INFJs are the least likely to be who you think they are.
While some people may assume they have an INFJ all figured out, there's surely a lot
under the surface that hasn’t been uncovered.
So.. what are 9 of the weirdest things all INFJs do that others don’t realize they’re
doing?
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Number 1: They plan for everything Let’s just say if you take an INFJ out for
dinner to a new restaurant, don’t be surprised if they already know what they want, exactly
where it is, how to park and even where they want to sit.
This is because INFJs plan for everything, with social events being one of their main
focuses.
While most INFJs play it cool, for example, by scanning over the menu so that they don’t
look like a total weirdo, they have most likely already planned this all ahead of time.
Aside from pre-planning an outfit the day before, an INFJ may question things like how
busy, loud, or close-seated the restaurant will be, to accurately mentally prepare for
the atmosphere.
This is one of the main reasons why surprises and sudden changes of plans can easily cause
INFJ panic because they need the time to properly process what they should be expecting.
Number 2: They can dissociate from reality by thinking to deeply
It’s no surprise that the INFJ spend a great deal of time in their inner world, but how
can INFJs seem like such attentive listeners when they spend so much time focusing on their
thoughts?
Well.. while INFJs can choose to be good listeners when they want to be, they can easily daze
off into the inner workings of their minds.
Whether it’s while completing mundane tasks, or simple things like driving to work, INFJs
can disassociate their minds from the tasks their bodies are responsible for.
They may even get distracted while in the middle of a conversation because they’re
too busy searching for solutions within their minds.
While it may not be totally obvious from the outside, INFJs can be in a serious train of
thought and seem completely attentive.
Number 3: They have their guard up 90% of the time
INFJs are a lot more private than most people think.
In fact, although they are introverted creatures, INFJs have an added layer of hesitancy when
it comes to sharing their personal thoughts.
Not only is this because INFJs are so used to feeling misunderstood for the way they
see the world, but also because they don’t want to burden others with their baggage.
INFJs want to be the helpers, not the ones receiving the help.
So, as much as someone thinks they know an INFJ deep down, there's always a lot left
to be uncovered.
And even then, an INFJ will never give away their own secrets.
Number 4: They have fantasized about strangers INFJs are passionate individuals who love
thinking-up future scenarios.
So, when they feel attracted to someone, they can easily visualize potential future scenarios
with that person with just a simple act of the imagination.
While some of the INFJs fantasies can be of a sexual nature, this personality type mostly
focuses on things like how their parents would react if they met this person, how great life
would be financially, how great of a parent they would be, and so on.
They may even ruminate on the thought of who they think someone is before they get to know
them, and then end up disappointed at the fact that this person doesn’t compare to
the fantasized version the INFJ made up in their own heads.
Ironically, this elaborate imagination is what makes it sometimes difficult for an INFJ
to settle for a relationship in the first place.
Number 5: They hold back a lot of what they want to say
This introspective personality type is constantly analysing and picking up on the energy of
the world around them.
In fact it’s fair to say that most personality types don’t come close to doing the same
amount of analysing as the INFJ, therefore, the INFJ sees things that others would normally
completely overlook.
INFJs know things that others don’t know, and at times it can make situations feel tense
and uncomfortable as this introverted type is stuck between saying something and risking
being misunderstood for their intentions, or holding back and allowing the situation
to work itself out.
And because the INFJ is so empathetic towards others, they usually end up keeping their
lips sealed to ensure they don’t hurt any feelings or stir a pot that shouldn't be tampered
with.
While it’s not so noticeable from the outside looking in, if an INFJ knows something that
others don’t, they’re probably screaming inside wanting to tell someone.
Number 6: They can see 2 sides in everyone
Most INFJs have a tendency to want to see the best in everyone, and although that may
be difficult in some situations, the INFJ believes there are 2 sides to every personality.
Yin and yang, hot and cold, highs and lows, whatever you want to call it, the introspective
INFJ loves to analyze the behaviors of others and after time, it becomes very apparent that
not everyone is as shady, or angelic as they may seem.
While this allows INFJs to see the good in people, it also allows them to remain slightly
skeptical of seemingly good people until they really know them inside and out.
They know everyone makes mistakes, but they also know the difference between a mistake
and a behaviour.
This is why above all else, INFJs require authenticity and genuinity in the people they
consider to be within their closest circle.
Number 7: They can be secretly obsessed with bettering themselves
INFJs may seem like everything just happens in their favour at times, but what people
don’t know is that this is the farthest from the truth.
This perfectionist personality type is on the never-ending road to self improvement,
and while they may change roads depending on their focus, they are alway on route.
They may seem like they’re completely confident in their skin when deep down inside they’re
actually really hard on themselves in terms of diet and exercise.
Or, they may make it seem like they’re happy in their high-paying yet demanding job when
really every night when they get home they’re searching for something that suits them better.
INFJs always have something up their sleeves, and while this comes as both a positive and
negative trait depending on how easy they are on themselves, most people would never
know how high of expectations most INFJs have for themselves.
Number 8: They can really hide their nervousness
Just as INFJs can make it seem like everything is just fine and dandy on the outside, while
struggling on the inside, they also have the ability to hide their introverted anxiousness
when in social situations.
In fact, some people are surprised to find out that the INFJ they know is actually introverted.
This is because, since an INFJ understands human behaviour and how to have a proper human
encounter, they know what it is they have to do to come off as likeable and confident.
While they may be feeling overwhelmed, uncomfortable and disinterested on the inside, they are
able to make it seem like they are totally vibrant, happy and excited to socialize on
the outside.
Of course it’s fair to say that some INFJs are more introverted than others, and it all
depends on the social situation.
Number 9: They sometimes don’t understand themselves
INFJS can be super convincing that they have their whole lives figured out when in reality,
they are just as lost as everyone else.
Although most INFJs would rightfully argue that they have a deeper understanding of the
purpose of the human experience and the lessons that we’re here to learn, they still have
their own confusions when it comes to playing the role of a successful human on earth.
Oftentimes, INFJs struggle to understand themselves as a whole, including their feelings and future
goals.
Although they ask themselves all the introspective life questions, sometimes, INFJs still don’t
really know if where they are in life is where they need to be, if who they’re with is
who they’re suppose to be with, and if they’re making the right moves towards the future
that they’re not really sure about.
INFJs know exactly what they don’t want, but when it comes to understanding what they
do want, it can be overly challenging.
Well, that’s it for today PSYCH-Os..
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