In my bestselling Ex Factor Guide system, I go through a TON of psychological tips and
tricks that will make your ex wish that they never left you.
In fact, some of these tips are so powerful that it can only takes a matter of DAYS for
your ex to come crawling back.
One of my most popular psychological tactics is the "Clean Slate E-Mail"... in this email
template, I teach exactly what you need to say to your ex if you've already begged and
pleaded for him or her back.
And if you've watched some of my other videos, then you know that begging and pleading makes
you LESS attractive to your ex, and if you do it enough, you can effectively blow your
chances of getting back with your ex forever.
Since this was a common issue with almost all of my clients, I designed an email that
solves this problem and puts your ex at what I like to call "emotional neutral"... meaning,
after reading this message, they won’t harbour any negative feelings for you… they’re
at an emotionally “neutral” state.
But can the same thing be accomplished by sending a short little text message?
Today, we are going to find out!
What's up, YouTubers?
Brad Browning here.
In this video, I'm going to share with you 3 texts that you can send to your ex RIGHT
AFTER you've begged and pleaded for him or her back.
But before I get into the goods, I think I should explain WHY begging and pleading is
bad... and why it makes your ex LESS attracted to you.
See, when human beings decide to mate with someone, usually they will try and mate with
someone of similar OR higher social status.
The higher the social status, the more attractive he or she will be to the opposite sex... and
this is true for both men and women.
That’s why women are more attracted to the lead singer of a band than the bass player,
for example.
And in order to get your ex back want you back, you need to showcase your social value
without making it seem obvious.
Furthermore, begging and pleading shows your ex how LITTLE value you have… and it will
reaffirm your ex’s decision to break up with you in the first place.
Like I’ve said in many other videos, if you want your ex to come back, you need to
do things that will demonstrate how YOU are the catch… and there are a number of behaviours
that you can engage in to convey this.
But if you’re watching this video right now, you’ve probably been demonstrating
some low value behaviour.
However, don’t worry, all is not lost!
You CAN begin reversing the process of making your ex attracted to you again, and you CAN
get your ex back even if you’ve begged and pleaded for weeks.
And it all starts with, drum roll please, Clean Slate templates.
These are simple but powerful messages that you can send to your ex right now to begin
the process of making your ex want you again.
And in this video, I’m going to share with you THREE of these text messages that you
can use right now to begin this exact process.
But first, I gotta warn you that it isn’t as simple as just sending one of these messages
and hoping for the best.
You must COMBINE this tactic with other strategies I outline in my Ex Factor Guide if you want
to optimize your chances.
And if you want to learn more about these tactics, then head on over to BreakupBrad.com
right now and watch that free video presentation.
Again, that URL is BreakupBrad.com.
Okay, text number one is called the “Fresh Start Text”.
Lemme dive into an example and I’ll break it down for you after.
You could say something like…
“I have to apologize for acting so irrationally over the last few days.
I feel better about myself right now and I’m off to a fresh start.”
And just leave it as that.
It’s important to not make excuses for your behaviour or you’ll continue to look desperate.
It’s important that you own up to the mistakes that you’ve made in the past, apologize
for them, and then move on.
This is highly attractive behaviour and you’ll make your ex feel like you’re on the right
path moving forward.
I’ve talked about this before in a ton of other videos, but this text message must be
followed by engaging in no contact for at least 30 days… if you feel like you’ve
done a lot of begging and pleading after the breakup, then more than 30 days might be required.
It’s important to note that you WON’T be able to change your ex’s mind overnight
– building attraction takes days or weeks… so keep this in mind.
Don’t look for the quick-fix result because it doesn’t exist.
The second text message is what I like to call the “Good Breakup Text”... it goes
something like this…
“I have to apologize for my behaviour over the last few days.
I was super emotional and I wasn’t myself.
I know that this breakup is a good thing.”
If you’ve done a lot of begging and pleading after the breakup, then this is one of the
best text messages you can send.
It’s good because you’re apologizing and not making an excuse for your behaviour, but
unlike the first example, you go a step further and say that the breakup was a GOOD idea.
This is a more aggressive way of telling your ex that you’re ready to move on… and this
will most definitely put your ex at ease and feel unthreatened by you.
And at this point, you can start using some of the more advanced techniques that I’ve
outlined in my Ex Factor Guide program.
But again, just like the first text message, you have to engage in No Contact after sending
this text message…
this is crucial.
My final text messaging example is called the “Covert Excuse Text”.
Now, this final text message is for people who really did go overboard with the begging
and pleading.
Maybe you’ve done something even worse by acting overly emotional and irrational.
If you’re afraid that you’ve blown your chances of getting your ex back because of
this, then it’s logical that you need to make an excuse to get your ex back.
Your ex isn’t going to want to date someone who’s that emotionally unstable...so in
order to counter this, you can say something like…
“I’m sorry, I’ve been going through a lot of personal things that I haven’t
told you about… and that’s why I’ve been acting this way.
I know I have to stop and I’m working on myself.
You won’t be hearing from me for awhile.”
Unlike the first two examples, you’re coming up with a cryptic reason as to why you've
been acting the way you have…
AND you’re directly saying that you won’t be contacting him or her for the next little
while.
If you’ve done a lot of very aggressive begging and pleading, this text message can
go a very long way in making your ex return to “emotional neutral”... but again, no
contact in this example will have to be implemented in full.
If you’re unsure about your chances of getting your ex back, then you’re in luck because
I’ve developed a quiz tool to determine your chances of recovering your relationship.
To take this 5 minute quiz, just head on over to BreakupBrad.com/quiz…
you’ll be asked a few specific questions about your ex...and at the end, you’ll be
given a score and some advice tailored advice.
Again, if you want to take that quiz, head over to BreakupBrad.com/quiz… and remember,
it’s FREE!
That’s all I got for you today!
Thanks and good luck!