- Is he not giving you that same attention
that he has in the past? Or is his interest in you fading?
Well, then if that's the case, then keep watching me,
'cause I'm gonna give you five things that you can do
to make him chase you again.
Hi, guys.
My name is Ieva Bereisaite.
And yes, you guessed it, I am Greta's little sister.
I'm also one of Greta's high-value women coaches.
And today I'm gonna tell you five things that you can do
to make him chase you again.
But before I get into the video,
make sure that you take the self-awareness test
and find out if you're a woman of high value
or a woman of a low value.
And you will find that test
in the description section below.
When your guy is not giving you the same attention
that he has been giving you in the past,
I totally get it.
It makes us worried, it makes us nervous and anxious.
And you just wanna figure out why he's not giving you
the same attention like he has before.
If you're in a relationship with a guy
and you're in a loving relationship
and everything is going well,
and he just seems to give you less attention,
don't jump to conclusions.
It doesn't necessarily mean that he just stopped loving you
or anything like that.
There can be many reasons
why a guy gives you less attention.
For one, the most simplest reason
is that he is just busy with his life.
He's busy with work,
he's stressed out, or just has a lot on his plate.
Whatever the case may be,
these five things that I'm going to mention
will help either way.
All of these tips that I'm going to be mentioning,
they're all interlinked.
So to get the full understanding of it,
make sure you watch the whole video.
So the first thing that I recommend doing,
if you're not getting the attention
that you're normally used to,
and if your guy has stopped chasing you in a way,
give yourself space.
Give yourself time to focus on your life
and to focus on yourself.
Start doing things that you love doing.
Start spending time with family more,
start spending time with friends more,
take care of yourself more.
He should not be your focus, right?
And that's the case with a woman of high value.
She has her life outside of him
and her life fulfills her outside of him.
And if you feel like he's not chasing you
the way that he has,
the best thing to do would be to concentrate
on your life again.
Do things that make you happy,
get yourself busy, get your focus off of him.
When you start doing that, you will be feeling much better.
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If you feel anxious, worried, and upset,
think about how much of your happiness
he actually has an influence over, right?
Like if a woman is very content and happy with her life,
she's not gonna be giving her happiness away.
She's not gonna be putting it in another person's hands.
She is in charge of her own happiness.
And he additionally adds up to the happiness
that she already has in her life, right?
So if you feel like, "Oh, no."
Like you're getting worried and anxious,
this is a reminder for you to focus on your life again.
Do things that you enjoy doing again and focus on you,
make sure to have a life outside of him
that makes you happy. That keeps you busy,
that you are fulfilled with.
This is not what a lot of people
or lot of women have, right?
They put their happiness onto him
and expect him to make you happy a lot of the time.
And this is the difference between the high value
and the low value.
So have your life, have your happiness, okay?
So it's very high value to have a life outside of him.
And this is what he will be seeing as well
and it's a huge turn on for guys
to see that he is not number one.
The second thing that is important
is to be in the receiving space.
So remember, girls receiving is very feminine, all right?
And pursuing and taking action and chasing
is very masculine.
So keep this in mind
if you have the urge to reach out to him again,
get busy with your life, focus on your goals, dreams,
ambitions, and what it is that you want to achieve.
There's nothing more off putting
than a woman who is chasing you, being anxious,
being worried, not just focusing on her own life.
So be in the receiving end of it, okay?
Be in the receiving end of it,
let him do his masculine thing, let him do his thing,
and you're gonna be the one receiving it.
And you're not even gonna notice,
that he's actually not paying that much attention to you
because you're gonna be so happy
and so busy and fulfilled in your own life.
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So my tip or a thing that you can do number three is,
if you're having those negative thoughts in your mind,
like what if he found someone else?
What if he doesn't love me anymore?
Or anything like that,
remember that those are just insecurities, okay?
And when those insecurities hit us
and when those questions come about,
the best thing that we can do
is literally to focus on ourselves
and to build our confidence as a high value woman.
When you build your confidence as a high value woman,
the thing that happens is
that your insecurities start shrinking.
