Hello my amazing friend! Thank you so much for watching.
Melannie here from CoachMelanie.com and today we're going to talk about five
signs of a toxic girlfriend.
Last week I posted a video on some of the signs of a toxic relationship. We
also talked about how toxic people, it's pretty balanced between men and women.
And so it's pretty critical to know that when you're looking for a girlfriend and
ultimately a wife, it's pretty critical to know some of the traits of toxic
women so that you're not stuck with one. With that in mind I'm going to be
sharing with you five traits that toxic women have, that toxic girlfriends have.
And it's best to catch these things before she becomes your girlfriend, but
it's still better to notice it when she's your girlfriend
rather than when she's your wife. Number one. Drama queen.
Toxic women love drama. Oh my goodness they love drama. One of my favorite
quotes I've never heard on this topic, and I believe it was by blimeycow, they
said in their YouTube channel, I don't remember which episode I'm sorry, but
they said "There are two types of people in this world. The kind who hate drama,
and the kind who say they hate drama." Oh my goodness this is so true. Toxic women
love to be involved in drama. And they pretend they hate it but they love
micromanaging it and being involved in it. And anytime drama stops they're on to
the next drama. These women often are constantly involved in social media,
constantly involved in gossip, whatever it is, all because they love drama.
Basically, she's a magnet for drama and no matter what she says deep down
she loves it. Number two. She's not willing to put in any effort. She just
kind of acts like the fact that she's there physically means she's involved in
the relationship, but she's not willing to put in any effort other than that. And
if you try and talk to her about it she flies off the handle or she changes the
subject or she falls apart. These types of women will cause guys to do all the
work, all the compromising, put in all the
effort. They're really nothing other than just a body
in the room. They're not willing to put in any kind of effort in the
relationship. They require that you put in all effort.
Number three. She disrespects you in public. That's never okay. Ever, ever, ever,
ever okay. And she does this on purpose to put you in your place to cause more
drama and because she knows if you're embarrassed you probably will continue
to let her push you around. You'll back down, you'll back off, and she
stays in control. The fact is, you deserve someone who's
always got your back, especially in public. And if she's
disrespecting you in public she's not the kind of person you want. Number four.
She is needy. Oh my goodness. Now let me explain something with this one. As
humans we need each other. We just do. Especially from that special someone. And
as women there are certain things we just need from men, and as men there are
certain things you just need from women. And when you're in a relationship with
someone there's just certain things you need from them. There's nothing wrong
with that. That's actually a healthy relationship, where you're both giving
and taking. That's completely different than a needy girl. A needy girl always
needs your reassurance and your constant attention. She always needs you there
taking care of it and fixing it. The fact is, this is a self-absorbed person. Your
needs will never matter. And frankly, who has time to always be babying someone?
You don't want a needy girl in your life. And number five.
She yells at you. Basically, any kind of verbal abuse is verbal abuse and it's
out of line, but sometimes we don't really think about it. If she's yelling
at you she's completely out of line and it's a sign of bigger problems and
that's a really good like red flag, walk away, you don't want anything to do with
this woman. Here's the truth, you deserve an amazing woman who's going to treat
you absolutely fantastic. You're clearly a good guy. The fact that you're watching
this video shows that you're wanting to put in effort, to have a healthy and
happy relationship. And the truth is, you deserve a woman
who's willing to do that too. It's important to be aware of what I like to
call the signs of the siren. Toxic women, they sound so sweet, but when you get
close it's not pretty and it can cause real harm to you and to your future
children. So it's important to know the signs of the siren, of toxic women, so
that you don't get trapped in a horrible heartbreaking relationship. So thank you
so much for watching. If you have any questions please leave me a comment on
it. Or if you've ever had experience with any of these things or even just have
some additional traits of toxic women you'd like to mention, by all means leave
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Another way you can avoid toxic women is by knowing when to approach women who
aren't toxic. One good way to do this is to simply know if she likes you.
It makes approach and the entire relationship in situations so
much easier. I have put together a video for you on the top five things girls do
when they are interested. Be sure to check the link in the description below,
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Thank you so much again my amazing friends and have an amazing day.
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