- Have you ever been talking to a guy that you find
really attractive and he just has like that swagger,
he's got that sense of humor and it just makes you say,
damn!
Sometimes when you meet someone like that,
all of that charm and that Winnie banter
that you usually have with men, just goes to absolute mush.
And we call this man mush brain.
And all you're left with is an awkward speechless woman,
who's got about as much game
as I had on the basketball court back in sixth grade.
I was pretty bad at basketball.
You don't wanna lose your flirting abilities
in this situation, you don't want man mush brain.
But don't do you sexy single ladies,
because in this video, I'm gonna be walking you through
five playful flirting tips that are going to help you
be able to attract that guy
even when you're feeling really attracted to him
and uncomfortable.
Keep watching.
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Hey there, my name is Adam LoDolce
and I'm the head love strategist over here
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for our love coaching program called love accelerator.
Now in love accelerator,
when we get to little love step number three,
which is getting out there and meeting quality men,
we help you develop your flirting skills.
Because when you're following each of the little love steps,
you're not just going out there and meeting everyday
random guys.
You are meeting quality men
who meet what we call your love vision.
The type of quality caliber man that you really want
in your life.
And unless you were armed with the tools and the knowledge
on how to be able to connect and flirt
and create that witty playful banter,
then you're gonna be left there speechless
and feeling a little awkward.
So, here are five strategies you can use today
to start connecting with men.
Number one is focus on your mindset.
You wanna be playful when you're getting out there
and meeting these guys.
Don't forget that flirting is supposed to be fun.
And so many people can take it so seriously
when they're really focused on getting out there
and finding love, that they forget
that the first few interactions with a person
is supposed to be playful and really fun.
So don't forget to laugh a little bit, goof around,
go to venues where you are actually having a good time
and you're actually naturally laughing
and enjoying yourself.
Not to some crowded bar or restaurant or some place where
you really don't like, coffee dates.
Ugh!
Don't wanna do anything like that,
where it's not really fun and playful.
Go do things and maybe even play a game together
or go play pool together.
Do something that you can do
that creates a fun playful atmosphere.
Because if you're not in a playful mood,
then the other strategies I'm gonna talk about in this video
are not going to be very useful for you.
Strategy number two,
is make sure that you use the most powerful weapon you have
on your entire body, which is that smile.
As Marilyn Monroe says, "a smile is the best makeup
any woman can wear".
And in our love accelerator coaching program,
we take this actually one step forward
and we use this strategy called smalking.
Which is smiling while talking.
Now, at first smiling while talking is actually
kinda challenging.
But if you notice, try it right now.
Pause this video, give it a try.
Try saying a few sentences while smiling.
If you do it in the mirror,
you'll not only notice that you come off as a much more
vibrant person and a person that is actually
very approachable, but also it puts you
in a more playful mood.
Studies show that actually by just the act of smiling,
sends incredible triggers to the brain to actually increase
your dopamine levels and make you happier.
So, please, smile when you're out there.
That's the best way to attract a quality man
and show him that you're interested.
Strategy number three is using active listening.
The most powerful way to show interest in a man,
is to show him that you're actually listening
to what he's saying.
We here at Love Strategies, we don't use ridiculous games.
And I certainly don't want you using a resting bitch face
to show that you're not interested in him.
No.
I want you to use active listening strategies
by nodding your head, acknowledging what he's saying
and showing him that you're actually paying attention
to the things that he's saying to you.
Believe it or not, this is a very flirtatious way to connect
with a man because it's showing him that you actually care
about the things that are coming out of his mouth.
And by the way, he should be doing that
about the things you're saying as well.
The forth strategy is using the power of touch.
The way to use this strategy is anytime a man says anything,
even remotely funny, just do a little, ha ha ha ha,
that's you laughing, touch and he's going to feel your touch
and be like, oh, I see, she's interested
in something a little bit more.
The moment you break that touch barrier,
you're sending massive signals to him
that this is not just a friendly conversation
and hey, you might be interested in him,
maybe touching you back.
And finally, strategy number five to flirt with men,
is to tease him.
Don't be afraid to poke fun of a guy
if he's being a little bit ridiculous.
Let's say a guy comes up to you
and he sounds like he's using kind of a cheesy line,
throw it back in his face and be like,
really that's the best line you've got?
Now, notice you can tease a man and poke fun of him
only if you are smalking at the same time.
Which is smiling while talking,
when you do that with a resting bitch face,
you are going to scare the living (beep) out of him.
But it's incredible.
You can poke fun of someone or tease them
as much as you want,
so long as you have a positive body language
and you have that smile all along the way.
And what this does is opens the door
for fun, playful banter,
which is what we're ultimately going for
when we're flirting.
And finally, as a quick bonus tip,
make sure that you end the conversation first.
Make him always feel like he's longing to be with you.
So, if you are ready to finally step up your game
and be able to really walk through the little love steps
to attract that man and that relationship
that you truly deserve,
make sure you click that link right there below
or head on over to LoveApply.com,
so you can apply for a complimentary love strategy session
with someone on my team.
And we will see whether or not you're a fit
for our coaching program called love accelerator coaching.
Thank you so much for watching and I'll speak to you,
you sexy single lady, next week.
Bye bye.