thank us of the sponsoring this video I had an amazing time spending quality
time with Gary stay tuned for highlights how do you manage to have intimacy with
three kids always around do you feel like people think you're my dad I think
yeah I think there are times when people think I'm your dad well that's nice look
like ride on the ferris wheel are you crying for real yeah hi guys so today I
decided to cancel Monday and make it into a quality time day for Gary and I
it will it be TV quality I think so I planned a bunch of like
random stuff for us to do and it's like a road trip for us to spend some quality
time together but also to get shop with each other doing this road trip
the bulerías planted I don't know where she's taking us I don't know we are
doing this like you and I because I feel like with Q&A so we start talking about
things and in the previous videos we've we did it actually like I enjoyed it I
enjoyed all the videos we'll area puts me into you love the attention I don't
love the attention I don't love the spotlight that's not since an you know
how do you manage to have intimacy with three kids always around
I guess they like because we travel often if that kind of gives us some
space from that it's big house it's good how do you feel with getting upset or
annoyed with each other I feel like I shut down I prefer to like not speak or
communicate until I think that the breath and just like calm myself down I
don't want to explode or just like say things that I can't take back later we
have to disagree on things in order to grow the key thing is the ability to
resolve conflict conflict will happen you are going to argue you will have
disagreements how do you resolve that conflict do you put your ego away to
come to an amicable agreement or are you debating and arguing to get the upper
hand I read something it was so good when you argue when you have a
disagreement you have to remember that it's you and him versus the problem not
you versus him what are some things that Gary learned from you
what a good question I learned patience it's not from you it's because of you
know you're right I learned from you that just because you have an argument
with somebody it doesn't mean the relationships not giving up on a
relationship is another huge thing what is your favorite trait of Aries and vice
versa if you like in situations where it's like very intense just stay calm
and in here I could bring strength to me and just like feeling that everything's
the problem is yeah there's an Esso ride ya know why does my your favorite thing
about me I know a lot of people are gonna say it's because you're really
pretty that's what people think that's not a
trait being attractive I know maybe my favorite thing about you is that you're
really smart you know that's my absolute favorite treat
I feel like now because you just mentioned that I'm very smart
I think this would be a great time to show you how I remember what kind of gas
we we're gonna continue with the questions
with first I wanna impress you oh and impress you with putting gas in
the car meaning you're gonna delegate to me to put gas in the car no I'm gonna
put the gas in it you're gonna put the gas in the car I'm gonna use that cheap
one no no no no no go no stop when you go to the ISO station you use this
energy supreme who are you getting very fast I am very passionate about it I'm a
car guy you know I'm a car guy synergy supreme
I don't know why I could then it should have to do this instead of Gary thank
you for that I don't feel the camera angle is fully
appreciating my hat right now all right look at this I match just gonna go
outside I leave you for literally five minutes and you still managed to find
fashion so we are on the egg on the lake it's such a cute quaint that oh my god
you came out with the hat well I found this it is cute right I just thought
it's gonna be a little nicer weather oh
wait wait oh my god stop again
oh it gets spinning we ever had a serious fight I don't think it was very
serious fighting me kid almost eight years of marriage I've
never slept on the couch so I don't know that tells me that never had a serious
one what you longest and the part that you guys are okay to spend money the
longest was I think it was before we had kids that I went to Israel for like two
weeks what's the age difference between you
two and what have you learned about it the good and the bad so different is 18
years you would think that me being a senior civilian I would have to be
running around them I would have to be running around after you but I feel like
I have more energy you just want to retire and wear linen all day
so were you pleasantly so oh my god look it looks like from a movie what movie is
it you think I don't know like back home for Christmas or something I think they
had this in gremlins they had a town like this
I like gremlins so now we are still a secret or can you tell me what it is go
get some relaxation how do you manage your bank account
separate or joint accounts everything is joined I think I've just old-fashioned I
know there are some people who separate everything off once they get married to
me it's like we're married everything is together so I do you handle jealousy
