in a world full of cold-hearted loud talkative and unorganized people who don't overthink the entire
night about a slight change in the tone of a text message being an infj is extremely taxing and
nerve-wracking you process life thoughts emotions and incidents in a way no one else does and that's
why it's so hard for an infj to connect with anyone what's up everyone welcome to your favorite
youtube channel we're back with another amazing video and guess what today's video is for all the
infjs who feel like an outsider in most situations and feel like they're never understood or seen by
other people stick to the end of the video because we have some interesting points that our fellow
infjs can relate to along with how being an infj means you're gonna have to carry more emotional
weight than others but before we start our video make sure to hit the like and subscribe button and
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content with that being said let's get started number one they're perfectionist infjs can't
sleep at night knowing they let anyone down hurt someone didn't organize their closet or didn't ace
that test in short their perfectionist now being a perfectionist means they want to do whatever they
do in the best way possible and avoid all kinds of mistakes you know how they always say the mind of
a perfectionist is always in pain well that's what happens with infjs too as they have the constant
urge to improve everything they always try their best to keep everyone around them happy and
satisfied by themselves and that usually ends up in them being emotionally and physically drained
number two they're introverted staying true to their introverted nature infjs despise talking
to people out if it's out of their comfort zone an infj is most comfortable and talkative around
the people whom they love and trust spending the weekend at home instead of going out and reading
books taking a shower napping without any human interaction is probably the ideal way for an infj
to spend the weekend they're usually found in the corners of the parties or sitting near the
walls to avoid conversations and usually wait for their talkative friend to keep the convos alive
in gatherings they'd rather do the chores than doing the talking due to being introverted
sometimes it's hard for the infjs to convey their thoughts emotions opinions and feelings so yeah
being a quiet infj who likes their personal space but is still extremely ambitious is hard
number three they feel emotions intensely one of the signature traits of an infj is how they
feel their emotions that's right intensely the emotions that get physically effective are not
even their own sometimes everyone tries their best to understand the pain of their loved ones
but infjs are different they are blessed or cursed in a way that when their loved one
gets hurt or goes through a hard time the infj not only understands their pain but they also feel it
this is why you can also see the effects of their friends pain on their faces if their friend needs
a shoulder to lean on you can be a hundred percent sure that their infj friend will be there for them
and they'll try their best to cheer their friend up number four their urge to keep everything
organized and planned infjs love to keep themselves prepared and organized for everything
you can see that in their bookshelves closets kitchens etc infjs clean up and arrange stuff to
calm themselves and to gain a sense of control and accomplishment it's hard for an infj to be
around messy people or to stay in an unorganized environment as they keep getting distracted again
and again due to the mess and the lack of neatness around them number five trauma dumping it's a nice
thing when people confide in you and consider you trustworthy enough to be vulnerable with you
it shows that you're someone who knows how delicate emotions are and how they trust
you that you'll give the right reaction or advice but sometimes it becomes more of a burden than an
honor people keep telling you what bothers them or how their life is so tough and you're slowly
consumed by the guilt of not doing good enough not being grateful enough or not being helpful enough
you don't even get the time to process the serious information being revealed and since
infjs feel the pain along with understanding it it becomes even harder for them to deal with it
number six their self-worth depends on them being able to take care of others another painful aspect
of being an infj is that most of your self-worth is dependent upon how much you take care of your
close people how much you help them and how their life can get less painful because of you
now this means when a friend doesn't open up to an infj doesn't let them help them the infj
is going to blame themselves for not being good trustworthy or helpful enough helping other people
is necessary but not at the cost of your mental peace and self-worth number seven they ignore
themselves infjs are usually so selfless that most of the time the center of their attention
love care and thoughtfulness is their loved ones an infj can be suffering but at the same time if
a friend needs help advice or emotional support the infj will of course ignore themselves and take
care of their loved ones first again being helpful towards others is nice but neglecting yourself
continuously can have serious consequences number eight they can be clingy now if you know an infj
you're well aware of their habits them being thoughtful concerned and interested towards you
is not out of the ordinary but for someone with a short temperament and strict rules about personal
space infjs can become a little annoying they can seem a little invasive persuasive and of
course clingy sometimes and this is the reason why they generally struggle with friendships and stick
to just a few close people who understand them number nine they don't stand up for themselves
as we mentioned earlier infjs usually ignore their own needs mental and physical health for
the sake of their loved ones now no one said that your close people can't harm you or make mistakes
the best way to have healthy relationships and friendships in life is to correct others when
they wrong you and improve yourself as well infjs improve themselves but due to their selflessness
they often let their close people or others wrong them alright folks that's all for today's
video hope you guys liked it make sure to drop your suggestions questions and requests in the
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