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Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com.
Today, I got the 3 best icebreakers that have been tested that work in literally every single
scenario.
I understand that at the release of this video, we're not at a time when we're going out and
talking to women in person.
We're not doing the cold approach.
We're not going to parties, we're not going to bars.
We're not getting in social situations.
I'm aware of that.
You don't need to say that in the comments.
But I still want to put this out there because I want you to have this information.
This is still a dating advice channel and I still want you to have this info because
eventually you will be going out there and you will be using this.
And what I want you to do is study this video, watch it over and over again.
Memorize the lines that I'm going to give you because I'm telling you (and a lot of
guys, especially my coaching clients, they mess this up ) they always try to find the
best opener and this is what causes approach anxiety.
They're not sure what to say so they're afraid to go up there and say it.
Now I know that after you watch this video and you're going to know exactly what to say,
that's not gonna be the magic bullet that's going to get rid of potential approach anxiety.
But it's going to help because you're going to know exactly what to do in any given situation.
In fact, I really should have just titled this, the one best icebreaker because there's
one that you could use all the time.
But I'll give you a few options because there's different situations where it calls for it
and you can use a different type of icebreaker opener, whatever you want to call it.
Let's get into it.
Let's start with my first one, the one that you can use pretty much anytime, anywhere
when you see a woman in person.
All you have to do (and my coaching clients know this the best because I tell them to
use it) is you go to a woman and say hi and then you say your name.
Hi, I'm Tripp.
I wanted to come over and meet you.
And then you can follow up with are you from?
Maybe you've heard me say this before.
I've talked about this on a lot of videos, but I feel like I gotta remind this to you.
Hammer in your head that it's not about what the opener is but at least getting you over
to do it so you don't have to think so hard.
Just use this line.
Hi, I'm Tripp, I wanted to come over meet you.
I wanted to meet you, I had to meet you.
Any kind of variation is fine.
It's just like Hi, I'm Tripp, I wanted to come meet you.
Are you from Chicago or Los Angeles?
Are you from whatever city that you're in?
Use it all the time, memorize it.
Use it whenever you see someone.
I always say because a lot of guys they get really scared to go up.
They're trying to think of the perfect opener, the perfect thing to comment on a situation.
I go don't think that hard.
You don't need to think so hard about what to say and go over there.
You just have to introduce yourself, you just have to go over there.
And I know it's tough to continue conversation.
I have plenty of videos by the way about that.
Or you can get the Hooked program, which teaches you all about how to converse with women in
a way that makes you more attractive to them.
Still you got to start with something and this is the best way and then you'll work
on conversation as much as you can as you get into more approaches.
But you're not going to get better at conversation or learning how to have really good conversational
skills or get better at being more confident or charismatic unless we can get you in there.
And you don't need a perfect line.
Hey, what's up?
I wanted to come meet you.
Hey, I'm Tripp, I wanted to come meet you.
I'm curious, are you from blah, blah, blah.
If she's like, why is this guy coming over and talking to me?
She gets it.
She knows what's up.
If you do this other line where a lot of guys use an opinion opener or they use on the other
line that's like asking directions somewhere.
Which is fine for warm up openers if you're trying to get get yourself going and you do
that a few times to get yourself into the social mood.
But they know what's up.
So just go over there and be direct.
That's what the people in the industry called it direct line.
That's what I want you to use all the time.
I got two more for you that you can use, but you can use this one anytime you want.
Alright, here's the next one.
The next one is more at a social gathering.
But you can do it in kind of this cheeky way if you want to do it at a bar or a club.
But it's more for a party or a social event that's going on.
A networking event, all you got to do (and I know this takes a little bit of courage,
a little bit of balls) but just go up to a woman and say hey, I haven't met you yet.
What's up?
I'm Tripp.
Hey are you from wherever?
Or who do you know here?
If it's at a party, at some sort of event, some sort of gathering, some sort of meet
up.
Hey what's going on?
I haven't met you yet.
That's it.
She's not gonna be like, what's going on?
It's gonna be very clear.
You're just going around and you're socializing.
Hey what's up?
I haven't met you yet.
I'm Tripp.
Are you from Chicago?
Hey what's up?
I haven't met you yet.
Who do you know here?
Or how'd you hear about this event?
That's it.
And then boom, boom, boom, you're off and running.
You can use that.
Again, like I said earlier, you can use it in a funny way if you go to a bar because
it's like of course you haven't met yet.
But you're just being funny.
It's kind of just making light of the situations.
Going up and saying hey I haven't met you yet.
What's going on?
You'd be surprised.
Again, you only have to use any of these openers if you don't want to because it doesn't really
matter.
But I know that for a lot of guys it's tough.
And we just want to get you in there.
Try that one as well at events.
Here's the third one.
This one is more complicated but I know some guys like it and I know that it can help but
I don't recommend you try to do this one all the time because it's a little bit more work,
is doing what I call holding, wearing, doing.
Holding, wearing, doing.
Holding, wearing doing.
Meaning you're going to comment on something she's holding, something she's wearing, or
something that she's doing.
This is called a situational opener.
You can use this as a cold approach.
This is something that you might use when you're going out and about and you're walking
along the street or the sidewalk or a grocery store.
You can comment on something she's holding.
Maybe she's at a grocery store and she's holding something.
You can comment on it or maybe something she's wearing.
A way to approach a woman is maybe she's wearing some fun crazy sunglasses or maybe you like
them or she's wearing some funky shoes or she's got a crazy jacket on or a piece of
jewelry that's interesting.
You can comment on that, so wearing.
The next one is doing.
Something that she's doing.
Maybe she's walking her dog, maybe she's doing a picnic with a couple of her friends and
you're commenting on something that she's doing.
Holding, wearing, doing.
A lot of guys get too caught up with that one though.
And they can't think of it.
If you're going to do holding, wearing, doing then I want you to it has to be something
that is coming up quickly.
It can't be like I wonder if I can comment on something she's holding, wearing or doing.
Is she holding something, is she wearing something interesting, is she doing something?
That shouldn't be the filter in your head.
That's taking too long.
If it gets to that point where you have to think that hard about it, it's going to get
in your head and you've lost it.
I want you to apply the 3 second rule to approach as fast as you can.
And that could be with the first opener or icebreaker that I said but if it comes to
your mind like if you walk by it a girl and then immediately you see something that she's
holding or wearing or something that she's doing, go for it.
Comment on it, start conversation, that's totally fine.
So again, a little bit harder because it's got to be something that you actually want
to comment on.
But I still want to give it to you because it does work in some situations and it can
work well if it's more authentic.
Don't use that one as the main one.
Use that one as backup and just do it if it comes to mind.
Otherwise, use the first two that I talked about, great icebreakers, tested.
That work that you can use.
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Check it out.
Write down below which one you like the best which one you're going to use.
Check it out and I'll see you on the next video.