In a perfect world, guys would be upfront about their feelings.
However, this isn’t a perfect world and sadly, we have to deal with guys who seem
interested sometimes, and then other times, not so much.
I’ve been there before, and I know many of you have too!
Hey YouTube, my name is Amy North and I’m a relationship coach from Vancouver, BC.
Today I want to talk about some subtle signs a guy will show if he’s not into you.
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Now, to get started.
When a guy likes you it’s usually pretty obvious.
He’ll flirt with you, smile when you’re around and try his best to make plans with
you.
That said, it’s also pretty obvious when he doesn’t like you.
The problem is knowing how he feels when his actions fall somewhere in between the two.
Guessing whether or not a man likes you is risky business, but the good news is that
in my many years of dating and writing about relationships, I’ve learned a thing or two
about how to read men…. and it turns out that there’s really no such thing as “inbetween”
feelings; he’s either into you or not.
So if you’re wondering whether or not there’s a potential future with your love interest
then consider these signs.
If you can relate to more than say one or two, then it may be time to move on.
Let’s get started.
1.
He takes a long time to respond to your calls and messages
If you call and he doesn’t answer, leave a message but don’t hear back for days,
or text and it goes unanswered…
well then, he’s probably not into you.
If a guy is interested in you he will get back to you... sooner rather than later.
If he doesn’t respond at all it could be his way of letting you know that he’s not
interested.
2.
He’s only free late at night It’s one thing if the guy you’re into
works late or has a strange schedule, but it’s another thing if he’s free all day
but only contacts you late at night.
If this is the case then he may only want one thing from you… sex.
Knowing the difference between when a man likes you and when he considers you a booty
call is important.
If you’re looking for love, this isn’t it.
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the free video presentation.
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He never takes you on a real date Unless funds are low then there’s no real
excuse for him not to take you on a date.
If every time you hang out you’re staying in for a movie night or sharing a homemade
meal, then he isn’t trying very hard because he doesn’t care very much.
It’s sad, but true.
Putting in minimal effort when it comes to dates is a big red flag that he doesn’t
think your “relationship” is worth the effort.
If he did want something serious with you he’d be trying you woo you and showing you
off to the world.
If he’s not, then he’s probably not into you.
4.
He doesn’t invite you out
In the beginning of a relationship there will be times when your guy wants to fly solo,
and that’s perfectly fine… after all, he may be the kind of guy that likes to take
things slow.
But if he’s never inviting you to do things then there’s a good chance that it’s because
he doesn’t see a future with you.
5.
He has no interest in meeting your friends or family
Introducing someone to your family and friends is a big deal because it’s inviting that
person a little bit more into your world.
If the guy you’re into has ZERO interest in meeting your loved ones then it’s because
he’s not that serious about you.
The same can be said about him introducing you to his family.
If he never talks about them, or changes the subject anytime they come up then believe
me, he’s not planning on having a serious relationship with you.
6.
He never interacts with you on social media
Some guys just aren’t social media people, and that’s cool.
He can have an account and barely use it, lots of people do.
HOWEVERRR if the guy you’re into seems to interact with everyone BUT you online then
it may be time to take the hint; he’s not into you.
7.
He checks out or flirts with other women in front of you
This one is a big one.
It’s true that most men continue to look at other attractive women even after they’ve
found the love of their life.
That said, if he’s not into you then he’ll have no problem doing so IN FRONT of you.
If a man cares about you then he’ll go out of his way to make you feel good about yourself.
Gawking at or flirting with other women isn’t one of those ways, which means it’s probably
time for you to move on.
8.
He doesn’t ask you questions
If he doesn’t ask how your day was, where you grew up, what you enjoy doing… in other
words, the basics about a person, then he’s not into you.
Not to sound harsh, but guys who show little interest in your personal life have little
interest in you.
Lastly, number 9, he has no excuses for not wanting to see you
Let’s say you ask him to do something with you and he tells you he can’t because he
has an early morning or other plans with friends.
Fair enough, he has a reason, or excuse if you will, for not spending time with you.
On the other hand, if you ask him to do something and he simply says “No” or “I’m just
going to stay in” then he’s telling you that he doesn’t want to.
Simple as that.
Guys who are into you will want to spend time with you, or at least have a valid reason
for not being able to.
So, no excuse means he’s not interested.
Well, I think that just about does it for this video.
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