Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on 7 reasons introverts are so
attractive. Now as a woman these are traits that I personally find attractive,
but I'm not the only one. I have a lot of people backing me up on this. Even though
a lot of introverts can feel awkward and unattractive I think you're going to
find the truth to be quite a relief. Before we get started
my name is Melannie, I'm a dating and relationship coach for Christian men.
I help you know how to get the girl of your dreams so be sure to subscribe,
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Now I recently did this video which is How to Flirt as an Introvert. And I had a
lot of you express that you wanted to see more videos like that one.
So that's why I decided to take some time today and talk to you about why
introverts can be so attractive. Now as I mentioned a lot of introverts express
concern that they're never gonna get a girlfriend or that they're broken or
that they're never going to be good at dating and it's just kind of hopeless
and nobody's ever going to want them. Now none of that is actually true. In reality
dating and relationships just come down to skills. And if you know the right
skills and know how to use them properly you can totally rock it. As a
matter of fact, as an introvert you have what I like to call "introvert
superpowers". Things about you that are so incredibly attractive that you're
probably completely unaware of. Personally I have crushed really hard
because of some of these introvert traits and a lot of women have as well.
Now if you are watching this and you are an extrovert don't worry, you are still
completely and totally attractive. That is certainly not the point of this video
to say one is better than the other. I am actually an extrovert so I feel you. The
reason I am making this video is one, because you guys asked for it, and two,
because a lot of introverts feel like you they'll never be good at it. The
truth is we are all so much more attractive than we realize, that's just
how it works. However, you guys asked for this video so I wanted to give it to you.
So with that let's get started with seven reasons
extroverts are so attractive. Reason number one is introverts are often very
easy to be around. Many introverts tend to be more relaxed
and more chill and easygoing. Let's face it, we live in a really fast-paced world.
And being around someone who just helps you feel more relaxed is incredibly
attractive. It helps her feel more comfortable with you, which we want to be
around people who make us feel comfortable. It helps her feel more safe,
which if you can make a woman feel safe, man you have just won some serious
points. It also helps create that feeling of
connection which is what we all want in a partner. Reason number two is
introverts also tend to be deep thinkers and to have ingesting things to say.
Nothing is more boring than sitting around and talking about nothing for
hours. We've all been there and it is boring. However, introverts tend to have
interesting things to say. Interesting things that you are doing and you are
interested in and interesting things that you have researched and that you
have to share. Because introverts tend to think on a more deeper level and enjoy
more deep conversations they can be a lot of fun to talk to, which again can
help you create that connection. So being a deep thinker and having interesting
things to say is very attractive to women.
Now reason number three is actually one I mentioned in How to Flirt as an
Introvert. If you haven't seen that yet there is the link in the description
below. I have mentioned it before but I wanted to mention it again because I
really think it's one of the most attractive traits, and it's one that
means so much more to women than men realize. And that is, introverts are very
good listeners. When somebody listens to you, you feel understood, you feel like
you matter. And women, that's how we connect with
people, is we talk. And so when someone is listening to us it's like magical
fireworks, I don't even know how to explain it, it's really really important
to women. One of my favorite scenes in a movie is a scene where the introvert
hero is talking to the heroine. And well actually I guess I should say she's
talking to him, and telling him some really personal things, trying to work
through some things and he's just there listening to her, he doesn't say very
much through the whole scene. And she expresses to him that she really
appreciates that he's such a good listener. That scene has always really
resonated with me because that scene in the movie is a pivotal point where
her attraction for him grows dramatically. And as the female viewer
it's the scene you get happy feelings and you just
love to watch over and over again, because being listened to makes all of
us feel important and so it is certainly going to be incredibly attractive to her.
Now real fast before we move on to reason number four, I want to hear from
you guys in the comments. If you are an introvert and if you want more videos
like this one type "Yes!" in the comments below. Also, speaking about traits that
women find irresistible be sure to watch to the end because I have a free guide
for you on 17 traits Christian women want most in a man. So be sure to look
for that at the end. The fourth reason that introverts are so attractive is
that introverts tend to be very observant. Many introverts
enjoy people watching, they notice things and pick up on things that a lot of
other people don't notice. This means that introverts pick up on things about
people and notice things about people. They notice the little things that are
easily passed over. And that helps them be able to create a really deep
connection with someone. Again, this helps her feel understood which is something
all humans crave, is to feel understood. Many people, when they are with an
introvert, they just like they get them, they just feel like
they understand them, that they know everything about them. And to a
large extent it's because, well they do. Introverts have been paying attention so
they do get them. So your observation skills are another introvert superpower
that is incredibly attractive to women. Reason number five is most introverts
tend to think before they speak, rather than just hastily saying something that
could potentially hurt someone or that doesn't make a lot of sense or that's
just supposed to be funny, introverts tend to think things through.
And when they say something, what they say really matters.
This means that introverts can be really good communicators. Which, if you want to
be really impressive to a woman, be a good communicator. So that's a very good
skill to have. Introverts tend to put real intention behind what they say and
that's again what helps her feel connected to you and understood and what
creates that really strong attraction and connection. And reason number six is
introverts tend to be sensitive. This is where those observation and listening
skills really pay off. Because you have been paying attention and because you
have been listening you tend to be more sensitive to what's going on. And
everybody wants to be treated that way. All of those little things are what
really counts and what means a lot to a woman. And we are to our final reason
introverts are so attractive. And it is introverts tend to be very loyal. Let's
face it, loyalty is like a deal breaker in
relationships and it is something that everybody wants. We want to know that we
can count on someone, that they are there for us. Being loyal is one of the most
attractive traits that we can have. Now, introverts tend to prefer a small group
of people, for the most part, but they are very very close to their small group of
people. Those people mean everything to them. You're very very careful about
who's in your group, and then tend to be incredibly loyal to that
group. And that loyalty is incredibly attractive and is a deal breaker. Most
introverts tend to be very invested in the people they have chosen and that is
insanely attractive. Now that you know seven reasons you are attractive, how
would you like to know the 17 traits Christian women want most in a man?
All you have to do to get access to this free guide is to click the link in the
description below. It will ask you for your name in your email and as soon as
you enter that information I will send it your way. These 17 traits are what
melts a girl's heart and ultimately what makes her fall in love with you.
So you're not going to want to miss out on knowing what they are. Thank you so much
for watching my wonderful friend! If you enjoyed what you saw be sure to give me
a big thumbs up and subscribe and ring that notification bell. I would also love
it if you would share this with your introvert friends. Just click the share
button below, and tweet it out, share it on Reddit or Facebook, wherever your
favorite social media platform is, be sure to give it a share, sharing helps so
much. Also, I want to hear from you in the comments. What should I cover next? What
other topics would you like to hear on extroverts or something else entirely?
Leave me a comment below. If we're not yet friends on social media be sure to
check out the links for that as well. And as always stay tuned for bloopers. Thank
you so much my amazing friend and have an amazing day! [blooper beep]
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