if you are watching this video right now you have likely tried to manifest something but no matter
how much you do or how much you try it still feels like it just isn't working or whatever it
is that you're manifesting just isn't showing up or happening you're not alone this is why people
get so frustrated when it comes to manifestation and the Law of Attraction but the good news is is
that this is very very very very common and the reason why something isn't manifesting typically
comes down to just this one thing in fact this exact reason is why manifestation doesn't work 99
of the time so if you feel like you're struggling this is going to solve that but there is actually
a way to fix this so that you can start seeing Real Results now no more struggling wondering and
waiting trust me when I say that this is normal I've even been in the same situation before and
to this day I sometimes still experience this sort of kind of delay based on Resistance but I'm gonna
share what I do that works for me every single time so that you can use this too if nothing
else seems to be working no matter what you do then this video is for you because I'm going
to show you not only what's happening and why it's not working but also what you can do now
to actually shift everything so it can all start working in your favor hello and welcome back to
my channel and if you're new here I'm Mary Kate and I'm a mindset coach and manifesting expert
focused on getting you transformational results my whole channel is all about manifesting the law of
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and getting value from these trainings and videos so once you do that let's get into it so here's
the thing about manifestation you hear how it requires time and focus it requires belief in
something even before it's here and it requires you to do and say certain things to make it show
up in your reality that's what you'll hear over and over and over again and in reality you will
also see that there is so much conflicting and overwhelming information out there about what
to do to manifest something there's books there's podcasts there's articles there's videos there's
so much information which can sometimes make things very overwhelming but I like to keep things
a lot more simple than that because manifestation is not meant to be frustrating and difficult
you're not meant to have some sort of PhD master's degree to figure it all out this is a power that
you were born with and you just need to learn how to use it effectively which actually requires you
unlearning things that keep you stuck and in this video I'm going to show you how to do that
so regardless of how many techniques you've tried or books you've read There is actually something
even more important that manifestation requires and this is the part that most people don't talk
about and the main reason why anybody struggles to Manifest this is the secret to getting out of that
stuck or desperate or trying phase and into the result of it actually being here and showing up
the fun part the key is not in anything you need to do at all because this doing and trying
is coming from the energy of I need to make this happen it's not here yet maybe if I try harder how
do I know that the Universe got the message about what it is that I wanted or maybe if I do this one
more time then it will show up do you ever catch yourself saying or thinking these things where you
feel like you just haven't done enough that's why it hasn't shown up I mean don't worry I've been
guilty of this too be honest with yourself have you thought or felt that before because it's less
about doing and more about what it is I'm about to tell you the real key to making manifestation
actually work is in your awareness and your focus and I'll show you why so quantum physics clearly
states that the observation of something actually changes the outcome don't worry I'm not going to
go down the rabbit hole of quantum physics right now I'll keep this straight to the point but
basically in observing what you want from the point of view of it not actually being here yet
that affects whether or not it's here to make that even more simple and clear you can actually repel
or attract what you want based on your awareness of it and your focus on it if you're focusing on
where is it where is it it's not here yet where is it when's it going to show up how's this going
to happen why isn't it here yet that changes the outcome and your observation is on it not being
here yet so it isn't but if you can regulate your awareness and your focus channeled into certainty
that it exists therefore it's yours that's when you can receive in the easiest and quickest way
it's the path of least resistance because the truth is every single thing that you want or
ever could want already exists the fact that you desire to have be or do something means that it's
been done before other people have accomplished it so therefore it's possible it's proof that
it's possible for you but it's your decision that it's inevitable and certain that can actually make
it show up in your reality instead of focusing on where is it where is it it's not here yet what if
you could lean into it exists and therefore it's mine this is all an internal shift that you are
going to have to make for yourself and one of my favorite affirmations when you're feeling stuck
or feeling like it's just not working is what's possible for others is possible for me I choose
to receive with ease so try that one or another favorite of mine is what's possible for others
is possible for me what I desire is inevitable see what feels better for you see what resonates most
with you using an affirmation like this begins to shift your focus almost immediately from feeling
