Hi YouTube, you’re watching my latest breakup advice video…
I am, of course, Brad Browning…
I’m the #1 expert on YouTube when it comes to getting back together with your ex.
And, as you can see behind me, I’m currently in the middle of nowhere… the heat out here
is sweltering, so I have to keep this video brief…. but I am actually out here in the
middle of nowhere for a reason.…
I want to show you what happens to people who break one of the 5 crucial rules of getting
your ex back.
Now, I’m not sure if I’m blocking your view here….
But, somewhere among the desolate dunes behind me, you should be able to spot a poor gentleman
who recently broke one of the 5 rules I’m about to tell you about.
Look at him… what an awful existence.
If he had just followed my advice, he’d probably be happily back together with his
ex instead of chasing mirages under the blistering desert sun.
So, folks, please remember: if you want your ex back, then you need to listen carefully
and adhere to the 5 golden rules I’ll be explaining momentarily.
If you decide not to heed my warning and break any one of them, and you end up alone and
lost in the middle of the Sahara, don’t say I didn’t warn you.
Rule #1 - Don’t let your ex see your emotions.
Ok, I get it, you’re heartbroken.
Breakups are one of the toughest things in life, and I know exactly how gut-wrenching
you’re probably feeling right now.
But the last thing you want to do is show that heartache and sadness to your ex… those
really aren’t attractive traits.
In fact, if your ex knows your life is in shambles because of the breakup, they’ll
subconsciously start to think of you as a “low value” individual, and that will
reaffirm their decision to break up.
Would you want to date someone who looks and acts like this??
Didn’t think so.
Worse yet, if your ex knows you didn’t want to end the relationship, they’ll have their
guard up any time you try to reach out to them… and the last thing you need is for
your ex to know you’re trying to win them back.
So, let’s recap -- rule #1 is that you should never let your ex see how upset you are.
Put on your happy face and do the opposite of what your ex will expect you to do -- embrace
life, be happy, and pretend you’re fully on board with the idea of breaking up.
Rule #2 - Don’t be obvious with your attempts to get him or her back.
Look, my Ex Factor program is full of techniques you can use to help get your ex to take you
back….
And they work really well, when done properly.
But sometimes, I’ll have clients who are way too obvious about things, and their ex
can easily tell what’s going on.
So when you’re using tactics like my Covert Jealousy technique, or when you’re putting
on your pretend happy face like I mentioned in Golden Rule #1, you have to be subtle.
Don’t suddenly start doing things you swore to your ex you’d never be caught doing….
Don’t post stuff on social media that is obviously specifically written for your ex
to see….
Just be subtle, operate under-the-radar, and generally be cool.
Got it?
Rule #3 - Get out, be social, and stay busy.
Nothing can make the pain of a bad breakup suddenly disappear…
well, nothing legal, anyway.
Only time can numb the heartache you’re feeling… but there is, thankfully, a band-aid
fix that you can use until time has healed your wounds, or until you get back together
with your ex.
And that temporary solution is basically just to stay busy and keep yourself occupied as
much as humanly possible…
if there’s a 10 minute block in your day tomorrow where you’ve got nothing planned,
get your phone out and line up a coffee date with a friend to fill those spare minutes.
Make sure you push yourself out of your social comfort zone by meeting new people, going
on casual dates, picking up new hobbies, and spending as much time as you can with friends
and family.
I know that some of you watching out there are groaning right now and thinking “laaaame,
Brad… that’s just dumb advice that even my mom already knew about”.
And that’s cool, you can call me a brainless dummy all you want….
Just know what this tactic is one of the single most important things you can do to get through
your breakup and get a fresh start with your ex.
Staying busy and being social, active, and putting yourself out there….
It works, ladies and gentlemen.
Do it.
This is one of my 5 Golden Rules, and let’s not forget what happens when you break any
of my golden rules….
Rule #4 - Get help from an expert.
OK, so this golden rule is a bit self-promotional…
but it’s still equally important as the other ones I’ve already covered.
The simple fact of the matter is that getting back together with your ex, and starting a
new, healthier relationship with him or her, often requires you to do the opposite to what
seems logical.
In other words, you might think to yourself, “well if I want him back, I should tell
him how much I love him”....
Because that makes sense at first, right?
Seems like a reasonable thing to do, doesn’t it?
Right, exactly.
When it comes to getting your ex back, what seems like the logical strategy is often a
one-way ticket to single and lonely.
I’ve been doing this for over 11 years now, and I know exactly what works and what doesn’t…
so instead of trying to wing it yourself, get help from a breakup coach like me.
For more about my comprehensive guide to getting back together with your ex, and my full-length
free how-to video, visit www.BreakupBrad.com … that’s BreakupBrad.com.
I’m not going to force you to buy anything, but if you’re serious about making sure
that your ex doesn’t walk out of your life forever, then please do yourself a favour
and consider registering for my program or my 1-on-1 coaching service.
Again, the details are at BreakupBrad.com.
Oh, and if you’re skeptical about me or my program, that’s fine… it’s smart
to do your research before you take advice from some random dude on the internet….
But, I am really a breakup specialist, and to date I’ve helped over 100,000 people
start over with their ex, and my Ex Factor guide comes with a 60-day no risk money back
guarantee.
Right, now that I’ve pumped my own tires a bit here, let’s get back on track and
talk about sloths.
When it comes to getting your ex back, sloths -- as in, the 3-toed, slow moving animals
found in tropical jungles -- can teach us an important lesson.
Rule #5 - Slow and steady wins the race.
Sloths are slow.
Ridiculously, painfully slow at doing anything.
Which is how you need to approach your mission to win back your ex -- one step at a time,
nice and slow.
If you decide to start spamming your ex with texts and calls after you finish this video,
and try to do too much too quickly, you’re breaking Golden Rule #5… and you know what
that means….
Yeah.
He looks like he’s having a bad time.
To avoid shooting yourself in the foot by trying to speed up the process of getting
your ex back into your arms, just act sloth-like with your overall gameplan.
Be slow, deliberate, and never get ahead of yourself..
If you try to push too hard and move more quickly than your ex is comfortable with,
you’ll blow it and have to start from all over again beginning with another period of
No Contact…
at which point your odds are slim at best.
I’ve come up with a couple of tactics you can use to speed the process up a bit, which
you can learn about in the full video on my website, BreakupBrad.com… but otherwise,
be sloth-like and have patience.
Reeling your ex back into your arms isn’t going to happen overnight.
Now, that’s all 5 Golden Rules, but I’m sure you guys have some questions or maybe
you even want to tell me how handsome I am….
You can leave all of your questions, suggestions, feedback, and hatemail in the comments below
and, if you’re a subscriber to my channel, I’ll get back to you personally within a
few days.
Thanks for the support, thanks for watching, and I hope you enjoyed this video… see you
soon!