So you've been using the Law of Attraction and vision boards,
affirmations, incantations. You're doing it all.
You're watching a lot of YouTube videos, reading books,
and you want to attract a specific person,
a special person into your life. BEWARE,
the Law of Attraction is the problem.
Hi everyone, Robert Zink, Miracle Mentor and Alchemy Success Coach.
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So whatever the case may be,
whether you are interested in somebody that you've just met,
or maybe it's somebody you haven't met yet at all,
or maybe it's somebody that you were in a relationship with and the
relationship kind of fizzled apart. And the two of you are no longer together,
or perhaps you're trying to save a marriage. Whatever the case is,
you're interested in a specific person and you've been scouring the
internet. You've been reading books, audio programs,
trying to fix what is wrong with your situation,
with your connection, with your alignment, with this specific person,
trying to change your thoughts. So you're, you're spending all your time saying,
well, I've got to think positive, got to think positive, got to think positive.
You know,
Tony Robbins said once that one of the problems with positive thinking
is that you have to think positive all the time and I'm not against positive
thinking. I firmly believe in it.
But the truth of the matter is the Law of Attraction goes a lot
deeper than positive thinking. Most coaches don't understand that,
but that's the truth. It goes much deeper.
And then you've got all these counter feelings going on.
So one moment you're feeling very empowered and very on top of
things. And everything's moving in my direction.
Everything's beginning to work out.
And then the next moment you're down in the dumps.
What if he doesn't want me anymore? What if he starts dating someone else?
What if she finds someone else?
What if she never calls me back counter feelings,
counter thoughts, and those emotions are strong. They're powerful.
And they connect with universe and the universe reflects them back on
you. That's the danger.
That's the danger of the Law of Attraction.
Is that what you were putting out is coming right back to you.
So you end up with fears and doubts and worries,
and you just wonder, how are things ever going to happen?
Let's take a look at this chart here for a moment.
And I'll give you an idea of what I'm talking about.
So on the top of this circle,
we have beliefs and beliefs are the cornerstone
High Flyers of manifesting. Anything you desire.
The problem is,
is most people don't really take the time
to examine what they believe.
They go right to their thoughts. And so they,
they try to change their thoughts. Maybe if I change my thoughts,
maybe if I do these affirmations,
but the thoughts don't give way to
powerful manifesting feelings because the thoughts are
not backed by beliefs.
And then of course,
feelings lead to actions and actions when they are
inspired, become magnetic. I mean, they're absolutely incredible.
The right action at the right time can change everything between you and
your special person. It really can,
but it's not action alone.
It's action coming all the way around to beliefs.
Not just thoughts, not just feelings, but beliefs.
Now, when all of this is working together,
when your beliefs are congruent with new thoughts and feelings
and actions, you develop what we call connection
connection to the infinite field, which reflects it back.
But connection to your specific person.
So High Flyers people say to me all the time, Robert,
I'm trying to think positive. Robert,
I'm trying to have optimistic upleveling feelings.
Robert, I'm trying to take inspired action. I'm trying.
And there's that word trying. And it's,
it's one of the worst words you can ever use because it indicates
that you don't have it. And why don't you have it?
Because you didn't do any work on your beliefs.
Your beliefs are the same beliefs that you had
before and you have now, and you'll have tomorrow.
If you don't take the time to change them,
look at beliefs
equal the story that we tell ourselves
about who we are and what is possible,
who we are. Who are you?
What is possible for you? Well, I don't think I'm ever gonna, I get this,
this person because they're already dating someone. What else?
You see your belief,
your belief right there destroyed your ability.
So the Law of Attraction is the problem because the Law of Attraction is now
attracting that you're never going to get this person that you're never going to
be with this person. You get the idea.
You can't go. Just to your thoughts.
You can't just focus on your feelings.
You have to focus and reshape and reshift
your beliefs because when you shift and shape
and reform your beliefs so that they are now
in harmony with your deepest desires and goals,
then everything else, your thoughts, your feelings,
your actions will spring forth automatically take a look at the word.
Belief in the word belief is been.
And so new beliefs move you from trying.
I'm just trying to be mean. I am being,
I am there's that I am again,
that's that co-creator energy flowing through you.