separate from what you want or feeling like it's just not possible or not here or it's like in
some distant reality from you and instead shifting to deciding it's possible and supporting it with
proof that other people have this too other people have done this too it exists and therefore it can
exist in your reality too but then there's the question of timing and deadlines because
most of the time when we want something it tends to be time sensitive we want it because we need
it by a certain time or we have an idea we need this by a certain date we're always kind of on a
timeline but when you start focusing on the timing this is sort of when you get back in your head and
you start trying to control everything once again because your conscious mind is actually designed
to problem solve and strategize so there's actually nothing wrong with that that's a
normal default pattern of your brain it's human nature your conscious mind is designed to keep
you alive by problem solving and strategizing so it's not about fighting the natural part of your
brain that wants to kind of solve this problem and figure out all the details it's again about
your awareness and being aware of when you start overthinking or trying to control everything so
tightly and then making the choice to shift back into the magic manifesting formula which I teach
time and time again thought plus feeling plus inspired action equals manifesting thought plus
ceiling plus inspired action equals manifesting so basically you've already done two of these steps
and the inspired action and the circumstances will shift automatically this is the fun part
where opportunities that you could have never imagined or forced on your own will start to just
fall into place for you you're always manifesting circumstances and opportunities because the real
truth is that everything is being worked out and rearranged in your favor when you let go of
all the details and get out of your own way so in order to make this shift and get out of this stuck
frustrated place where you're just focusing on the lack of what you want being here here's the tool
that you can use right now the second you notice those frustrated desperate feelings coming up use
an affirmation that will make you feel something and change your mind and don't roll your eyes if
you're one of those people who doesn't love affirmations because I used to be one of them
too but it turns out I just wasn't using them in the best way they're actually insanely powerful
at shifting your energy quickly because when they cause a strong emotional response within you that
immediately shifts your energy so if you don't like affirmations I used to be one of them you
likely just aren't using the right ones for you because manifestation is not a one-size-fits-all
approach I will say it time and time again so let me give you a few of my favorite affirmations that
help you shift quickly but also feel free to write out pages of affirmations for yourself really dive
deep and see which ones trigger a really strong feeling and emotional response within you make
this your own and customize it for you where it makes you really feel something that is key
so play around with mine but also come up with your own so here are my favorites I don't know
how or when but I know that it will the details aren't up to me or it's all working out in my
favor and it gets to be mine another one is I let go of all the details and I'm open to the magic
of possibility or I am certain that blank is mine show me and guide me to the next steps and finally
I choose to have blank what needs to happen for this to show up for me so there are just five
off the top of my head but I've been doing this for a while so I have kind of default ones that
I can go to so some of these are affirmations and some are kind of more subtle questions that will
actually help activate my reticular activating system to start going to work and giving me the
evidence guidance and answers on what I need to do that's my part the part that is up to me
not trying to control it show me what needs to happen guide me to what's next for me and then
I allow it to come through my intuition on what inspired action to take it's less about forcing
it's about co-creation because manifestation is co-creation it's not you standing there with a
wand commanding life to happen exactly as you say you're not holding like hostage you're co-creating
things happen the way that they are meant to situations and circumstances that happen to you
will all lead you to where you need to be in order to have the things that you want trust that it's
not always easy to see it when you're in it some of the hardest and most difficult things that you
have ever or will ever go through are actually making space and preparing you and teaching you
lessons for that next level and all of those amazing things that you're destined to have
so get out of your own way stop controlling and start to observe where your awareness and your
focus is at that is key to manifestation release the control and shift into knowing it's yours and
certainty be in the energy of receiving and allowing and following your part co-creation
and I wanted to leave you quickly with one last tool that will also help you create major major
shifts there is a link down in the description box below for my free money mindset workbook and
I actually just added some brand new content to it that really helps you streamline your results
this is completely free and tens of thousands of people have gone through this workbook and
experienced some major Transformations so be sure to get your copy it's down in the description box
below and I really hope that you enjoyed this video if you did and you found value in it be
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