So you met someone, you think he’s the one now the only problem is getting him to commit.
How do you do it?
Hey guys, my name is Amy North and today I’m going to share with you some tips that are
guaranteed to keep your guy only wanting you.
Before I get started I just want to quickly say that getting a guy to commit is a process
that starts with you.
Once you’re feeling like you’re best self, confident and ready to take on the world,
that’s when you should focus on the relationship.
So, when that time comes, here are five powerful tips that you can use to make him commit.
Know your worth.
As I mentioned, getting a man to commit starts with knowing your own self worth.
Believing that you’re valuable and that any man deserves you is key to making him
crazy about you.
To show him this, it’s important that you don’t drop what you’re doing when he calls,
and that you definitely don’t make your entire life revolve around him.
To help with this trick, plan activities for yourself and keep busy so that you won’t
be tempted to spend all your time with him.
The better you are with self restraint, the more effective you will be.
At the same time this doesn’t mean that you should ignore him or reject his date proposals.
Making yourself a little bit harder to catch means that he’ll have to work for your time
and affection, and when he sees that he’ll want you even more.
Be bold The truth is that getting a guy to commit
isn’t that hard at all.
You just need to know what you want and be bold enough to go after it.
Studies have shown that the word ’want’ is one of the most powerful words on the planet,
so by turning it into something sexy you can use it to your advantage.
For instance, tell him what you want and when you want it.
Don’t make it sound like you are a spoiled brat or like you are being bossy, but rather
give off the vibe of a confident woman whose views and wishes can’t be shaken.
Men like to rule, yes, but they also love a woman who knows when to take control.
If you’re interested in learning some powerful tricks for getting what you want in a relationship
then visit www.CoachNorth.com and watch the free video presentation.
Next is...
Find a balance between criticism and encouragement If there’s one thing no man can stand it’s
being nagged, and if you do it too much and you’ll have him running for the hills...Not
to mention that it’ll make getting him to commit twice as hard!
Instead, embrace a new tactic.
Let him get away with the things that bug you every once in awhile, and find new ways
to word what’s bothering you.
In fact, sometimes being silent is golden because he will be wondering what’s on your
mind and will reflect on his actions without you having to say a single word!
Being able to find the balance between criticism and encouragement is super important when
it comes to getting a guy to commit.
If there’s one thing that men love more than anything else in the world it’s praise.
So when he does something well recognize his achievements and support him when he needs
it most.
Being his rock now will make it easier to make him yours down the road.
Let him chase you Men are hunters and they thrive on winning
you.
That’s why it’s so important that you let him chase and catch you if you want him
to commit.
That said, there are two kinds of chasing: One is about capturing his interest for the
first time and letting him see you as the prize he’s longing for in his life.
The second is a closer, more intimate type of chasing.
It happens after you’ve already been caught, and you do it to keep the chase alive every
day in many of your interactions with your man.
It’s a key part to keeping him committed.
Many times in the beginning of a relationship a woman will chase him, but since he’s the
hunter, he’ll feel like it didn’t take much work to get to you and he’ll get bored.
To avoid this situation, pull back everything you are throwing at him: the communication,
availability, accommodations for his schedule, the whole shebang.
Don’t initiate plans with him, text him, or be the first to call.
You should only respond to his advances.
This may seem counterproductive if you’re trying to win the guy over, but if you’re
constantly contacting him, asking him to do things, and checking in, he won’t even have
the opportunity to come to you.
Master the art of pulling back, giving him space and letting him pursue you while you
play a subtle version of hard to get.
Be honest … tricks are for card games Fake it til you make it should never apply
to a relationship.
Building a relationship, especially a committed one, on a lie is never a good start.
If the foundation is shaky, the entire relationship will also be shaky.
Instead of using crafty tricks to pull him in, or making him think that you’re someone
that you’re not to keep him sticking around, be honest with him.
Who knows, you might even be surprised by the outcome more than you had imagined.
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