I am beliefs move you into the
direction of your dreams and goals,
but you have to take the time to shift them. So High Flyers.
What about a new belief? A new belief that, yeah, it goes something like this.
I'm taking this person off the pedestal and I'm
putting myself on a pedestal.
I'm no longer worshiping this person. Yeah.
Or believing I can't live without this person or believing this person
is the only person for me. Now.
It may be that that the two of us will get together and have an
incredible loving relationship, a passionate relationship.
But it's not because I begged. It's not because I wanted,
it's not because I need it.
It's because I loved myself because I
focused on them in my own life, my own journey.
And I leveled up my arm magnetism.
And that person started begging to be with me,
started wanting to be with me.
You see now the Law of Attraction, isn't your enemy.
It's your friend because you've changed a belief. Remember High Flyers.
We don't attract what we want.
We attract who are through our own
personal magnetism and your magnetism more than anything. Yes.
There's a lot of factors that go into magnetism and we could do a whole video on
it. But more than anything, it's your beliefs.
Focus on being focus on you.
Number one, I believe that you can be a higher,
more magnetic version of yourself.
And by becoming a higher,
more magnetic version of yourself, you become more attractive,
more beautiful, more magnetic, and you draw, you're a special person.
You're a specific person to you rather than you begging whining and
chasing, but you got to believe it. You got to believe it's a new belief.
It comes down to beliefs.
You have to believe that you can be a higher
version of yourself. So number two is,
believe you are worthy.
That you are magnetic, that you.
Are deserving of love.
And respect.
Worthy. You see
some people believe that they are worthy.
Only if their partner tells them they're worthy or only if that
specific person tells them they're worthy.
Why not shift that belief and say,
I am worthy no matter what.
I am worthy and I am deserving,
I'm not just worthy. I'm not just worthy.
I'm deserving of love and respect. Oh,
that respect is so much. That's so important. People leave that out.
But when you start respecting yourself, what you will do,
what you won't do when you learn to say it,
no out of self-respect,
you've established a new belief, a new pattern, a new habit.
And you know what that means.
It means that the person that you're interested in, that you,
that you desire to be with is going to take notice of that energy.
First vibrationally,
then physically long before you,
you ever express it. Physically,
this person will notice it vibrationally,
and you'll move into an alignment.
But this alignment won't put you begging for love.
It'll put you expecting.
Love, receiving in love.
There's a big difference. High Flyers challenge,
limiting beliefs,
adopt new unlimited beliefs about yourself,
about potential, about the relationship.
People say to me all the time or Robert,
I met this person and we've been seeing each other and now we're not seeing each
other. And do you think there's a chance? Well,
with a belief system like that, no,
but see that's where the Law of Attraction is the problem,
because that belief system gets sent out to the universe and it gets reflected
back. That's what you attract.
You've got to get back to your beliefs,
unlimited potential to be anything
you desire to increase your magnetism and to attract
the one you want, the one you desire, the one you love,
or even someone better. Number four,
your significance comes from you.
Not from someone else, not from their opinions. Look,
we get, we get negative opinions every day. That's okay.
I don't care. I just delete them and move on.
Other people will have negative opinions from time to time.
That's okay.
You can take on those negative opinions because your opinion of
yourself is the only thing that
matters. Write it down, post it below.
So you get it into your brain.
It's the only my opinion of myself is the only thing that
matters when you have that kind of self-love that kind of
self-confidence, your magnetism is exploding. I mean,
you're all over the place.
Attracting all kinds of opportunities and situations,
including your specific person. And number five,
before you can believe about your relationship,
any relationship you must believe
about yourself. Now, write down these beliefs,
watch this video again. If you need to write them down,
form them into affirmations.
And do them until.
You absolutely believe in yourself in your
magnetism, in your potential.
It's not just about believing in the relationship.
The relationship comes as a result of you believing
about yourself first.
So High Flyers don't allow the Law of Attraction to work against
you with limiting beliefs, because it can,
it's a law. It works. Whether whether you're trying to use it or not.
So focus on unlimited potential,
unlimited beliefs. And the,
I love that you deserve and desire from the person.
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