Hi everybody, now in today's video, I'm going to be discussing four harsh truths, okay,
of what women are actually attracted to.
And the reason why I'm making this video is because oftentimes the guys that I see who
are coming into this channel, they genuinely have a desire to self improve, right?
Like they genuinely want to level up their dating game, they genuinely want to make more
money, they genuinely want to have a better dating life.
But the thing that I've noticed time and time again, is that a lot of times guys don't actually
know what makes them attractive.
Like it's really funny.
Like, girls, oftentimes the women that they date, right, they know exactly what to do
to be seductive, or they know exactly what to do in order to take the right sort of photos,
the right angles, everything that really makes a guy interested.
But when it comes to the reverse of that, guys oftentimes don't know these four harsh
truths that I'm about to tell you, that women are actually attracted to.
And these are a bit unconventional, okay, these truths are going to be far more rooted
in who you are, and what type of man you are, versus just how to say the perfect line versus
how to say the right thing versus how to just approach the right way this is deep rooted
in who you are.
So this is going to make sense as I go through each of these one by one, I have some notes
on my phone, and let's just go through each of them.
The first is that women love a man on his grind, you have to understand this at the
deepest level.
Most guys spend their time in all the wrong spots like a man on his grind, you have no
time for Snapchat and Snapchat streaks, right?
You have no time to gaze at all of the models on Instagram and double tap, a man on his
grind has no time to go on to Instagram and start direct messaging all of these random
girls that he's hoping just to get a date with.
Now the reason why women love a man on his grind is because she feels safe and she feels
secure.
When she sees that you're going places you're on your you have to think about this from
evolutionary or from biological times for just a second, like actually stick with me
here.
Because this will make sense.
If you're the type of guy who plays a lot of video games.
If you're the type of guy who wastes a lot of time.
If you sit back and you think you can just eat Cheetos and drink beer and not worry about
your financial situation.
And it doesn't matter who you are.
Because the girls should just like you for you, you have to just understand how ass backwards
this is.
I don't care if this offends because I think the biggest thing I have to protect is like
my ability to say what I want.
And I think that that's big.
And I'm going to just deliver you the truth.
If you think that you don't have to get on your grind, and you shouldn't have to do a
damn thing.
And you should still just be able to get and attract whoever you want, you have to understand
how backwards this is.
Because on a biological level, a woman wants a guy who can protect and provide for her
potential future offspring, especially if you guys are going to be intimate, and especially
if you're into this woman intimately.
Okay.
A woman knows that in order to protect and provide it takes one thing and it starts with
a T. Can you guess that word is time, it takes time to have something for yourself, it takes
time to have provision power, it takes time to build wealth, it takes time to build a
great business.
It takes time to be a strong individual.
The self improvement things that I'm showing you take time.
That's why when you're on your grind, and she sees that you're not necessarily just
willing to give your attention away to these frivolous things that keep you distracted,
you have to understand just how attractive that is.
She knows he's going somewhere, she instantly starts to feel safe and starts to feel secure
with him.
This is the first for those of you guys who want better intimacy, you want a better quality
connection with the women that you're dating.
And on top of that you want the s 3x to be a bit more desirable.
You're going to have to do these things.
The second that you actually get on your grind and you do these things you're going to have
the type of desire that you've always wanted out of women.
The truth though, is most guys don't want to put in the work.
I cannot help a man who is not ambitious.
I cannot help a man who is not motivated.
You have to intrinsically want a better financial situation for yourself, you have to desire
to work more.
Which brings me in to point number two women feel most secure when a guy is financially
stable.
Okay.
Just for a second, I need you to understand this.
I want you to make one pledge to me.
I want you to pledge to me that not only you believe it's your duty to become financially
free.
And I want you to write I pledge right below this video.
I want you to actually comment that put I pledge to become financially free.
I want you to go and type that right now in the comment section.
That's number one.
But number two, I do not want you to ever think that just because somebody says provisioning
equals beta or you've watched one too many manual whatever video is it because you've
done these things.
You have this preconceived notion that if you have money as a man that's going to just
make the woman like, view you as just a person to use okay, I do not want You to ever think
that again.
And the reason being is because you have to have your own learned experiences.
When you're a man who's financially stable, you will command far better attraction from
women.
Because once again, the provisioning power that you have is extremely attractive, the
higher up your success gets, you have to understand that that makes you more and more and more
desirable.
I have actually been so focused on business and some of the successes and accolades that
I've had over the years, I've had women who, when they come into my life, or when I'm dating
them, they'll say things like, you make me feel like I have to be on my best behavior
on guard at all times.
And I look at him and I go in what what Wait, what what is anything that I've done that
has caused you to think that I haven't said anything to demonstrate that nothing.
But just the fact of my life setup, just the way I have my house, just the way I have,
like all of the resources of the things that I've done, the types of vacations that I go
on the type of things that I do, women take note of that.
And when girls take note of that, they instantly want to be a part of that lifestyle.
Now, for those of you who are not on your grind yet, for those of you who have not quit
your nine to five yet, for those of you who are still wondering how to build your own
brand yet, this is the time where you take over the last half of 2022, and you hop inside
to the freedom Academy.
Down below, I have a link to the freedom Academy.
Yesterday, we have a dude inside of this dude comes in.
He literally closed a $1,500 sale yesterday, dude had a $1,500 day in his personal brand,
he has only been inside of the Freedom Academy for about a month, month and a half Max, the
dude made half of what most people make in a month in a day.
