cigarette oh no thanks I don't smoke
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while you are just hitting on all six
cylinders aren't you what's up man today
I'm gonna play you a scene from the
movie The Aviator where Leonardo
DiCaprio's character Howard Hughes
seduces a cigarette girl in a casino and
I want you to pay close attention to the
tension that Leonardo creates in the
interaction with this woman how he
changes his tonality and his body
language and demeanor when the woman
comes into the scene and I want you to
also notice who is breaking the tension
in this scene then I'm gonna actually
break down the scene for you to show you
what Leonardo does so well that works so
that you can take some of those elements
into your own interactions and I also
have a funny story for you where I
actually tried to do this scene on a
cigarette girl in a casino in Las Vegas
and the outcome was quite interesting so
let's go ahead and play the clip oh my I
thought you're over at the Brown Derby
with the Trixie no no Teresa oh yeah
Margaret exactly what happened to
Margaret
she lost her she got that settled I'm
sorry
Salma this is Howard Hughes Howard and I
were just discussing how he wants me to
pull a camera out of my ass
cigarette oh no thanks I don't smoke
so first notice how he takes charge
she's having a conversation with the guy
that she knows but he steps in and takes
control of the situation and then notice
how his tonality and his overall
demeanor changes he like drops into this
more seductive vibe it's really slows
things down by the way man make sure to
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a thing all right let's get back to the
scene boy you are just hitting on all
six cylinders aren't you would you do me
a favor just would you just smile for me
one time just once yeah yeah you see you
got a short upper lip makes for much
nicer smile so notice right there how
the other guy really PSA's the tension
by laughing and how leo just maintains
that tension by having that lower
seductive tonality his really strong eye
contact he only looked away just for a
second and how he's just totally direct
and unapologetic with his attraction
towards her which is very attractive a
lot of guys will say don't be direct and
don't give women compliments but it is
very masculine to convey hey I'm a man
and you're a woman and I'm attracted to
you instead of hiding your intentions
and beating around the bush he uses that
compliment you're just firing on all six
cylinders as a way to show his desire
towards her which can actually turn a
woman on not just in the movies but even
in real life what gives a beautiful
like you pleasure and say you just
standing there right and I I just touch
you just just like this my fingertips I
deal do you like that okay
Wow notice how he just keeps amping up
the tension it's like he wants to see
how far he can go now I don't recommend
you do that with a woman that you just
meet and start touching her wherever
he's touching her we don't even know
because that especially nowadays could
just be way too forward but what I want
you to notice is the tension that he's
not crumbling in that tension I mean you
can feel the tension the other guy is
releasing the tension it's too much for
him but the woman is maintaining it
she's like okay let's see how far this
is gonna go and he just keeps amping it
up more and more through his eye contact
by slowing things down and even by
getting closer to her and touching her
see how wanna learn what pleases you
I want to learn everything about you
would you let me do that would you give
me that job
Wow and then he just sits there for what
is that about three seconds which is a
long time to just sit there and make eye
contact with a beautiful woman after he
just really amped up the tension even
more so it just keeps going up up up and
then he just pauses and then just
maintains that tension now of course
this is a movie I don't know if it would
work this well in real life in fact I
actually tried this one time in Vegas it
was New Year's Eve I had a couple of
drinks in me I'm not gonna lie so I see
a beautiful cigarette girl in a casino
in Las Vegas and I've seen this scene
maybe thirty times so I have it pretty
well memorized
fortunately I may not be as good of an
actor as Leo I mean I think I'm pretty
up there but so anyways I tried this on
her I basically did it word-for-word I
didn't do the touching mind you because
I wasn't sitting down I was you know
face to face standing with her and I
pretty much watched the scene I'm not
gonna lie I messed up some of the lines
didn't have as much tension as Leo does
here and at the end I said cigarette
girl you've never seen that scene in
Aviator where Leonardo DiCaprio seduces
the cigarette girl and she's like no
I've never seen that and I said okay
kind of you know release the tension by
laughing and joking and then I start
walking away and she goes wait wait
