Yup, it's true women are testing you. In fact, there's a ton of tests that they are giving you
when they are trying to see if they are attracted to you. On today's video, I'm going to go over
these tests. And I want to explain to you why this is so important. One of the reasons why
this is so important, is because if you know how to pass these tests, then you'll actually get her
attracted to you. Now, of course, you can go the whole opposite direction and you can say, well,
I don't want to pass a woman's tests, and I don't want to do these things, and I don't
want to work so hard. That's fine. If that's the case, then you probably won't be in a situation
where you'll attract many women. But you have to understand that the tests that they give you
are not necessarily conscious. The reason why a woman gives you a test is because this is her way
of seeing if she is attracted to you or not, or simply said, are you someone that is attractive?
Now the reason for this is because women are more attracted to your behavior. Your behavior
and your personality go a longer way because personality is hard to fake. And these behaviors
are ones that show your masculine qualities way more than anything else. Women are more
attracted to behavior and men are more attracted to a woman's physical attributes. When it comes
to tests, she's testing you to see if you have these attractive behaviors. She's testing to see
how well you do in certain situations to know if you're a guy who's going to be emotionally strong
through the process of dating her and being with her, even if it's not for long term, it's still
the things that make a woman attracted. The first test is her watching you to see
how you're handling times of adversity, aka stressful moments. Let's say for example,
you guys are going traveling and you lose your suitcase. Suitcase doesn't come out
when you guys are picking up your luggage. Now, you can react in a whole lot of ways – super
stressed out, super worried, really angry, or you can be more stoic and calm. She's watching this.
Now, of course, I know this is not like a test that she is planning herself. But in a way,
it's a test that is presenting itself and it is inevitable that it will present itself when
you're dating somebody. So you have to look out for these times when are you going to be reactive
and totally out of control? Or are you going to stay calm and just try to solve the problem?
Now along with this is she might actually stir up a little drama. She might try to say something to
you that is a test to see how you're going to react. She might say something to poke at you
a little bit to see, is this person going to be reactive or is this person going to be more stoic
and calm? For example, she might just simply tease you a little bit, give you a little bit of shit.
Maybe poke fun at you a little bit. Are you going to be defensive or are you going to act calm
through that? I want you to pay attention to these moments of adversity and stress. Another test that
they might do – this is not necessarily 100% of every woman who's going to be doing this is going
to do it purposefully – but there are going to be times whether purposefully or not, she's going to
hold back sex. Maybe she's not interested. Maybe she is purposefully like I'm saying testing you.
And so she's gonna see how you're gonna react to that. Are you going to be whiny and needy
and go into the corner of the bed and sulk? Or are you going to not care at all? The guy who
doesn't have a big reaction to this situation is the guy who is going to end up sleeping with her
way more. Now, of course, you don't need to stick around with a woman who is not sleeping with you.
That's a bigger discussion altogether. But if it happens every once in a while, inevitably,
if you're in a relationship or a marriage, it is going to happen, how are you going to react to it?
If you're a big baby about it, it's not gonna make her want to do it with you more.
Again, this could be a test or it's just going to happen and it's a test that presents itself. Like
I said in the earlier example, sometimes tests just present themselves without the woman actually
trying to make it – these tests of adversity that naturally come up in everyday life. Another
test that I do believe most women, about 95% of women actually purposefully are testing you on
is the text test. Now before I go into that one, I just want to interrupt with a brief message.
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leave a link down below. The text test is when she's seeing if you're going to cave
when she doesn't text you back for a while. She's testing to see if you're going to do a double
text. Now be careful, it may not be a test and she may not be responsive because she's actually
not interested. If a girl doesn't respond in 2 to 3 days, she's not interested. But she might not
text back for a couple of hours. Or maybe you guys are in this text conversation and all of a sudden,
she drops off the face of the planet for the next 3 to 4 hours. Are you going to double text? Are
you going to send a bunch of paragraphs asking where she is? Or are you going to stay calm, cool
and collected and stoic to wait for her response? Again, there's a window here. If he's not texting
you back for over 24 hours, so anywhere from like 36 hours plus, then at that point you can
probably just assume she's not interested. Plus, you shouldn't be texting anyways to
chit chat with them. You should be texting to set up a date. But just know you have to be calm. You
have to wait for her to text. So if the balls in her court, maybe you asked her a question,
you texted or something, and you're waiting for her to respond back to you, don't double text.
Stay busy, wait for her to respond and then go from there. As you can see, this is all about
remaining calm and having stoic, attractive behavior and not being so emotional. I want
you to tap into this mindset. I want you to watch this video again and understand
that you need to stay un... or I should say non-reactive, whatever term you want to use,
unreactive, non-reactive. It's the same idea to these times. I promise you
if you embody this mindset, her attraction levels are going to go through the roof. If you want to
learn more about how to build attraction, check out the Hooked course. I'll put a link down below.
Hope this video helped. Hit that like button if it did and I'll see you on the next video.