
very boring conversation. Things are a little bit more jazzed up, a little more spiced up,
when you two can have a disagreement. A playful, fun disagreement, not something too serious. But
a playful disagreement on something where you both don't agree. If you get an opportunity in
conversation where you hear something where like okay, this is a point where I can disagree or
talk about something where we can have a little playful disagreement on, make sure
that you take that opportunity. Be careful if you do this too much and then the whole conversation
is just disagreements, that's not going to be so fun. Make sure that you find those opportunities
but don't do it too much. Next let's talk about changing locations. I talked about this in a
previous video, one that I did earlier. When you are able to change locations, it definitely keeps
her attention more, it. even keeps your attention more tol when you're changing locations. What do I
mean by that? If you're on a date, going somewhere after the initial meeting place. So if you're
getting coffee, go take a walk somewhere. If you're getting dinner, go grab dessert somewhere
else. If you're meeting a girl and you meet her for the first time you do an approach at a bar,
take her to another section of the bar. Maybe go outside, maybe go to a place where the
music isn't as loud or maybe go towards the bar and grab a drink or grab a water or whatever.
Changing locations keeps things more interesting between the two of you. You can even do this on a
daytime approach. Again I talked about this in a previous video. You meet a girl and you guys
are talking and you invite her to do an instant date with you, you guys grab a coffee, maybe you
go somewhere else afterwards and get a little bite to eat. Changing locations is going to help keep
things more interesting, keeping her attention because you guys are creating these little
memories in different places. I know this can be tough for some guys. Like Tripp I wish I can
just do an approach. I wish I can even just have opportunities to be able to do this stuff that
you're always talking about in these videos. And so I have something for you that can absolutely
help. It's my program called Hooked which you can check out at ww.getherhooked.com. There's a
link down below as well. This program is going to teach you everything about how to build confidence
and how to meet women and specific techniques that's going to lend itself to you being better
at conversation and better building attraction with my TED formula, tension, entertainment and
dominance. You want to know what that is? Check it out in the Hooked program. Link down below.
Let me know in the comments if any of these 5 are ones that you have used and it has been used
successfully. I want to hear from you. We all want to hear from you. Go ahead write that down in the
comments below and I'll be there as well. Thanks for watching and I'll see you on the next video.