well they're the same just because of
the nature
of them because
because they're form choices that's what
makes them the same
so you might say that
in a world of choices there is a
different quarter of choice or a higher
order of choice
but that's a choice of purpose in mind
and that's not a form choice
yeah it's you might just say it's it's
it's like attempting to choose where no
choice is possible
so
you know it's kind of like some of you
have seen those movies uh
quantum physics
down the rabbit hole and uh what the
bleep do we know
and
i think at one point in there i think
he's talking about
like he's a physicist and he's saying
something like what is the marital
status
of the number
five or something like that what is the
marital status of number five and he
says
it we go
that's not
a real question that's just not a real
question
because
number five doesn't have a marital
status
is it is it single
or is it married you know is we don't
ask that
but
we would look at a lot of questions in
this world
like do you like coke or pepsi
uh better
as being a real question
but from the higher perspective that's
like asking what is the
the marital status of the number five
it doesn't really it doesn't make sense
because it doesn't have it doesn't have
a reality does it not matter what we
choose
in the world like if we choose one
marriage partner or divorce somebody
else or take one job they don't have
consequences in the world
but it doesn't really matter it only
matters if it's inspired or not inspired
exactly so
so we could you know when sometimes
people will say oh divorce like it is
like a negative connotation
no not necessarily
uh if it's an inspired divorce and
everyone knows what that is
whether it's with a relationship or
whatever you get this strong call
that you're to kind of move on
in some kind of situation
and you feel this just this joy and this
ease and this relief
it's not like divorce is bad and
marriage is good and it's the same thing
you know
it's like
you could have an ego guided marriage
and
it's like getting married for all the
wrong reasons
or for the wrong reason which would be
you know
and from an ego sense so really that's
that's it
it comes down to is this
is this a a fear-based
motivation or is this an inspiration
from the holy spirit and that is the
only question that's the only
thing that matters it's not so much the
the forms
so if you don't have that inspired
feeling it's probably better to wait
till you have it
i would say that
with the holy spirit it just seems to be
the more tuned into the holy spirit you
get that it does get more and more
obvious what decisions really are
already made but they're they seem to be
on the surface of consciousness like
they're yet
to be made
and all decisions are already made
but
but it becomes more and more and more
obvious the more fine-tuned you become
the more
guided the more intuitive
these are not difficult choices at all
in fact it's like decide for god for me
it's like you're really saying lead my
life
leave my you know what would you have me
do where would you have me go what would
you have me say you know that starts to
become like your mantra
and not that you have to take a
conscious thought with every
every single decision you know he even
says that in the rules for decision that
it's impractical
to kind of okay
what would you have me do with every
single decision but you start to kind of
you get more in a mindset of surrender
to the holy spirit and flowing with the
holy spirit
and so you know you can actually have
sets of decision
strings of decision that are with the
holy spirit without
individually making those decisions
and so
yeah i think it's a pretty good general
rule of thumb
that
if you're not sure
then
you know you really have to come
deeper inside to the
jesus says there is one question that
you can ask
with any situation what is it for
you you hear the purpose sound of that
what is it for
that's that's the one question you can
safely ask
and that's so different
from like the ego trying to
look at the form and say okay what are
the pros and what are the cons you know
it's really tuning into guidance what
would you have me do you know
and you get better at it and yeah you
shouldn't feel a sense of pressure
like okay
i got to make a decision about my wife
tonight
when i'm in turmoil that's painful and
that's probably not a good place
to decide from like i'm in turmoil so
this must not be
good so i should get out
like that's not inspired
yeah it's a good rule of thumb just like
if you had
if you had two children that were
fighting
and screaming each other
that's not
uh
a good decision-making state
you know that's why we pull them apart
we say no you go in there cool down
you go over there you cool down time out
and it's time out to
to ponder reflect you know
let the
emotions come down
you're revved up into emotional states
um
that is not good to make a decision some
of you have noticed that about politics
where
they they've become
masters at making
commercials that evoke emotions
because they want you to make a decision
based on that emotional state
and it could even be hate or fear
don't vote for this guy
you know because of you know what he
he's done or she's done this and this
bypassing
cognition
bypassing reason
and going for an emotional decision so
yeah you know that's that's a big trick
of the ego to try to
to rev it up and how many of us in the
heat of emotions
say things that we regret
saying
oh i wish i could take that back i
didn't mean that you know it's like
backpedaling
but you told me
i was in an emotional state
please don't take
that to be who i am