What's going on? Tripp Kramer here from Tripp Advice.com.
Little series here I've been doing, exposing women who are toxic on Hinge. The reason why I'm doing
this episode, or video rather, is because I want to shine a light, a bright one on women you need
to stay away from on the dating apps. It is very important that you know who to swipe right on
and who to swipe left on. I understand as a man, you are getting swiped left on a majority of the
time. Apparently women are only swiping right on 4% of the men. I understand that's happening
to you. But if you are doing online dating right and you have a great profile and you know exactly
what to do, well then you're going to end up coming across women like these who I'm going to
be showing you who might swipe right on you. You have to know that you need to stay away from these
women. I'll be giving you the reasons why and diving deep into it. These are very toxic women
who are not going to be good for you and they're not going to be good for any kind of relationship.
If it's someone you want to hook up with, that's one thing, but anything more than that,
it is going to end in a disaster. Please steer clear of the women that I'm about to show you
here, who one of my coaching clients sent me. He sent me these screenshots of women.
These are completely original. I did not find these anywhere else other than my client going
through Hinge and finding this and I kept it rather anonymous, just out of respect,
even though I don't even think you have to. But anyway, let's get into it. Look at this one.
I want someone who is highly educated, masculine, will pay for everything and support me in my
research and academic endeavors. Maybe another fellow stem nerd. I love how she ends with that,
as if she's now excited that she's going to have something in common. Look at that. So I
get it. Most women do want that. They want highly educated, masculine, and they want someone to pay
for things. Not all women want that. But there's a lot that do. And listen to this. She wants a guy
to pay for everything and support her in her research and academic endeavors.
I can't even imagine a situation in this... talk about entitled... I can't imagine a situation in
this where there's any reciprocity happening and a man is getting any value from this.
Let's put yourself in the situation. You're dating her, you're paying for everything,
you're supporting her, and then she's gonna take her job, and then go make money doing her thing.
What are you getting out of it exactly? Shocking to see this. And
I guess I'm not as shocked as I have been because I've seen a lot of this,
but still you see this. She wants her you to pay for everything and pay for her work
so that when you guys end up, what getting married? She clearly wants to get married one
day. This woman absolutely wants to get married. You'll pay for everything, you'll simp for her,
and she'll give you what, her presence? Guys no. You are not going to be settling for a woman.
You're not gonna be with a woman just because she's showing you attention and affection.
And I understand a lot of guys do that because a lot of guys don't get
that attention and affection. Once they have it from a pretty girl, they'll simp
and do things like pay for her. Please guys, find a more feminine woman, not one like this.
All right, here's another one. All I ask is that you aren't a creep.
Yeah, interesting. Interesting. What basically she's saying here is that she's been with creeps,
and she's had negative experiences. And while I get it. People have had
negative experiences before. The fact that you're going to lay it all out there on a dating app
just like this is a big red flag. It's like coming in with this negative.
So you better believe that because she's been... you can even tell by her face. Her face looks
just sad. Just the way that she's doing this picture. And it's probably a cat fish
and it probably isn't... she's not representing herself well here because of how close up the
photo is. But I guarantee that this woman has a lot of negative energy in her life,
a lot of bad luck things happening to her, and people who do that play victim mentality.
And you will be in a disaster of a relationship because if she's playing victim all the time,
and all these bad things happen to her, guess who the bad things are gonna happen to also, to you.
And it's going to play out in the relationship. Red flag, swipe left. Or in this case I guess
it's hinge so you just exit out. How about this one? I feel bad for this woman. I do.
I mean, she looks fun loving, she's got a big donut, I don't know. But look at this prompt
guys. Believe it or not, I haven't dated at all in over three years. I mean, it's interesting because
I want to know why. But then again, I don't want to know why. Because I don't want you to
be so curious that you want to find out and go on a date with her. It's like, why hasn't she?
Is it because of college? Is it something bad that happened? What's the deal here? It's very cryptic
and I know that she's not trying to be super eerie, but it is kind of eerie.
The fact that you haven't dated at all in three years. Is there something wrong with you?
I mean, unless she's been divorced or she was in another relationship, that could be it. Just
a strange thing to put on a prompt. And if I was coaching her, I would say don't but that.
Because you know what's going to happen guys? You're going to be the rebound. You're going to
be this guy who she's going to be with and you're going to get this interesting newbie vibe from her
that might not go the way that you want it to go. Because she's so new back into the dating game.
I don't even know why that's interesting. I really don't know what that does for her in this
situation to put that as a prompt. Weird. Next new year, same me because I'm never the problem.
It's like, it's so funny to write that. You're literally saying that you are the problem.
That is code for I am the problem. Have you ever heard that from people before?
People who are having constant, either bad luck, or negative situations happen to them with people,
and it's always everyone else's fault. I know people like this.
And guess what? It's always their fault. Because if you're a person that you feel everything bad
happens to you it's usually because you caused it. This woman is probably causing problems
and has negative experiences with men and we don't want a woman who's that jaded.
That's not going to be sweet and feminine. The next one, I'm weirdly attracted to gaslighting.
I see this as maybe a half joke, but it's not like a super funny joke. That means that it's not like
super funny and there's some weird truth to it. No pun intended. She's saying that's weird too.
That's not a pun. Anyway, she says I'm weirdly attracted to gaslighting. That is terrible. That's
very toxic. The fact that she would be into something like that or even joke
about something like that... you know what that makes me feel? That she's someone who gaslights.
So, I'd be wary of someone who says I'm attracted to gaslighting, because they might be the one
who's actually doing it. And gaslighting is no good. Gaslighting, what that means is you are
in a situation with someone where you're meant to believe that you're crazy, even though you're not.
An example of this is, let's imagine you want to go to your girlfriend and bring up a problem
that you're having, and by the end of it, you're the one who's apologizing. When in the beginning,
you're the one who had a problem in the first place so you were meant to believe that you're
crazy and you're in the wrong. Yeah, it's bad. Last. Dating me is like, I'm not very good at
casual. If I like you, I will become obsessed with you so know what you're getting into.
Man, that is scary. And then I look at her and I see a lot of tattoos all over her legs.
And I don't mean to judge quick, but it seems to be a pattern with women who talk like this
and look like this. It's never a good combination. I'll tell you that right now. It is never a good
combination. It just means that she... I believe her on this. This is no joke.
She will become obsessed with you. And that is a problem because if she becomes obsessed with you
and you do anything to upset her then she's going to be very hurt and what will happen? Who knows?
Causing drama in your life, causing some sort of potential physical or emotional harm on her end.
Here she said, know what you're getting into. How eerie is that?
You don't want a woman to be completely obsessed with you. It's one thing for her to respect you.
But to be completely obsessed with you can cause problems in the relationship. And that's because
when a woman is obsessed, she's going to be very needy and she's going to ask for a lot.
And if you can't give her everything that she needs when she's obsessed,
drama will ensue. Gentlemen, please stay away from these women. They are very toxic.
Be very careful on Hinge or any other dating app and know exactly what you're getting into when
you're swiping. I'm not trying to scare you, but I just don't want you to be with the wrong woman.