acting out with the boys I'm struggling with my five-year-old I feel like when
they don't have enough attention they'll act out which is kind of a signal for
myself and Gary to plan some more one-on-one time with them so they feel
like they have their own space with the parents so I think that's important
acting out usually they're trying to get your attention if you're struggling with
that that may be like find ways where it really is just you and your son you
don't have to do anything extravagant just like quality time how do you know
that Gary appreciates you how do you know that I appreciate you you catering
to my needs and I feel like you try to do your best to make things
easier for me my mission is to make you happy by making you happy I make the
children happy and by you and the children being happy I'm happy
so I do whatever it takes okay babe so we are here we're gonna do a little spa
treatment you're gonna get a massage yeah and then we're gonna continue to
some other stuff so can I read the question yeah this one person wrote
people assume my boyfriend is my dad how do you guys deal with this and the
stairs do you feel like people think you're my dad I think yeah I think there
are times that people think I'm your dad but really yeah I think so but letting
it cool that you know not like a regular mom I'm a cool mom right Regina please
stop talking people can think what they want we have a great marriage we have
three beautiful kids we were business together the fact that people will look
and make comments or stare you shouldn't matter and to the person who asked this
question I don't think it should matter to you either because you know at the
end of the day you have to live your life I feel the same I feel like I don't
really have opinions about it anymore I think I was sensitive about it before
when we just started dating really yeah because I was like oh what might think
about me whatever I felt like I need to prove people something but there's no
use of spending any time or energy thinking about how to make other people
comfortable with my life I've always wanted to come here I'm happy that
you're living your dream oh look how big this one is whatever it is that you're
doing now I don't think will work what is that even supposed to be
whoa you see wine is chilling there on the floor baby's dead
oh no he's dead he's not a pigeon dr- pies come jealous of you something that
you have strived for that is enter this realm of the butterfly that is correct
this looks like the most happening city in the world but look there's no lines
you see it's great you see I had planned it for you have there been any
fatalities on this ride it hasn't happened yet okay what do you mean I
mean I'm not feeling it I'm scared though look how high we are
look how we dangling you think the kids would like this
I think they would be so scared they'd be so proud right now Thanks nothing
mastered before how do you balance that excitement only Gary and with kids and
family I feel like you deprioritize me you do
I think I'm not on the top of the list of you first it's the kids and then it's
me lately I've been feeling very guilty with the kids I know that I should
prioritize you I know and I do try but there are times like right now without
going to just like trying to find the right harmony of work and you and the
kids and myself it's easier said than that yeah but it's not realistic that at
the age of twenty nine you should have everything figured out but why how was
the arrival of your first kid how did you manage it
it was completely unexpected not the child behind Jake on purpose I think it
was chaos I was so out of my element I had no idea what was going on it's
complete they just want such a 180 for me because I came from a place where all
I have to think about is me to taking care of this little baby I gotta say and
I probably don't tell you this thank you for doing a really good job I really do
and I think maybe part of your anxiety is that you maybe you don't hear it for
me I just don't tell you because I take it as a given but I'm assuming that you
know that you're doing a really good job I've always really impressed with you so
you know I think I should be telling me that more because I feel if I did tell
you that more then you wouldn't have this bum deal because you're doing an
incredible job Ferris wheels are you fried for real yeah did you think that I
thought you were doing a bad job with the kids I know if he thought I was
doing bad you would like say something I needed me to give you that positive
reinforcement yeah always that's my biggest weakness
the kids I would feel like I'm not doing feel the kids are your biggest weakness
yeah funny because I feel the kids are your biggest strength you see that's why
we're doing Q&A it's like therapy I tell you what's funny is people probably pay
a lot of money to get to this place they don't know that they just need to go on
social media yes people what they want to know is yes David so basically we
just had a breakthrough things are great now but I think things will only get
better
good night thank you for joining Gary and mine road trip for more adventures
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