hi I'm Adrienne Everheart and today I wanted to share with you a question that I had for yesterday
which was ask me anything and I actually got a question in her Abbey and she and her boyfriend of
three years have broken up and they've been broken up now for about three months and during that time
he's only contacted to her two times once was to get his things back and another was for something
else they had to work out with things inside their home so Abby's really confused because
she's still feeling she's feeling miserable she's feeling heartbroken she misses him it's been three
months she's heard nothing so Abbey first of all I'm so sorry you're going through this right now
I can imagine I know firsthand the feelings of heartbreak are just ones that just really take
your heart out and you know leave you feeling just abandoned and scared and you know often sometimes
hopeless and fearful they are ever gonna find love again or that you're ever gonna feel the same way
about another person again and I really encourage you during this time that you're apart from him
that you try to find a way to make your life as rich and is wonderful and juicy and exciting as
you possibly can whether that's taking a new class doing something new hanging out with a
new group of friends joining some great meetup groups or just something completely different to
mix up your life and make your life richer from the inside out because as you can imagine the
relationship with your guy it's over even if you were to get back together again which is totally
possible you're gonna have a new relationship so what you want to do is work from the inside out
and build yourself up make your world amazing so when he does come back around and men have a way
of often coming back round so when if he does he's going to be fascinated by you and you're gonna be
the person he fell in love with he's gonna fall in love with you all over again the chances of
happening are much greater if you make your life amazing every way that you can't try new things my
second a little bit of advice is start dating some other guys now none of these guys are going to
be like your guy they are not going to compare to him whatsoever and kind of go at it like you know
that and you're just using these guys as practice you want to work on yourself you want to work on
being in your feminine energy and leaning back shoulders down leaning back sitting across the
table from a man and having conversation letting him lead the pursuit him contact you him get in
touch with you when you have conversations with him are you able to find feeling statements are
you able to find your emotions and tell him how you're feeling so look at these men that you can
date casually just look at them as practice and that's what you want to do and again if when you
are to reconcile with your man you're going to be better equipped to have a long-lasting committed
relationship with him now on the chances that for whatever reason it's not meant to be you
don't reconnect with him you're gonna basically be so polished up and from the inside out and be so
attractive and exciting and enticing to any man that you come across you're gonna be like a man
magnet and you're gonna have lots of guys coming your waist you're really gonna have your choice
of men here so let's make sure I taught touched on all of my topics I think I did and there is
one last thing I want to share with you and if you have gone through a breakup and the guy is
just not talking to you and you really want to reach out why don't you get one last try
most of the time we talk about staying in your feminine energy just leaning back letting a man
your way so there is one last alternative I offer for that it's what we call the hell
Mary Pass which in football is your last chance for anything happening and there is a way you
can do this it's complicated its advanced timing has a lot to do with it but it's really your one
last chance to let this person know how you feel and that and to show them that you have
you know you are really a different person now you're still the same you but you've been proved
in some areas maybe there were areas that were causing you know stress in the relationship or
maybe he's had the time in space he's needed to really get his life together so he can step up
be a man and claim you as his woman so if you want to learn more about that just send me an email I'm
at Everhart coaching at gmail.com of course visit my website I have lots of free tools and tips and
newsletters and that's at everheartcoaching.com I hope this has been helpful and take good care