Hello and welcome to another episode of Tripp's Tips.
I'm Tripp
from trippadvice.com
and today
I want to talk to you guys about
approaching
a girl
at a coffee shop.
There are two ways that you can
approach a girl
at a coffee shop.
You can either go direct
or you can go indirect.
Direct is something like
"Hey, I saw you over here and I think you're so adorable.
I'd regret it for the rest of the day if I didn't come over and say hi."
I know, pretty intense right from the get go,
you're just throwing all your cards on the table but
what's cool about it is that you're showing that you have at ton of
confidence and you're not scared to do what a million guys wish they could do.
This direct approach will work the best
if you're dressed really well
and you deliver your line
with super confidence.
So I don't want you going over there
looking like a schlub
in some raggedy clothes. You've got to look nice because if you're not looking good
and you're calling her cute,
she's gonna be creeped out. Make sure that when you deliver the line,
you say it and you're looking her right in the eye.
Give her good eye contact. Put a smile on your face.
If you don't and you look nervous,
she's going to reject you
and she's not going to give you a second
to get in the conversation. I don't care what anybody else says.
If you have to go and rehearse the line in front of the mirror over and over,
then do it.
Your second option is to go indirect.
So that is not directly commenting on the fact that you think she's cute or
you think she's interesting but
commenting on maybe
a book she's reading
or her laptop.
Anything that can get you in the conversation with her.
The key to an indirect approach
is to make sure that you can keep up the conversation and bring it to an
interesting level.
Stop right there. I know what you're thinking. But Tripp, what if people see me?
I'm scared to
talk to a stranger in front of other strangers. The guys around you,
they're jealous. They wish that they could have that courage like you to go to
a girl and approach her.
They wish they could be doing what you're doing.
Millions of guys wish they could be doing what you're doing. And women,
they only wish that
they were being approached by you.
Women dream of this,
being at a coffee shop,
being outside during the day at a grocery store and being approached by an
awesome guy
who's gonna sweep them off their feet.
They only wish it was them. So do yourself a favor
and stop thinking about what other people are doing
and live in the present and think about what you're doing and concentrate on what
you're going after, not what other people think, not what other people want.
If you don't
bring on your flirting, then
what's going to happen is you're going to be stuck in the friend zone
and I'm sure that's the exact opposite
of what you're trying to do
so make sure that you bring the conversation to a flirtatious level.
Because so many guys ask me how to flirt and how to create that intense
attraction,
what I did is I put together a free five day video course
for you guys so you can learn how to maximize attraction and get
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You guys are awesome. Keep on approaching and I'll see you
next week.