What's up, gentlemen?
Welcome to another episode of Mantelligence.
We all know the struggle of having to read a woman's mind.
"Why can't she just tell me what she wants?" said every man in the world.
It’s for this reason that we've rounded up a list of all the things
all girls want from men, so you don’t have to
play "guess what" every time.
Today's episode was inspired by Alex Costa's video, where she
shared a list of what all girls want their men to do more.
By the end of this video, we are also revealing the best way to know what your
woman wants.
If you want to know how to make her fall for you, again and again,
keep watching.
5.
Overly Dressed GF/ Casual Wear BF Have you seen that meme about an overly dressed
girlfriend and a casual wear boyfriend?
Apparently, women have a problem with how we dress, and I get it.
Most men aren't as great as women when it comes to
mixing and matching clothes, and we really don't want to go through all that trouble
of planning our outfits.
You probably throw on the first thing you can find in your wardrobe.
I mean, I guess that’s okay when we’re alone or
spending time with our friends, but we should really start dressing up more when we're with
our girlfriends.
Turns out it's one of the things all girls want guys to do more.
If you're single and want to know how to be attractive to girls and how to impress girls,
dressing to impress is one way to do it.
Even if you move like an alpha male, a bad outfit
always stomps a confident body language.
It just doesn't add up.
According to psychologist Diana Kirschner how you dress and take care of your grooming
is important to women from the first flirtation through the honeymoon and beyond.
"You've got to figure out if there's a certain look that she likes.
If she likes a guy in tight jeans, you wear tight jeans," says Kirschner.
If you don't know how to look better, here are a few useful tips:
Number one, you should know that dressing well is a skill and can be learned-
you get better the more you practice.
Number two, develop an eye by figuring out the kind of style you like.
One way to know is to think of anyone whose style you think looks good and then
take that as your inspiration.
Number three, focus on a classic style first before trying
to develop a personal style.
A white shirt with a leather jacket never goes out of style.
Think James Dean and Clint Eastwood.
A sweatshirt paired with chino trousers, a button-down shirt paired with tailored trousers,
plus great shoes, and a great watch never fail.
Lastly, get the right fit.
Most guys tend to wear clothes that are too big for them
because it feels more comfortable, but the right fit will make you look more put together.
Check out this video if you want to know more about alpha male body language tricks.
4.
Sometimes I Run, Sometimes I Hide We hate to admit it, but we men are prideful
creatures.
Perhaps it was our upbringing.
Maybe it's the way society expects us to act.
Whatever it is, we can all agree that admitting when we're wrong really grinds our gears.
Apparently, one of the most frustrating things for women is when they're having a heated
discussion with their boyfriend, and they flat out refuse to admit they're
in the wrong.
She's certain she's right and confident that you know you're wrong and
will apologize, but you go ahead and deny it even if you know
you are.
Sometimes you're even completely unaware of it and don't
even bother acknowledging she wants you to talk to her about it.
What a chomp, right?
Man, that really grinds their gears.
Being open to being wrong is what all girls want men to realize.
But here's the thing, your testosterone is to
blame.
According to Colin Camerer, a professor of behavioral economics at Caltech,
men with high testosterone levels tend to think they're correct when they're not.
"What we found was the testosterone group was quicker to make snap judgments
on brain teasers where your initial guess is usually wrong.
The testosterone is either inhibiting the process of mentally checking your work
or increasing the intuitive feeling that 'I'm definitely right," says Camerer.
"We are all wired to protect ourselves, and this can lead to defensive behavior,"
says licensed marriage therapist Linda Caroll, explaining that all relationships
sometimes experience defensive behavior.
"But if you find that you or your partner is always on guard,
waiting on the front lines to pounce into a defensive mode of communicating,
it can be deeply harmful to the relationship."
There's nothing wrong with being wrong.
We all make mistakes.
Knowing when you're wrong and being willing to apologize when you are
is one way to establish trust with your girlfriend.
If you don't want to lose her acknowledge when you're wrong
and learn how to communicate your feelings with your partner.
Check out this video where we break down all the signs she wants you to talk to her.
3.
Let's Talk About Sex When it comes to love-making, do you know
how to please your girl?
Do you know what she wants?
Let's face it when it comes to attracting the ladies,
being good in bed is one of them.
Do you want to know how to be attractive?
Do you want to know how to get girls to chase you?
As it turns out, a generous lover is one of the most important
things all girls want in a relationship.
Most of the time, we get so focused on feeling good for ourselves
that we forget how to make our women feel good.
According to marriage therapist Linda Caroll, like listening, generosity is
a value that acts as an underlying current in many other traits.
Generosity is important in every part of a relationship.
Giving and accepting affection, doing things for one another to make life easier,
forgiving each other, and keeping your partner sexually satisfied all require a generous
heart.
In fact, generosity supports a healthy sex life.
Good foreplay begins with generosity.
According to Caroll, we are being generous lovers when we turn our partners on
by doing what they like rather than what we think they should want.
Letting our partners know when we are pleased, appreciating their efforts,
and being willing to hear and explore their fantasies adds richness to our relationships.
So ask her what she wants, learn how to attract women with body language,
and know the body language signs she likes you to turn her on.
Want to know more ways to get girls to chase you?
Check out this video.
We are down to our last two items in today's episode about what all girls want in men.
Before we continue breaking down all the things all girls want, I just want to remind you
hat by the end of this video, we're also teaching you the best way to know what your
woman wants because I don't know about you, but I don't like playing the guessing game.
If you want to know how to get a girlfriend, stay tuned.
2.
Respect the Ladies Just as men have a bro code, women also have
a strong commitment to stick and stand up for each other.
Especially now that women are more outspoken about fighting for their rights.
Gentlemen, women notice how you treat other women and how you treat other women
says a lot about how you'll treat your girlfriend, so if you're in any way sexist, disrespectful,
and insistent about going beyond their boundaries, cut it out now.
Stay single if you can't.
A man that's respectful with other women is what all girls want in a boyfriend.
Whenever you say things like "you're not like other girls," that doesn't impress us.
Speaking ill of other women "just because" isn't sexy at all.
It's not enough to learn how to improve your body language.
If you want to know how to be good-looking without physically looking good,
learn how to be an honest-to-god gentleman.
1.
The Eyes, Chico Most men have trouble keeping eye contact.
Maybe it's all part of your ego?
Or perhaps you don't like looking vulnerable?
Whatever it is, eye contact is important, so practice looking your partner in the eye
every time you talk.
You know what else?
Kirschner says that women prefer their men to make eye contact with them as they're talking.
And looking her in the eye during sex will deepen the relationship outside the bedroom.
Now that you know what all girls want, it's time we teach you the best way
to know what your woman wants.
According to relationship expert Ariana Jeret, you must get and remain curious about each
other.
This goes beyond asking what she wants.
It's all about learning about your partner the same way an investigative
reporter would wish to know everything about a person they're studying-
how she thinks, how she feels about certain things, her needs as a girlfriend,
what makes her heart happy, what makes her terribly sad, etc.
How about you?
Do you know your girlfriend well?
Do you know what she wants?
Share yor thoughts in the comment section below.
And that is it on this list of all the things all girls want in a man.
Remember, when it comes to making yor girl happy, you got to
think like an investigative reporter.
If you want to learn more alpha male body language tricks, check out this video now.