why does the secret and the law of attraction work and why does it
sometimes not work stay tuned Damon here with NLP Gym. The secret and the law of
attraction
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videos on a regular basis so the law of attraction the secret i just became
really really popular really rather famous not quite 20 years ago and I made
a lot of money is great marketing and I've been really critical about it ever
since it came out and people have found this people who know me find this kind
of odd that i would be so critical about it this seems to be right up my alley
that seems to be right in the same field that I get into and the reason that is
that i am very critical about it is because there's a little too much woo woo in
it for me there's a little too much left up to chance and one of the reasons why
i love NLP neuro-linguistic programming is because it is more science-based it
is more about finding the actual process the strategy the details why does this
work and when I know why this works and how it works and i can replicate the
results and until you know that you don't really know how to replicate the
results and if you're like me I've tried many things like the secret and the law
of attraction and sure sometimes it works but a lot of times it doesn't work
so why is that the law of attraction and the secret markets and packages things a
lot of times as if you don't really have to do anything all you do is make visual
images of something and suddenly the universe is going to turn into your
servant and just sort of hand you what you do now I know a lot of people who
played a role in the movie the secret and who have written things in line with
that don't actually say this they don't actually teach that but that's more her
was packing
and I'm very critical that because I'm just the same way that a very critical
of weight loss supplements and exercise equipment and things that try to pander
to the people who don't want to do any work and it's this idea that will yes
you don't have to do anything and it's not your responsibility that you're
overweight and we can show you something that basically you don't have to change
anything about your life or who you are and you will get what you want that's
just not true that you have to make changes in your life to get what you
want in order to change in and get through things are to be successful you
do have to change and there's no way around that and that's not a bad thing
that's that it's sure it's uncomfortable sometimes but that's a good thing i
heard one person say you know they have now all this sort of computer software
and technology where you can sort of put a certain beta waves or alpha waves
whatever it is that is the same as a Buddhist monk whose meditated for 30
years they can sort of replicate that and send those waves into your brain and
you can experience that I heard somebody say one time that's not what it's about
that's not what meditating for 30 years is about it's not just creating those
waves that sort of like a nice symptom that occurs what is about sitting down
and meditating for 30 years consistently that having that discipline is a huge
part of it you can't bypass that so when it comes to the secret comes to the law
of attraction is very simple NLP things that you can implement that make that
happen so for instance when there's something you want or something some
person the kind of person you want to be and you make a mental image of that and
you make it compelling with using some modalities meaning if a bright colorful
picture seems compelling to you and for most people it is but not everybody they
might have to do other things to the picture to make it compelling then
you're more likely to be drawn toward that especially if you see an image of
yourself having that thing that you want are being the person who you want
that's just one way and then you can you don't have to do this just visually you
can do it can aesthetically like for an athlete the feeling that they get
whatever they win a race in there the way their bodies moving and they know
that they're they're making it you know an athlete can do this cassette
likely that you don't have to be an athlete either to do an aesthetically
you can do it with sound especially for musicians you might need to hear certain
music and you're drawn to that sounds so you create that kind of music and again
you don't have to be a musician to do it
auditory some people are just more auditory could be a sound of your voice
to sound of someone else's voice whatever makes what you want even more
compelling that will make you gravitate to it more that is what you're looking
for and that has that is how does the Secret the law of attraction works now
if you just make mental images of miscellaneous stuff that sure you'd like
to have but you're not really you don't really feel compelled to get it's
probably not going to happen
I made a list of things one time this person told me to make a list of all the
things that I wanted and then create a pathway and and visual is a
visualization and everything to get these things and one of the things that
I put in there was a boat don't know why I put that in there is sure it would be
cool to have a boat would be cool to have a yacht
most people would agree with that but I wasn't compelled to have it so of course
it didn't get it I was compelled to be healthy so I saw an image of myself
looking very very healthy now that's very easy for me to eat right and
exercise that's the kind of things that you're looking for so what really
compels you what do you really compelled to have and I would just narrow it down
to two three things to three specific things that you want and create an image
of it and make that image really compelling by the brightness of it the
rich colors of it the size of the picture at the movies more compelling to
making a movie not a picture and you can find ways to do this with sound you know
does you can accompany the picture would sound if you're very auditory what is
music that would go along with this or what is it could be silenced it could be
the wind it could be a person's voice your own voice sounding very resonant
and for the feeling we're not talking about the anesthetic feelings as soon as
you see I mean we're not talking about the evaluative feeling because as soon
as you see something that you're compelled you're going to feel that
feeling inside but that's sort of like an evaluative feeling saying yes I want
those i'm talking about the kinesthetic tactile or proprioceptive feeling of
having that maybe it's a sensation of floating
or flying I know I get that whenever I dream a lot so use those things you said
modalities and I can have other videos on some analogies and I can do more
they're very very powerful and that's going to supercharge your goals and
that's going to make this whole idea of the secret and the law of attraction
really work for you i'm not against the law of attraction i'm not against the
secret but there needs to be more put into it to make it more predictable than
just I'm going to visualize a bike and suddenly it's going to appear the next
day not doesn't quite work that way and the universe is not here to be your
servant to just give you stuff you have to work for this and by visualizing it
you're going to feel compelled to do it and it's not really going to feel like
work so much it can sometimes and other times it's not but you have to be
willing to be uncomfortable to change your life and most people that's what it
takes to get so uncomfortable
you finally take action well I wouldn't wait to that . get uncomfortable now and
take some action right away law of attraction and the secret it doesn't
really work unless you take action you have to go along with it you have to
recognize those opportunities and sees them and do something about it
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