- Five red flags in dating.
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Hello, my name is Greta Bereisaite,
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the five red flags in dating that you should watch out for,
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So without further ado, let's start with that first one.
He gives you only his charms.
The guy who are dating is charming the hell out of you
and giving you tons of compliments on your looks only.
He is never even asking questions about you,
such as your job, goals or even family and friends.
And through a period of time,
you notice this maximum investment he is giving you.
Well, this is because his only goal
is to get into your pants, he doesn't care about you.
He offers you no substance to your conversations
as it's purely physical,
and all he wants you is to get hooked on him.
Please watch my video right here,
Mind Games Men Play on Woman.
Red flag number two, after six months you have no title.
Men do this to keep her options open.
He knows that if he gives you a title,
it would mean he sees you long-term,
but he obviously doesn't.
A title means he will have to follow the rules
associated with that title.
No title means he has all his freedom
and has you on the side until the right woman comes along.
If you find yourself in such a situation,
a big possibility is because he doesn't see you
as a girlfriend material.
So before calling him a player, look at yourself.
What could you be doing wrong
that he isn't taking you seriously?
Red flag number three.
You have never had a date with him,
and that happens a lot too.
If a guy has been messaging you over two weeks
and he still has not asked you out,
there could be a number of reasons.
He may be married, he may have a girlfriend,
he may also just want to pen pal to stroke his own ego
as he knows you like him.
He also probably wants you to chase him
and get you to ask him out.
Whichever reason it is,
consider this as another red flag
that you must watch out for
and do not waste your time
getting into a fantasy relationship with this guy.
Because the only relationship you'll get in with this guy
is a fantasy one.
Number four, he gets serious way too quickly.
If he has already asked you to move in with him
after one month, it's not a normal,
healthy relationship process,
as he has not even gotten to know you yet.
You have already met all of his friends and family and kids,
he doesn't even give you space.
Keep it in mind, relationships that starts this fast
will end up just as fast.
Sometimes this could be a guy who has money issues
as he needs someone to pay half of his rent.
He could be a very needy man.
Also to be aware of people you meet overseas,
and that are looking for a quick marriages
as they only want to get the papers to enter your country.
In majority of cases, ladies, it is a typical red flag.
However, I have seen some exceptions to this rule
and actually, my parents are one of them
as my dad proposed to my mom after three dates
and they got married after three months.
So there are always exceptions, okay?
And they are still happily married.
Number five, everything is someone else's fault.
If you continuously hear him complaining,
blaming others and victimizing himself,
it is a big red flag that he is simply immature.
Nothing is ever his fault.
This is the guy who doesn't take responsibility
for his own failures and behavior.
He ignores his past mistakes
and instead he chooses to blame the world for it
as it's an easy way out.
People who do not take responsibility for their own actions,
tend to not achieve anything in life
and usually become a burden on someone else's shoulders.
So unless you are happy in dating a,
how shall I put it?
Loser, I suggest you move on.
So ladies, these were my five red flags to watch out for.
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