once again you can outwork anybody it
has to be in your brain a lot of people
don't want to go there it's about what
you're saying to yourself but it also
comes at work so whenever I was getting
beat down physically mentally
spiritually whatever I was going through
just saying you know I would put you
know you can't hurt me if you want to be
great want to be bad ever at what you do
you could be misunderstood by everybody
because you're gonna be so obsessed is
so driven to get there that's what it
takes that's the trip takes every second
of your life anybody says balance
yeah balance is important for a lot of
people it is but if you want to go to
that edge where people do not like you
don't understand you question everything
you do you've arrived but you are
misunderstood to the point where people
think you're a psycho and you're nuts
and you're this and that why are you in
the gym at one o'clock in the morning
you've got to do enough op for 13 14
hours after Ranger school man at the gym
what is wrong you will never understand
what is wrong with me
and that's why I'm so glad you don't cuz
I'm in the right spot when people don't
understand you anymore you're in that
spot of obsession and drive where people
have flipped up cuz well this guy I want
to talk to you man cuz you're not gonna
get it once we achieve something we
celebrate for a long years time and we
wonder why don't I have drive anymore
where's it all at if you don't develop a
routine of suffering is suffering that
like go out to cure yourself every day
it's being uncomfortable yeah
that keeps you hungry every day if you
live in your victories for so long and
say I'm gonna go challenge myself for 30
days after two weeks or one district run
this one marathon it is I did one
marathon
that's why it leaves you
it leaves you because you haven't set up
the next obstacle obstacles is how you
grow you must continue to have friction
friction is where growth is at with no
friction there's no growth
you have to call yourself out if you're
fat and your stuff I want to hear that I
don't want to hear you tap dancing
around and a lot of people don't want to
go there they don't want to talk about
the childhood they don't talk about
their past they don't get to root the
problems and then they go why am I not
getting better because there's a lot of
sin there you haven't dealt with brother
you know people go to the gym like for
instance going through any kind of
special operation school these people go
to the gym they get big they get jacked
they can run fast all that but the only
thing is they're coding over the mind
all you're doing is building a bigger
stronger quitter
your mind hasn't gotten any stronger cuz
you haven't gone back in there and dealt
with so second adversity comes like my
god I'm so fit what's wrong your mind is
still soft
I want to make sure that when I'm dead
and gone that I reading that wash bag
out and that wash bag is my soul and I
also believe that we're gonna end up one
day meeting the maker if you believe in
one and I believe that maker knows
everything about you everything about
noise else can be here and talking to
you knows everything but you also have a
choice to make
give a choice to make we have choices
and the one thing that scares me to
death in my life is getting to heaven
and not being what I was supposed to be
and I believe that God has a chart he
looks at the chart and he's puts it in
front of you and get to heaven and says
hey this what you're supposed to be and
one of my biggest fears in life was to
see that chart and not have every block
checked off you know I want to make sure
that I'm constantly pursuing whatever it
is I'm pursuing just to be the best I
can't resist constantly grinding myself
into a fine powder they had to be on a
constant reminder almost like how you
put in by on your phone 15 minutes you
got this it has to be in your brain
you've done too much stop
and what happens in life is that we
start to see our lives become so
successful but making money or doing
this or doing that I want more I want
more I push harder I'm all about pushing
hard will get me why I'm all about it
but to push as hard as you can you have
to be mindful of the machine that's
pushing on it is going to end up coming
and then it takes years to get it back
so you lose that time that time is gone
you know I lost five years of I could be
crushing it we're now I'm just now back
to crushing it realizing God man I
learned the hard way that's really
sometimes one way to learn I found most
people don't know who they are they
really don't glance the average person
who they are they'll give you their name
they'll say I'm Bob Proctor but I'm not
Bob and Proctor two words my parents
give them to me they're called names but
it's not me
it's my name then some people say well
this is me but this isn't me either it's
my body like you never flown down here
to the to the studio and say body won't
the end today it's sick okay you know we
don't say em handrim leg
it's my hand my leg my body my name room
I well that's an interesting question
and I believe if a person was doctors
study that and look for the answer
they'll find it see I think we live
simultaneously on three planes of
understanding we're spiritual creatures
we have an intellect and we live in
physical bodies okay but because we lack
awareness or understanding of who we are
we're totally locked into a physical
world and we let things outside of us
control us 95% of the population are
reacting to life they're not really
living at all
success is a funny word
the nightingale had a great definition
for it he said a person successful if
they know where they are
and they know where they're going and
they're progressively moving in that
direction
he said that success was the progressive
realisation of a worthy ideal anyone
that has a goal and they're moving
towards it they're successful most
people think that you're successful if
you have a lot of money quite often you
have a lot of money if you're successful
but it isn't
I wouldn't say mother Teresa has a lot
of money okay but she's a pretty
successful lady the impact I won't have
in the world is for everybody to be able
to face who they are I would have that
kind of impact where you can go on TV
you can put your life on a billboard
you're not ashamed of who you are you're
not ashamed of what life made you what
you helped life make you all that
all that bad that's now in this big pot
that's stirring you're no longer ashamed
of it you realize we're all dumb stop
judging yourself against other people
who have hidden it better than you it's
all they've done they've masters better
than you have and now they're flipping
it back on you and saying you're
I want you to realize that this world
life is one big heck
and once you learn to play the head game
gave me more at all
see if you're playing it safe you're not
gonna win if you're playing it safe like
that olds sake better to be safe than
sorry well that's a bunch of crap it's
not better to be safe than sorry it's by
trying things that you figure out how
far you can go you got to get outside
the box like it's reported Edison tried
3000 ways before he built the
incandescent light he said he didn't
deal 3,000 times he said there was 3,000
different steps to building a light bulb
well there's different steps to get to
where you're going and I really do treat
winning and losing exactly the same I do
not let it upset me the idea of losing
never enters my mind see I have worked
with giants I had the good fortune of
working with Sir Edmund Hillary he was
the first man to stand on top of the
world and I worked with him on three
different occasions and the only
difference in that Hillary and Bob
Proctor is in his his size now he's gone
now but he was a big man
nice shook hands with me is hand wrap
her head around mine I felt like a dwarf
you know and and talked into him like it
never entered his mind he wouldn't get
to the top of the mountain but he failed
in 1951 he failed in 1952
it wasn't until 1953 that he got to the
top of the month know people had died
for centuries trying to do that he said
I knew if I could see it in here I got a
hold of out here you can see it in your
head you can hold it in your hand
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and that's right and if you're not
prepared to lose you're never gonna win
because you're always playing it safe
and there's no there's no reward in that
everything I didn't want to do is what
got me to where I'm at today I believe
all of us humans have an equation like
you know pi is 3.14
that's how you solve for that equation
every human being has a different
equation and there's not like some
cookie cutter book of hey read this book
and you'll be fixed no you got to figure
out your own personal equation and once
you figure out that equation you now
become a mathematical genius about
yourself
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