I'm going to give you 3 super simple ways to know if she's ready to sleep with you.
What this is all gonna boil down to, it's going to be you making sure you are making a move. One
of the main reasons (and it's funny that this is the case) but one of the main reasons why a woman
doesn't sleep with you is because you don't make it happen. I'm going to be going through the 3
biggest steps that get to that point that make it happen. A lot of guys don't take action.
A lot of guys don't take action, even going for the kiss or asking for a date. They don't
even take it that far and land themselves in the friend-zone. When I go over these, they're gonna
seem in a way obvious, but here's what you have to understand. There's no secret or subtle or hidden
signs that she's ready to sleep with you. The guys who are asking that are afraid of rejection.
This is why guys really like to know the signs a girl is interested in them. One of my biggest
videos on this channel is signs that a girl is interested in you. The reason why guys ask that
is because they want the signs because they don't want to move forward and take action
unless they know they won't get rejected. It's the same thing here. The reason why you're watching
this is probably because you want the secret signs. You want to be able to read her mind so you
know whether it's okay. I'm going to be giving you the 3 things to do in order to know if it's okay.
And it's super simple. It just takes some courage to be able to do it.
Let's go through the first one. The first one... I'm looking down because I'm writing notes on a
computer so I want to get this right. The first one is this, she's agreeing to come to your place.
That's where it's going to happen. We're not going to do it at her place, we're not going to
do it somewhere public obviously. Maybe if you're in a relationship or something like that,
but the first time is usually going to be at a place and it's gonna be at your place. Because
you're the man and you're being dominant and you're leading the interaction. So you're going
to get her back to your place. I like to say that you can get her back to your place in the
first date if you guys happen to be close to your place. Normally this happens on date two or three,
like the best third date to do it. I'll give you the whole sequence. The best first date is a drink
or coffee or tea. Second date is a dinner. And the third date is back to your place.
Third date is hey, come over and I'll make dinner for you. You guys have some wine,
hang out, listen to music, and then boom... it can happen. But either way back at your place. That's
step one, she's agreeing. This doesn't mean that she's 100% in. But this is the obvious step where
she's probably interested because that's the place where it can happen.
Number two the second step here is she is going to be cool with your advances. She's advancing
with you as you're escalating. So you're going for the kiss, you are fondling, groping, so to speak.
Groping is not the best word. But you guys are getting hot and heavy. You're touching each other.
You guys are on the couch. You kind of lift her up, you put her on you. You guys are making out,
getting into it, clothes are starting to come off. This is another second sign. This is the
second part of the escalation process. You guys are in this pre-stage. Maybe even get to the
point of foreplay. You're at that point. This is a great sign that she's probably interested in it.
I know this sounds like I'm teaching like high schoolers the birds and the bees. But
this is it. These are the signs and this is more so giving you what you need to do to make this
happen. This is the process and you have to make these moves. If you get anything from this video,
if you understand all this already, it's you got to make the move. You got to make the move. Third
time I'll say it you got to make a move. The third thing is consent which is simple. Consent
is something that you have to do. It's important to do it. You don't want to have sex with a
girl who's not interested anyways. And don't worry. A lot of guys are like, no be a man.
You don't need to ask for consent. That's lame. You're gonna blow the moment. It's gonna be
this really hot moment and then you ask her and then all of a sudden she's completely turned off.
No, that's not how it works. And you don't have to be really lame about it and say something like
"so would you like to perform intercourse right now"? You don't have to do that. You can say
something where it's obvious like "hey, should I go get a condom?" Great line. In fact, that's the
only line I'm going to give you right now. Just use that. It's great. "Should I go get a condom?"
That is obvious, boom, you guys are going to do it. That is boom, she's interested. She wants to
do it. Everything in between is just you being the cool guy. You're using TED, my TED system
which I talk about in my Hooked program. I'll put a link down below for that so you can check that
out. Using the TED system to build attraction and the next step is building investment, which means
that she wants to continue to see you and then she wants to have sex with you. And then when she does
have sex with you, by the way, that's a point where she becomes even more invested in you. So
you're building attraction, building investment, and showing her that you are a safe guy. You're
not going to hurt her, you're not going to judge her sexually and make her feel bad for
anything she says or does around sex. You're going to be a cool guy that's not needy, that is
going to build the attraction I'm talking about. And through all this, just get her interested.
I know that I make it sound a lot easier, like easier said than done here. And that alone is
not going to necessarily gonna make you make you a complete player and sleep with all these girls.
But what it's going to do is it's going to get you closer than ever before.
A lot of guys who don't end up having sex with girls or getting into relationships with girls
are guys who are not charismatic and don't have the courage to do so. A lot of guys who are
taking themselves out of the situations where they can meet women and escalate and take it
to the next level and be dominant and be a guy who's good socially and good around people. And
who does his best to dress well like in cool Hawaiian shirts like this. Dress well groom
well and that will give you more options than you ever thought. If you want the more details
and specifics, go into the link below and check out my Hooked program. That's where you can get
more instructions on exactly how to do that. But for now just follow this and understand how it
works and it's a lot simpler than you think. Hope that helps. I'll see you in the comments.