- [Announcer] Why haven't you asked him out yet?
- I'm scared of rejection.
- [Announcer] Would you date her?
- Yeah. No.
- [Announcer] Why not?
- I think we're better off as friends.
- [Announcer] Well then why are you sleeping with her?
- That's tough.
That's tough.
(soft upbeat music)
- [Announcer] What's your name?
- I'm Connor.
- And my name's Lizzie
- Sage.
- I'm Zero.
- [Announcer] Who invited you to be in this video?
- My friend.
My new friend, Andrew.
My newest little buddy.
- I invited Darcenio to come with me.
- I invited Yoel to be in this video.
- My friend Connor.
- [Announcer] Why did you invite him here today?
- He's a good friend who I realize I have like
developed this secret crush on.
- I like, like him. Like a crush type of like.
- I have a secret crush on my best friend.
- [Announcer] What'd they say this video is about?
- Nothing. They didn't tell me.
They just told me like to come.
Should I have not?
- [Announcer] He doesn't know why he is here.
- Correct.
- She told me that I would get paid to talk about her
so you know what I'm saying?
I'm here to talk.
- [Announcer] How did you two meet?
- We met at one of my friend's birthday parties.
- And then since then we kind of just been hanging out.
- We're technically coworkers. We met
and just kind of instantly hit it off.
- Just extended my hand to meet a new coworker
and that's how we became friends.
- He is my ex-boyfriend.
We broke up and I still love him and have feelings for him.
- [Announcer] Why did things end?
- You know, girls, and you know how they go?
When they want to go to college
they want to experience things.
But.
- [Announcer] You think she's gonna
have sex with other people?
- I didn't say it.
You know?
You said it.
- [Announcer] Did you have feelings for him right away?
- No.
I had a boyfriend at the time.
- [Announcer] Have you ever asked him
his sexual orientation?
- I haven't, but I assume what it is.
- [Announcer] What do you assume?
- I think that he likes gentleman.
- I'm gay.
I'm fully gay.
I'm pretty sure he's straight.
I think I've been a little nervous to have that
conversation.
I don't want to confirm it.
- [Announcer] Are you attracted to your friend?
- Yes.
- Oh yeah.
- Yes.
- Yeah. She's beautiful.
- 100%.
I am so attracted to him, too.
That's another thing.
I mean, he is dashing.
- Not in a sexual way.
- [Announcer] On a scale of one to 10,
How attractive is he?
- I don't like rating.
I would say like an eight.
- Can I do numbers of 7.5?
- [Announcer] Yeah. She said eight.
So it's a little messed up, but...
What has your friend's past relationships been like?
- Rocky.
- Woo.
Not the best.
The people who she's been
with have definitely treated her wrong.
She deserves someone who's gonna know her worth.
Somebody who's gonna cherish her.
- [Announcer] Is that you?
- Yeah.
- [Announcer] What are you looking for in a relationship?
- I'm looking for someone who I can grow with
and love me for who I am.
- A lot of past relationships--
there's not a lot of trust there,
so I need, I need strong trust.
- [Announcer] Does he have red flags?
- Not communicating to me,
going on Instagram and liking other girls' pictures.
- She low key, annoying, low key.
Not low key.
Low key, but like I love her, though.
- [Announcer] Have you two had sex before?
- No.
- [Announcer] Would you?
- Yeah.
Yeah. Yeah
- No. I mean, I wouldn't.
- [Announcer] Have you two had sex?
- No.
- [Announcer] Have you ever made a move on him?
- I think I kind of jokingly said that we should like hook
up.
If we were just like banter basically just going
along with it,
but it sounded a little serious by the end.
- [Announcer] Have you had sex recently?
- No.
- Yeah.
- [Announcer] What's that look you're giving?
When's the last time you had sex?
- Probably last year.
- [Announcer] When's the last time you had sex?
- Last night.
- [Announcer] She said last year.
- She's a liar.
Bro, see? Red flag.
See, this is a red flag.
This is a red flag when they lie. Liars.
Okay. Go back.
Red flag is lying.
- [Announcer] Do you have feelings for Connor?
- Yes.
- [Announcer] Do you think they have similar feelings?
- I don't think so.
- [Announcer] Really?
- Yeah, but it's okay.
- [Announcer] Do you have feelings for her?
- No.
- [Announcer] Do you think you could?
- Possibly
- [Announcer] Would you consider dating her?
- Yes. I would consider dating Sage.
- Yeah, I would.
- [Announcer] Why haven't you made a move?
- I'm scared.
- [Announcer] When I ask Zero, what do you think Zero said?
- No, no, no.
- She's kind of oblivious to certain things.
So like my feelings for her, she doesn't even know.
- [Announcer] Are you gonna ask them out?
- Asking someone out on a date is such a bold thing.
Like especially if you think that they're straight.
I feel like I would start by
being open about the fact that I'm gay
and then maybe feel out the vibes a little more
after that.
I really do appreciate and enjoy the friendship
and I don't wanna ruin that.
- [Announcer] What's your sexual orientation?
- I'm straight.
I like women.
Heterosexual.
- [Announcer] Do you think your sexuality can come
off as ambiguous to people?
- Mhm. That's my whole life.
- [Announcer] Why do you think that is?
- Someone told me because I'm so nice.
And she said like straight guys are assholes.
- [Announcer] Your friend asked you out today,
what do you say?
- Yeah, if you're paying and we can go out as friends.
- [Announcer] Why haven't you asked him out yet?
- I'm scared of rejection
and I'm scared I'm gonna look stupid if I tell him.
- [Announcer] What would you date her?
- Yeah. No.
- [Announcer] Why not?
- I just feel like it's better to like,
not hold onto your past and like,
you know, let things be.
- [Announcer] Well then why are you sleeping with her?
- That's tough.
That's tough.
- [Announcer] Why haven't you asked him out?
- I think I'm too nervous and also
I feel like he would think it's a joke.
- [Announcer] Would you consider dating her?
- Yes.
- [Announcer] You would?
But you don't have feelings for her?
- Yes.
- [Announcer] Well tell me how that works?
- It would be worth a shot to see if there's anything there.
I'd say there's no harm.
- [Announcer] Do you want me to tell him
that you have feelings for him?
- Yeah.
I think you should say it
because I am definitely too afraid to say it to him.
- [Announcer] I could be secretive.
I could just--
we could be done.
- No, you could tell him.
- [Announcer] Do you see where I was going
with the question?
- Yes.
- [Announcer] She has very strong feelings for you.
- It makes a lot of sense.
Not the way I'd want to find out.
- [Announcer] I got permission to say this,
but you two both have feelings for each other.
- What?
No way.
- [Announcer] Yeah. That's why they brought you here.
- Oh my God.
- [Announcer] Do you think if it doesn't work out
that you still could be friends?
- Absolutely.
- [Announcer] Do you think this will
destroy your friendship?
- No. I think that like, I'll just get over it
and then we'll just be back to like how we were before.
And so I don't think anything bad will happen out of this.
- [Announcer] What do you do now with this knowledge?
- Conversation, but not a bad one.
Just communication is key.
- Yeah. We're gonna talk.
- Yeah, honestly.
We'll probably talk after this anyways.
She'd be like, what'd they tell you and I'd be like
I'm in love with you.
Oh my God.