And when your insecurities starts shrinking,
you don't get those types of thoughts anymore, right?
So, start reminding yourself of how amazing, how worthy,
how wonderful you are as a woman.
Do things that make you feel wonderful.
As I said again, I'm mentioning it often
because it is very important.
Do things that make you feel like the queen that you are,
do things that make you feel amazing,
work on your confidence level in this time,
it will definitely shrink those negative thoughts.
And tell yourself every single day,
just how awesome you are.
The fourth thing that you can do, or the fourth tip
is to literally let him miss you.
Let him mess your attention, let him miss your amazingness.
When he starts chasing you again, okay?
When he starts giving you the attention again,
the reason why he's gonna do that
is that you're gonna be on his mind.
He will start missing you, right?
'Cause you're so busy with your life and your amazingness.
He will start missing you.
Remember, distance makes a man miss you,
and distance makes a man love you more
and realize just how awesome you are as a high value woman.
It can be challenging sometimes to be fully high value
and working on becoming more high value
can seem a little bit hard
if you're doing it on your own, right?
So make sure
that you join Greta's High-Value Women School, right?
It's a free Facebook group that you can join anytime.
And there's a bunch of women learning to become high value
and bring out the best in your man.
So make sure that you check out that group.
It's very valuable.
So my last tip is when he does reach out to you again,
and when he does start chasing you again,
make sure that you keep your emotions in check.
Be high value after he had reached out to you
or given you more attention.
Be high value, okay?
Don't ask him things like,
why didn't you reach out? What was going on?
And stuff like that.
Be in the feminine, be on the receiving part.
And that's gonna give you a lot more
than you might think.
It's so much better to be on the receiving part of this
for a woman 'cause it's her natural kind of
like state of being. It's the feminine energy.
And remember, don't put your happiness into his hands.
Your happiness is your own responsibility
and that's the way that it should be,
and that's what will make us truly happy.
And remember, be feminine and be on the receiving end.
And your happiness is in your own hands.
So don't put them on a pedestal,
don't put your happiness in his hands,
have a life outside of him, right?
That's one of the most attractive qualities
that a woman can have
and a man picks up on it very, very, very quickly
because it is rare.
I wanted to add an additional bonus into this video
because I think this is also something really important
that needs to be mentioned
when it comes to getting a guy to chase us again, okay?
So it's very possible, right?
And that's why I want to mention it,
that a guy stops giving us the attention
or stops chasing us like that
because we acted needy, or a low value, or insecure, right?
And that put him off, okay?
And that's why he stopped chasing you, right?
And if that is the case,
a couple of things need to be considered, right?
It's nothing bad if we did act needy by accident
and if we were insecure or anything like that,
if we are generally high value, okay?
If you are generally high value and you just slipped up
and acted like really needy or pursued him,
or did any of those low value things
and he kind of stepped aside
and stopped giving you the attention
that he would normally give you,
in my opinion, it is not something
that you should have to worry about, right?
If you do the steps that I mentioned from one to five,
they will really benefit the relationship
and bring the balance back into play.
Did he stop chasing me because he's stressed at work?
For example.
Or did he stop chasing me because I acted needy
and I noticed that he was giving me less attention, okay?
But it doesn't matter
if it was that situation or that situation,
either one can be fixed in a way,
if you take the steps from one to five, okay?
And if you did act needy or a low value
and that's the reason
why he stopped chasing you a little bit.
as I said, don't worry too much about it.
Just really make sure
you could do the steps from one to five.
And that's really, what's going to help you, right?
Also ask yourself if you're in a relationship with the sky,
you will obviously know what type of person he is.
And if he has good morals and good values and is a good man,
then it's not something
that you should worry about too much,
especially if it's not happened that often,
like if you've not been too needy, and stuff like that.
And if it was like, it just happened,
you can use these tips to fix that for sure.
Take the tips. They will help you.
And let me know how much they had helped you as well
in the comments below. I'd love to know that.
And as I said, don't worry too much about it
and just focus on your life
and everything's gonna be fine.
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