Hey, what's going on? Tripp Kramer here from Tripp Advice.com. We're talking about chasing.
How annoying is it, honestly, to be chasing after women? To be trying so hard to get them
or get them attracted to you, and it's just not working? Well, one of the things is that
the whole act of you chasing a woman is what turns her off. The guys who are chasing women
generally lose. I remember when I was younger, in high school, in college, and even into my
early 20s. That's what I was doing. I was in chase mode. And once in a while, it works.
Once in a while one of the situations ends up going your way. But more times than not,
it doesn't work. What does that mean anyways? What does it means to chase a girl? What I'm saying is,
you're basically trying too hard and you're looking needy and that act of that chase of trying
so hard, gets her to be turned off. Texting all the time, asking them on dates all the time. And
it is good if you are someone who has ever chased a girl before in that sense. It is good that you
are putting yourself out there and you are going for the close, so to speak. But if it doesn't
work out, chasing her more or trying even harder or being extra persistent, is not going to seal
the deal. I want you to be careful because there's gonna be guys in the comments and you're going to
hear anecdotal evidence of guys saying... or women even saying, "That's not true. I remember this
one guy who asked me out. I said no to him and then after the eighth time, I finally said yes,
and now he's my husband." Or you're gonna hear no, be persistent, you got to keep going for it.
Like I said, that works once in a while. But that is extremely rare. That is the exceptional case.
That persistence, that chasing generally does not work. What do you have to do? You have to
get her to chase you. And here's a line that I love. Because I know you're here for the line.
I'll give you the line, that's fine. But you have to understand how to use the line
and the context in which to use it and why it works. But the line that you can say to a woman
is, "Oh man, we would never get along." I'm not acting it out in the way that I
would say it. But that's the words. "Oh man, we would never get along." That's the line.
When would you use this and why does it get her to chase you? You would generally use this
in an approach setting. This wouldn't necessarily be on a first date, although you can use it on a
first date. But this is generally when you are meeting a girl, you're approaching her
or it's some sort of in person interaction and you're meeting her for the first time
at a networking event, at a singles event, at a friend's house, at a party, something like that.
And you guys are talking and maybe a couple minutes in she tells you about herself or
she's talking about something or you're asking her some questions and then you go
"Oh man, we would never get along." This is what's called a disqualifier. You're disqualifying her.
You're saying, "Hey, you're disqualified. I'm disqualifying you. I'm saying to you this is never
gonna work out." And what this does is it actually gets her to chase you. Now again, it doesn't work
100% of the time, but it does work a lot of the time and you should definitely try it. You can
use that or any form of disqualification saying that you two will never get along, it's not going
to work out, anything like that. You can even make up your own, that's fine. But you're gonna
say it and this is going to get her to start to chase your validation and say, "Wait a minute.
Wow, I can't believe he's saying that." Some of the psychology behind this is the idea that...
well, a couple things. One, we want what we can't have. Here's an example of going to a club
and it's so hard to get in and you can't get in and it makes you want to get in more. That's
one of the reasons behind it. Another reason why chasing or getting her to chase that validation
works so well is because she becomes more attracted to you when she knows that you have more
options. You're basically saying to her that you have options when you are not trying to chase her.
And women become more attracted to a guy who has options. And one of the reasons that is is because
it's social proof. It's basically social proof without even her having to see that other women
want you. You are subconsciously saying that to her. You're subconsciously saying there
are other women who want you and that's why you're saying to her "We'll never get along.
This isn't going to work out." You're pushing her away. You're pushing her away a little bit.
That's what makes it so powerful. Real quick – I have a lot of other conversation
topics that are very powerful when you're talking to a woman, especially if you meet her in person.
It's called Chick Crack. It's 100% free and it even gets you on my email list. My email list
is newsletters that I send out about two to three times a week that give you more tips
and more techniques on how to flirt and meet women. You can check that out down
below. There's a link where you'll get an email with a video called Chick Crack which is about
10-15 minutes long teaching you several different conversation topics that you can use alongside of
this line that helps get her to chase you. In summary, we want to make sure that she's doing the
chasing and you're no longer doing the chasing. We understand that this is powerful because we
want to get her to the point where she sees you as not needy and a guy with options. Whatever you can
do in the conversation to make sure that you are disqualifying her try that out, see how it works.
Go in the description down below, get Chick Crack, get that free video. A lot of guys have had it
and they've told me that they love it. They've actually DMed me saying how helpful it is when
they're using these topics in conversation because it helps continue the conversation and it also is
conversation that is interesting to women. And I think you're gonna find it interesting too.
Go ahead and check that out. I'll see you on the next video.