Things are ticking along well with the new partner. Now, how do you tell if your boyfriend
wants to take it from the months into the years? How do you tell if he's getting more
serious about you? Hey, it's Mark from Make Him Yours and today, we're talking the top
10 signs that he's getting serious with you. Number one, he starts referring to the two
of you as 'we' you know when his language changes, he's changing the way he thinks about
you. If he goes from you and I and starts referring to the relationship as we, he's
taken the next step in becoming serious about you. Number two, he keeps inviting you to
family things. It's one thing if the guy invites you to see his family once or twice, but if
you're becoming a regular expected guest at them, you know you've made a good impression
and that he's seeing you for the long term. Number three, he gives you a key. This is the first
sign that a guy's really starting to think of you as medium to longterm material because
he is serious about inviting you into his space and having your presence there even
uninvited. Number four, he becomes more vulnerable with you. So if he's emotionally exposing
himself, most guys aren't going to do that unless they're serious about the connection
they are building with you. It's not so easy for men to do this if he's exposing himself
emotionally, opening his heart up more than he would with his mates or even his female
friends. You know, he's becoming serious about investing in you and the risks that you could
hurt him. By the way, if you're enjoying the content so far, make sure you hit that big
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Number five, he consistently wants to be around your kids or invite you to be around his.
This especially applies if he takes a little bit of time first, if a man immediately wants
to meet all your kids or immediately invites you to be around his, that can be a sign of
a toxic male dating personality who moves too fast. For the guide to that check out
the free link. Download absolutely free in the description. What I'm talking about is
when he waits a little bit of time and then he says, yep, I want to be around your kids
more. I want to have more interactions with your kids. Or he says, I want you to be around
my kids more. I want you to spend more time around my kids. These are really positive
signs and it shows that he's seriously considering you in his future.
Number six he talks about buying a dog together. I'm dead serious. If he is thinking about
a human family with you one day he'll usually dip his toe in the water by suggesting a fare
family. This is a really strong sign. He is serious about you. Number seven he picks you
up through tough times when life isn't going so well for you. When you're a stress ball,
when things are just not happening the way you want them to, he sticks around. He wants
to be there. He volunteers his help. He wants to help pick you up. That's a sign that he's
not just there for the fair weather, for the fun and games that he serious about you. Number
eight contact with exes has dropped off markedly. When a guy is serious about you, he will often
completely cut contact with his exes. Even a man who has a great relationship with his
ex and is friends with an ex, you'll notice that their contact goes down significantly
and that she's the one doing most the initiating.
When he's really serious about you, he's just not thinking about his ex. Number nine, he
invites your impact on his space and his things, so he invites you to leave a toothbrush. He
gives you a drawer at home. He lets you wear his hoodie all the time and take it away or
borrow his car. These sorts of things where you're coming in and impacting on his space.
When he's inviting that you know he's thinking about you for the medium to longer term. Finally,
number 10 there's consistent progression so you know when a guy is serious about you,
you see that progression and even if it's slow, you see it consistently over time. Whether
it's progression in the sex, progression in the feeling and the commitment levels, progression
in the trust between the two of you, progression in the emotional depth and the vulnerability
of your connection.
That progression is consistent and most importantly it continues to happen slowly over a long
period of time. If you're seeing that you know the guy's serious about you, well that's
the video. Thank you for watching. Those are the 10 signs. He's serious about you. What
are your thoughts, questions, pop them in the space below. Do you have other ones that
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