what's your name she was totally into it
even though I didn't do nearly as good
of a job as Leonardo DiCaprio it still
seemed to turn her on so even if you can
bring a fraction of that tension that
he's displaying here into your
interactions with women and just holding
that eye contact
having that sly smile that he has that
he knows he can have her and just
ramping up that sexual tension with his
whole overall vibe and demeanor that
seductive swagger that he has you can
have a similar effect you really can
turn women on in a few seconds of the
interaction by creating sexual tension
which of course is what we teach you
guys in our live workshops but anyways
let's watch the end
I'm off in a half an hour I'm in room
217 217 see you there and then of course
the friend releases the tension again by
laughing now I don't like Leo's really
like strong gaze he looks very serious
there I prefer more of a smirk like hey
what's up or you just feel like you know
you can have her like there's a sexual
vibe here almost as if you're talking to
her as if she's already your lover like
hey what's up yeah I know we're gonna
have sex soon yeah
it's inevitable that don't say that of
course but it's that kind of vibe it's
that kind of demeanor that turns her on
by the way man sorry for the
interruption but make sure to leave a
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I would love to hear from you alright
let's get back and I want you to notice
one more thing
he only blinks once in that entire
interaction and turns away one time he's
maintaining such strong eye contact kind
of like how I'm doing right now that he
doesn't even blink because blinking is
actually something along with smiling
laughing like the other guy does looking
away or talking really really fast or
talking really high with a high-pitched
voice that releases tension right if I'm
blinking a lot Hey hi how's it going
alright I seem nervous
he just maintains that eye contact and
doesn't even blink which amps up the
sexual tension even more it's pretty
incredible now I'm not saying you should
approach the next girl and try not to
blink and your eyes are watering but
just notice the level of tension that's
in your interactions are you amping the
tension up or are you breaking the
tension because if you continually break
the tension you will likely lose the
girl she will lose attraction for you
she'll feel like it's just a platonic
nice interaction but if you amp up the
sexual tension not too much because you
can freak out the girl and seem creepy
if you amp up the sexual tension in the
wrong way but if you do it the right way
like we teach
you in our live programs then you can
and will turn women on left and right by
the way man if you want to practice
creating that sensual romantic and
sexual vibe with women instead of just
going out and approaching women and you
know coming off creepy or coming off two
platonic cuz there really is that sweet
spot I mean he almost comes off a little
creepy in this scene but it is a movie
so of course you know it's Hollywood he
gets away with it but if you want to
practice so you can get it down pat so
you're not too platonic yet not too
creepy you're right in the middle where
you're turning women on then I recommend
one of our live programs where we bring
in models and roleplay with you over and
over again and they give you feedback
letting you know that was a little
creepy or well that was too platonic I
didn't feel anything they will be
totally honest with you and give you the
feedback that all the other women that
you're talking to and approaching are
thinking but you know they'll never tell
you our female coaches will actually
tell you and give you the feedback you
so desperately need to improve your
interactions so that you can start
meeting attracting and dating women that
you want women that you probably
perceive is out of your league so if you
want our teams help with that what you
can role play with models and female
dating coaches I'll put a link down in
the description and to the right of this
screen so you can get all the
information about that make sure to
check that out because it's really the
fastest way to get results
I approached thousands and thousands of
women to practice the good thing is you
don't have to approach thousands and
thousands of women you definitely can
and you definitely should but if you can
get feedback from a model or a female
coach that knows what to look for you
can speed up that process so the next
woman that you approach you can create
that kind of sexual tension the same
kind of sexual tension not in the
exactly the same way as leo did it was a
little intense but you can create
similar levels of sexual tension with
women that you meet in everyday
situations or women that you already
know maybe you're stuck in the friend
zone and you want to get out of the
friend zone
so anyways man check that out make sure
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