hey what's up it's the BAM and it's
going down in my DMS my husband probably
deems me more than anybody on Instagram
we are in each other dams all day long
we send each other like funny memes and
stuff and then sometimes you know I
don't know if he's looking falling on
just might want to slide it Missy and
tell me so of course I have hundreds or
maybe even thousands of dams most of
them are pretty nice but some of them
are really weird here's one I got today
it says it's funny how your reality
stars think you're all that I can look
just as good if I have money to I mean I
just feel like that's so childish I have
a over load of moms like DME now they're
giving me advice and they're asking me
for advice and sometimes it's a little
overwhelming because they're like
telling me they giving me unsolicited
advice actually and I'm just saying girl
like I know it takes a village but like
you're not a part of my village you know
I have my own village it's okay this one
is really funny yo little shorty you
find though I won't tell scrap I promise
on my five kids first of all it was just
so much wrong with this message he's
blocked of course but first of all I'm
not shorty you know clearly like 511
he promised only has five kids like you
just lost me completely
but anyways those are the types of dams
I get sometimes I'll share like the
ridiculous games with my husband what so
time they're so ridiculous that I just
blocked them and move on to the next I
don't know if I've had any DM disasters
but a couple of times like maybe a
couple years ago I would actually like
screenshot them and post them to my page
just so people would not send me
ridiculous stuff you know I'm saying I'm
like okay maybe if they see me like
putting people on blast they would show
but you know like the pictures of the
privates and that kind of stuff like
it's just you know I have to put some of
that stuff on blast I think nudes and
dams it's like the most disrespectful
thing ever because I'm opening up these
messages because I'm thinking it's like
maybe a fan or a supporter or something
and then I just open it up and it's just
offensive you know like I don't want to
see that I would say the do's and don'ts
of the dam is don't ask people for money
because some people they don't even need
it they'll just say I'll have a bet with
my friend I'm trying to see if I can get
ten people to send me like it's just
like so rude and ridiculous
don't send unsolicited advice don't send
news well obviously when you open your
damn you can see the first light line or
so so if you want to get my attention I
don't know it's just so random you know
what I'm saying like some people have a
way with words and you know they come
off like they don't mean any harm
and you can see that from the first
couple of lines so then I'll open it up
but it right off the bag you come in
like I usually don't do this but I'm not
gonna open it if you say something like
I know you probably won't see this I'm
not gonna open it because you know you
putting out that negative energy so I'm
just not gonna look at it anyway before
I was married I never slid into dams
like that's just something that I would
not do probably be a little nervous to
do that anyway maybe thinking it's not
that person that I'm talking to so ya
know that's not my thing
never has been I don't think any of my
cast members have slid into my dam not
on anything inappropriate no I think
they're a little
intimidated they already know even if me
and scrap hadn't been together they
probably knew as a possibility that we
would get back together so no no sliding
and the dams from the cast members so if
you're gonna slide them to somebody's DM
trying to get a date the first thing you
should probably do is ask her what's her
cash handle that'll get you a date
celebrity I wish was slide into my DM
maybe Beyonce I don't even think she'd
be on her Instagram for real but if
anybody had to slide in my DM you know
she can send me something you know say
it was crappy that's it everybody else
is so accessible you know I'm saying
beat Beyonce it's just like she's like
you know not even real she's not even
human so the other day I posted a video
of my son and he was like taking a
little cat nap on the couch and all my
little nieces and nephews are around him
so that day I got a few comments
you know people trolling telling me I
was like a horrible mother and you know
I don't know anything about being a
parent you know sometimes you get people
trolling and I'm pretty sure it's the
people that you block and then they'll
go to their backup page and then come
here DM and you know try to say whatever
they want to say the first time they got
blocked so I used to respond to all
things negative like I had a clap back
for everything but now I try to just
block them and move on but sometimes
you'll just have that one person it just
needs to be told and sometimes you know
I say what I gotta say and then I block
them the messages that I received most
of my DM are women asking me how did you
get this guy to completely change his
whole entire persona like when it comes
to dealing with you know women are you
me whatever but I get all these women
asking me like well how did how did you
get him to change and you know what did
you do and all these questions and
not answer and I'm like you know like
girl that's the problem right there like
you're trying to make somebody change
and it's not gonna happen so you know
you're just gonna have to let your guy
figure it out and don't stick around too
long you know I'm saying if he's doing
too much
keep it moving yeah sometimes I give
advice and dams to these end ladies
because I feel like you know a lot of
young girls and they are so lost and if
I can if I see them like going in a
wrong direction
then you know I'll try to throw them a
little advice but you know I'm not
trying to be dr. Phil or anything like
that
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