the bachelor and the Bachelorette are
all about romantic tension but let's be
honest the fantasy suite episodes are
when it really all goes down these
potentially scandalous episodes are
always fan favorites but some have stood
out for being nothing short of crazy on
season 5 of The Bachelorette Jillian
Harris was genuinely looking for love
and by the time the fantasy suites came
around she thought she found it with
contestant edy would dare ski Jillian
and Edie did end the season engaged but
their fantasy suite episode was a bit of
a downer during the episode things had
gotten very hot and heavy between ed and
Jillian but when push came to shove they
just couldn't get the deed done Jillian
told the cameras of what went down in
the fantasy suite which is to say not
much as she put it the two were sunburnt
and exhausted after a long day and
didn't have much left for each other but
some quiet low-intensity cuddling edy
also explained the situation in his own
mortifying confessional vultures recap
of the episode was decidedly more brutal
in its summary of the events saying poor
Edie he will forever be known insofar as
he is known at all as the guy who
couldn't get it up in the fantasy suite
after two others successfully sealed the
deal the nights before him yikes
talk about being caught with your pants
down it's no secret that anyone who
becomes the bachelor or the Bachelorette
will inevitably be partaking in a lot of
kissing touching groping and possibly
more but on season 17 of The Bachelor
Sean Lowe proved to be one of the most
chaste contestants in the show's history
in fact Lowe remained celibate on the
show with it later being revealed that
he was a born-again virgin
according to Lowe's tell-all book for
the right reasons he confessed that he
had no intentions of having sex with any
of his final three contestants in the
fantasy suites citing his born-again
Christian faith Lowe wrote I'd already
lived my life in a selfish self
gratifying way I feel like you're really
distant lately
not even here not even here for the
right reasons one win he also suggested
that he had too much respect for his
female suitors to put them in a position
to sleep with him while knowing he was
likely to be romancing other women on
the show shortly after instead Shaun
said he wanted to use his time in the
fantasy suite to talk with the
contestants alone and get a chance to
observe how they'd act when the cameras
weren't rolling we can't be sure but
Shaun might have been the first bachelor
to not get it on in the fantasy suites
it's a respectable decision but pretty
crazy in terms of what normally goes on
in there on season 9 of The Bachelorette
Desiree Hartsock thought she was all-in
with contestant Brooks Forrester Brooks
made it to the final three and Desiree
even described that she had much deeper
feelings for him than the other final
two contestants however during the
fantasy suite episodes
Desiree got the shock of a lifetime when
Brooks did something no one saw coming
well sort of though a source had told Us
Weekly that Desiree fantasy suites were
hot and heavy that wasn't the case with
Brooks instead before the two even went
into their fantasy suite
Brooks dumped Desiree leaving her in
tears and fans everywhere were totally
shocked Desiree and Brooks didn't even
get to see what might happen in the
fantasy suite before he dumped her and
the drama escalated however in an
interview with TV Guide host Chris
Harrison said that he wasn't shocked by
Brooks actions according to him there
were plenty of warning signs before the
big breakup it was one of those old
cases where you just believe what you
want to believe and see what you want to
see and she was just blinded by how she
felt about the guy talk about a crazy
unexpected turn of events for Desiree
who maybe should have paid attention to
those warning signs there have
definitely been more than a few bachelor
nation contestants who have been widely
disliked by viewers and fellow
contestants alike the bachelors Juan
Pablo galavis fell firmly into this
category of the season's final three
Andi Dorfman stood her ground after
their fantasy suite date and things got
heated in a confessional during the
episode and he explained that she felt
miserable after spending the night with
Juan Pablo
she said the fantasy suite turned into a
nightmare I saw a side to him that
really didn't like and the whole night
was just a disaster I hope he did not
think that went well I really hope he
did not think that that was a good date
Andy didn't mince her words when she
spoke directly to Juan Pablo and in a
later interview with cosmopolitan she
made it clear that she had zero regrets
explaining her decision to leave she
said I have a feminist in me and to be
in a situation where there are 30 girls
dating one man there's already this
inequality just because there are lots
of girls and one guy that doesn't mean
that the guy gets a free pass and how he
treats her I just wasn't going to have
it it was a seriously crazy episode and
one in which the fantasy suite wasn't
all that sweet being on the bachelor or
the Bachelorette definitely puts
contestants in awkward situations in
fact the general concept dating multiple
people at the same time while you all
live together in a giant mansion with no
contact with the outside world
is pretty messy from the start but it's
also pretty standard for the bachelors
and bachelorettes to not say the l word
too soon or to too many people somehow
that wasn't the case when Ben Higgins
