this video I'm gonna be explaining to you polarization with the law of
attraction I'm gonna show you why letting go of negative charges things
that you have judgments towards letting that go will start to totally transform
your life when it comes to manifesting what you want welcome back to another
video my name is Erin and I hope people expand their consciousness now in this
video I'm gonna be sharing with you more on polarization and why polarization may
be what is blocking you from experiencing what you want in a way many
times when people have certain charges through certain type of energy states or
they really have these rules in their mind about the way reality should be
that they create this resistance that creates the opposite effect of what they
want so maybe you've realized that maybe you have a desire for something but the
more that you want it and the more that you are focused on it and even though
you feel resistance you create this polarity of good and bad or of having it
and then not having it so I'm going to be explaining that and how you can
transcend it so that you're really able to create from a whole new paradigm this
is about really transcending the paradigm that you're coming from and
then starting to get a whole new result so this has to do let me give you an
example say for example is actually something I read in the book reality
Tran surfing recently it's an example I'm going to take from there and imagine
you are in your house and you're noticing that your neighbors are being
very loud that they are having parties that it's late at night the more that
you focus on your neighbors being loud not respecting your privacy or your your
your noise and how you want that to go away not having silence as you're
focused on maybe the way they park in front of your house in the driveway or
you know kind of like in your side of the house next to in front of your house
in a way on your side what you could do is you pay attention to when you have
those rules in a way you're judging the present moment
subconsciously now this is the thing because in your world in the way that
you see what is happening you are developing
resistance that resistance continues to create a momentum of its own in your
life so even though it might just be the neighbors being loud the more that you
focus on it the more that it's going to be something that you pay attention to
it's gonna be more of something that becomes a part of your life now in a way
we would be thinking about this and well don't they don't they respect my noise
don't they respect my sight the silence that I want and the thing is is in a way
the more you care about it the more that you create the resistance of it being
there it's almost like in a way you add to the attention that it's being put
there and asked at the same time they will continue to run itself out because
they are kind of linking up with that thought that you're putting towards it
as well so I know this sounds like a little bit of an esoteric idea but the
idea is that in your layer of your world in the layer for which you perceive your
world you have that resistance of that reality of that perspective of saying
they are being loud they're not respecting my privacy or my silence and
that perspective itself because you are caring in a way and you have the
momentum in that direction it will continue to experience more and more
than you may find that you go do something completely different and as
similar the face has changed but in a similar energy state maybe your job and
something similar happens you're trying to work and somebody's being loud next
to you and you can't focus so what I mean by this is when we set up these
rules of being charged one way or the other with the preference we end up
creating more and more of that experience in our life because we are
charged with it so think of things in your life either having a positive
charge or a negative charge and anytime you have a charge whether it's positive
or negative so maybe you have a desire for something that you prefer what
happens is is by having an attachment to the desire for something that you prefer
if you are attached and this is called being dependent on the outcome of
something you may have something that's good that happens you may feel positive
emotion because of it but here is the thing if that thing gets taken away then
so does the happiness that you attribute to it so there's a solution to all of
this but first let's look at the other side of that
the other side it is a negative charge the negative charge of the neighbors
being loud to make it a charge of people doing things to you that you don't
necessarily prefer the rules that you have about how people are driving people
shouldn't cut you off people shouldn't do rolling stops or anything that has to
do with these rules that we have in our own minds the more that we are charged
with these preferences the more that we will see that we experience them in our
life because that's where our focus goes now think of this as a mantra wherever
your focus goes was where your energy goes which is where you're creating
momentum you say that one more time wherever your focus goes is where your
energy goes which is where you're creating momentum so if the neighbor is
being loud and you don't prefer it you have to withdraw your attention from it
or you have to look at the situation in a new way now this is the thing when you
do that you may find that the next day you're doing you're going outside and
you're you know cleaning up something in your yard and you see your neighbors and
you talk to them and maybe somehow you become really good friends with them
maybe somehow you start to they say something say oh is it too loud last
night or something like that sorry eyes have no bunch of people over and you say
you know what it was kind of hard for me to sleep but I know that you had people
over whatever they're like okay I'll keep it down from now on you see when
you start to do that you start to let go of that energy your reality begins to
change you see there's a story that we tell ourselves about the way that
reality is and in actuality what we're learning is that we're actually shifting
to different parallel realities every second this is some quantum physics show
this I know it's a little bit out there but I've been sharing it on the channel
because I think it is so powerful so imagine this you let go of the energy
state from which you are creating that resistance internally because of the
rules in the mind because of the charge that we have you let go of that and then
guess what you start to shift to a reality that is more preferred you start
to experience more of the neighbors just doing their thing maybe when they do it
in an in a are a little bit loud you're able to not have that resistance because
you're like oh I like my neighbors so it doesn't really matter you know I
can just put in easier plugs you know I could just go to this side of the house
you see we let go of blind spots when you start to change our own perspective
now this can go in every other every area of our life in a relationship
think of this anytime that you have these rules about what your boyfriend or
girlfriend should or shouldn't be doing or why for her husband whatever the
situation is anytime you have rules about what they should or shouldn't be
doing many times that will create the resistance in itself and they may
actually feel encouraged to do the thing you don't want them to do if you have
resistance towards it if you have resistance towards something the way
that you feel about that something is going to be what brings about the
behavior that you do or don't want so the key then becomes not so much how
can I change this thing about what my partner's doing but how can I change how
I relate to it because when you change the way that you relate to it you let go