And when I see a transformative shift that happens like that, it leads me to believe
that not only have I up leveled my own financial circumstances to doing multiple millions of
dollars in business, but when I see a guy do that, I know that he's headed on the right
track.
And I know deep down that he wants to actually have the freedom that he wants deep down.
And when I was like I get more excitement out of Washington, a guy like that make money
far more than I do, then me having a big day in business.
Like I can have a huge day multiple 1000s of dollars made when I see a guy like that
make his first couple of sales, I get the feeling inside that it actually is providing
impact and it's actually changing people's lives.
So you need to check into that you need to get into that freedom Academy because it is
the best spot on planet Earth to go from zero to your own personal brand with financial
freedom that lasts a lifetime.
And that is my entire goal with that being financially free shows that you can provide
to a woman and when you can provide you get a higher level of desire.
I have seen this firsthand.
You have to understand this.
The third guy's her arousal and desire comes from your words, not necessarily just the
things that you're doing, or the physicalities men oftentimes do not place a strong enough
importance on their own seduction or their own sex appeal.
And the reason why is because they start to think that they can just float by on the materialistic
things alone, they start to think that they can float by of just if you hit the gym.
And if you look right and if you appear strong and masculine, all of a sudden, you don't
have to put the work in on your charisma, you don't have to put the word right work
into work your words the proper way.
They think that they don't have to do these things.
But it's very false.
Her arousal and desire will only come from your words when you know how to make her feel
like a genuine woman.
And when it feels like you guys have a genuine connection.
What this means is, I'm going to tell you guys a little story.
There's been times where I've been talking with a woman or I've been out on a date and
we came back to my house.
There's been like zero intimacy or zero touching yet.
So I'm not very turned on but she has verbatim said you know how aroused she is or how like,
in like you, I'm sure you guys can start to get the mental imagery without me being too
graphic.
But the thing is, is just by having conversation just by using the right tonality, just by
having the right charisma just be just by being on your own seduction and on your own
game, you have to understand how attractive that is to a woman, when you have the ultimate
confidence.
It will show a woman that you have competency in other areas in life and the competency
that other areas in life that you have should be breeding the confidence for you to carry
yourself the right way that you want on a day you need to think about this for a second,
I want you to close your eyes.
I want you to imagine for a second that you're a millionaire.
And not only are you a millionaire, but you get to wake up whenever you want you live
life on your own terms.
And with that said, you literally take answers from you.
You take demands from nobody like you are completely free.
You are free man.
You make your own money, you do your own thing.
You live life on your own terms.
I want you to imagine just for a second how attractive that is to a woman deep down.
I want you to imagine just for a second how your life would be if you did not have to
wake up and you didn't have to go check in with your boss and you got to do whatever
you want.
And then all of a sudden you're making the type of money that you want.
Don't you think your confidence would improve?
Don't you Think that who you are and as you've up leveled will change?
The answer is 100%.
Yes.
When a woman sees these things, she gets extremely attracted to it, all of a sudden, your words
sound different.
The charisma you have, when you look, a woman in the eyes is different, the way you hold
confidence.
And not even that, what I've noticed is it's, it's, truthfully, what it comes down to is
your outcome independence of no longer needing to try or try hard, is exactly what gets them
hooked.
Before when you're a guy and you don't have a whole lot of anything going for yourself,
here's what happens, your vocal tonality rises, you're quicker to break the silence, if all
of a sudden there's a brief bit of no communication, you're quicker to be pleasing, you have up
tone where you're like, oh, you know, I'm saying your your voice is cracking.
And you're you're, you're talking at a quicker pace to hold their attention.
When you are when you are confident.
And when you're successful.
When you've actually made yourself amount of value, you can completely sit back and
chill, not try, only put about half the work in that you were before.
And you're going to notice you get five times the results.
But that's because you've made yourself in to somebody different.
You have to understand how deep this goes.
The fourth, the fourth uncomfortable truth is that deep down, she never wants to be your
first priority.
Some of you aren't going to like that.
Some of you who have had girlfriends where you're constantly checking in on text message
every single two to three minutes to make sure that she knows what you're doing or where
you're at, this is going to be the quickest way to kill desire.
When you look like you have nothing going on.
It looks like you're low value, it looks like you're low status, okay?
I'm a businessman, I've been a business man my whole life.
So the thing is, is like when when focusing on business, maybe I'm writing a new pitch,
maybe I'm writing a new offer, maybe I'm talking with my team, I don't have time to sit and
talk to a girl all day, even if she is a high value woman.
And even if she is significant of importance in my life, we're going to have a great relationship
and a great interaction.
But I have other stuff going on throughout the day that requires 100% of my focus to
get to where I am.
So when you operate on that wavelength, and when you operate on that playing field, you
fundamentally become different, I will go three hours without a text or call, I will
go six hours, I will go eight hours.
Sometimes I have to keep on my grind.
That keeping on my grind not only gives me the confidence because my financial situation
is going up.
But all of a sudden she sees I'm going places she wants to lock me down and make sure that
the commitment from me is even more powerful.
You have to start to actually realize the value the value that you possess as a man
too.
And if you do these things, you will get ahead.
Rest assured, guys, I hope you like this video, I hope that these truths were not so uncomfortable
that you can't take them.
I hope that you're willing to listen to these things and actually like ingrain them into
who you are and start to level up your own situation.
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