was the bachelor and he said I love you
to both Jojo Fletcher and Lauren
Bushnell on their fantasy suite dates
which seriously complicated things as
Ben wrote in a blog for people at the
time and so here I am with two
incredible women both of whom I am madly
in love with and I have no idea what to
do about it
even though Ben and Lauren got engaged
and later split the two were happy for
quite some time
still Lauren told people that watching
her fiance tell another woman he loved
her was hurtful
she said I always try to be really
strong because I wanted to move forward
from it but because I wanted to move
forward from it I don't think I ever
really opened up about how hard that was
well it was definitely crazy and messy
and telling to women that he loved them
probably wasn't the best move on Ben's
part while not everyone gets it on in
the fantasy suites on the bachelor or
the Bachelorette it's usually pretty
easy to tell who did and who didn't on
Nick viol season of The Bachelor
contestant Raven gates got real about
how she'd never been fully satisfied
from a sexual encounter if you know what
we're saying
so when the cameras showed Ravens face
after her fantasy suite date with Nick
and she was positively glowing it was
obvious that something great had gone
down speaking to the cameras after the
date Raven coyly said Nick is really
good at what he does so I'm pretty
satisfied today and her grin said it all
later on in an interview with people
Raven explained that she didn't feel the
need to further expand on what happened
behind closed doors in her opinion the
story was all there on screen well the
thing about the show is they really
capture those exciting moments and they
make everything pretty true to what is
happening so I think I don't really have
to say too much I think the show pretty
much captured it Bachelorette Jo Jo
Fletcher definitely ended up happy after
her season but it wasn't all rainbows
and rose petals
during her fantasy suite episodes she
had a great time with Jordan Rogers and
the two definitely hooked up Jordan told
the cameras after his night with Jo Jo
waking up this morning I rolled over and
I just had a smile on my face I felt
like everything was right we took a big
step last night in a really exciting
direction but after her date with Jordan
Jo Jo's fantasy suite date with Chase
McNary was a huge disappointment while
the two were together chase seemed
thrilled and happy but it was clear Jo
Jo wasn't feeling it so when she ended
things between them chase didn't take it
too well though chase definitely exited
the show on a sour note he later
revealed the people that he had come to
terms with Jo Jo's decision he explained
I have a better understanding of the
position Jo Jo is in and why she's made
the decisions she's made there are no
hard feelings hey at least chase was
able to move on jo Jo certainly was
there are a few moments on the bachelor
or the Bachelorette when a contestant
says something that instantly becomes
iconic or mean worthy on Hannah Brown
season of The Bachelorette that happened
when she appeared on the after the final
rose special and explained that her
fantasy suite date with Peter Webber was
even hotter and heavier than anyone had
imagined Brown told the live audience I
was a little dishonest about something
since it's out there and I did say there
was something that Peter and I did twice
actually four times yes Hannah and Peter
apparently did the deed four times on
their fantasy suite date that took place
in a literal windmill obviously the
moment became iconic and when Peter went
on to become the next Bachelor one of
the women he met the first night even
dressed up as a windmill when Colton
Underwood stepped up to be the bachelor
there was one subject that just wouldn't
die his virginity
seriously the topic of Colton's
virginity plagued practically every
single interview conversation and even
promotion for his season of The Bachelor
in an interview with people Colton
explained that he doesn't feel strange
being a virgin
he said being a virgin doesn't mean you
can't have a good time it doesn't mean
you can't be passionate and romantic and
sexual still in your relationship
however all that changed when Colton
finally got to spend the night with his
true love
Cassie Randolph after sending home both
other contestants he said on the show I
couldn't be more excited to spend
tonight with Cassie and I am excited to
see where our relationship can go I've
always said that I'm waiting for the
right heart I'm waiting to be in love
with somebody and I'm waiting for the
right person and I'm very hopeful that
that person is Cassie Rachael Lindsay
made history as the first black
Bachelorette she may also have been the
first Bachelorette to do what she did
during a fantasy suite date and it's all
because the outside world managed to
sneak its way into her season during her
fantasy suite date with Nick vile
nothing actually happened all because of
Donald Trump during an interview with
the bachelor party podcast rachel
explained that the night before her date
she found out Trump had won the election
she said she had thought at the time oh
great it's going to be Trump it was so
bad I had my date the next day oh no I
couldn't get in the right headspace I
drank a lot oh my god I passed out in
the fantasy suite
the one bright side Lyndsey says she
slept pretty well that night
unfortunately her fantasy suite date
with Nick couldn't have been any less
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