of the charge the charge is what is bringing a lot of the situations you
experience in your life into your life the charge is what has the things that
resonate with that vibrational state that you're in and the more rules you
have in general the more resistance you're gonna have that's why a lot of
times it's very powerful to just go general
to go general to have these beliefs that are more of like develop a belief that
things just happen at the right place at the right time have a belief that things
are always working out for you as you do that you start to create this
layer of your world they keep talking about the layer the layer for which we
see the world because we're all in a way creating our own interpretation of
reality and based on the rules and the beliefs we have we will continue to
perpetuate the kind of experience that we're having and when we become aware of
the charges we have that's when we start to take our power back in a very
profound way so polarization is more so about
understanding the charges we have and the resistance we're creating
subconsciously from the thought processes and the thought patterns that
we're having whether it's the neighbors next door
I remember I had an ex-girlfriend at the time she was my girlfriend is like three
four years ago and she told me that every time there was we would we would
go out to eat somewhere and sometimes what would happen is when we go to pay I
would pay and we would take turns sometimes because we were we lived
together you know we shared a lot of the the bills that we had and stuff so we
would kind of take turns sometimes we have similar jobs at the time and what
happened is sometimes when I would go out say you know I'll pay and then I say
if you want to get just tip you know and I never really even with the past
girlfriends before I never really had the desire to do that to say you could
tip I normally just pay for the whole thing now I'm not putting the complete
blame or saying that like the whole situation that that was completely her
thought process but I found out later that she didn't like that because she
had an ex-boyfriend that used to do that all the time too he would pay you but
ask her to tip and she liked she more so thought like if you're gonna pay just
pay like if you're gonna pay pay for the whole thing don't like do the little bit
of this a little bit of that and she had this rule in her mind about it
and in a way I thought about it later I've never been like that before I just
kind of like pay and pay for the tip and it's like no big deal but I almost felt
just pulled to do that when I was with her and we were out and I thought about
it after I learned some of these ideas I'm sharing with you and I had a feeling
that that was one thing that in a way it kind of pulled it out of me because
maybe that was resistance that she had and I was kind of in a way linking up
with that rule that she had and reflecting that rule back to her so in a
way I was neutralizing that charge even though some she didn't want it was a
rule that was becoming that was kind of being brought out so I look back at that
now and I think that that was something that that was a part of this principle
that I'm talking about this charge and how if we let go of these rules people
stop doing those things it's funny how it works now we have
these stories it's not just that easy that's a belief we have these stories
that will try to take us away from the understanding but
here's the thing we really are who we choose to be in the present moment we
really are shift into different parallel realities every second and we are not
the result of our past we are who we choose to be in the present moment and
if you choose to let go of that baggage if you choose to let go of that
resistance guess what things begin to change so powerfully because the layer
of the world the weight the lens through which you see your world begins to
change because you start to see that you don't need that resistance you don't
need those rules because everything is happening as it should start to allow
more things to happen and things will begin to change so what is the
higher-level paradigm that I was talking about in the beginning think of
polarization in the same way that we think of duality duality is the left
rein the right frame duality is good and bad duality is light and dark that's
duality that is from a higher level perspective there are these labels we
can give these different levels of consciousness and the most common ones
are 3d 4d and 5d levels of consciousness now 3d means third dimension now just
getting out of the semantics of it let's just look at the general way that we
perceive it and I'm just going to explain what that means and how we can
transcend to a 5d level of manifestation now 3d is the good the bad it's the left
brain the right brains mean i10 it identified with the ego 3d is about
competition 3d is about labels this is me that is
you I am this ethnicity you are that ethnicity I'm from this country or from
that country they're labels and in a law for a long period of time we have been
focused on the planet in a 3d level of consciousness here is what is happening
though and here is the power of Y manifestation is speeding up right now
we are making a transition from this level of consciousness of 3d duality of
identification with thoughts to we're starting to move more into what is
called 4d level of consciousness and sometimes 5d
level of consciousness 4d is more like an accelerated manifestation state it's
more like a dream state it's more flexibility it's less labels there could
still be some good and bad but it's more so about a quickie
of energy and right now we are going through this transition and then in 5d
it's a unity consciousness it's more so creating from a much higher paradigm of
realizing we are all connected that when we focus straight on the energy state we
can go straight to that vibration it's the awareness that the vibration the
emotion that we want to feel exists within us right now and the only reason
we don't feel it is because we give ourselves these rules as to why we can't
feel it belief systems are very heavy in the 3d
consciousness there's still some belief systems in the 4d consciousness when we
get to the 5d consciousness we start to tap more into a knowing that we are all
connected that we everything outside of us is a reflection of who we believe we
are and who we choose to be that there's an infinite number of parallel realities
that exist and that we can choose the one that we want we don't have to create
it because all parallel realities exists we just choose it from the it's called
the space of variations we choose it from the options that we have so that's
what I encourage you to do start to see things as connected start to see things
as a part of the process start to allow things to happen realize polarization as
part of the old paradigm and that you are now waking up to a higher level of
consciousness you're not waking up to a higher level of manifestation that will
change absolutely everything I really believe that and all you have to do is
start to realize that we are all connected start to realize that you can
feel the emotions you want to feel right now and that you are who you choose to
be in the present moment and you are not the result of your past the more that
you really wire that in the more things will begin to change now another part of
this process of creating from the higher-level paradigm has to do with
raising your vibration and when I raise my own vibration that's when everything
began to change I started to manifest from a much more powerful place and
that's why I created a free guided meditation that will help you to raise
your vibrational set point so that you create from a higher point of view so if
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