Conversation starters. Multiple ways to start a conversation with a girl,
different opportunities to be able to start a conversation with a girl. So what
are you supposed to say? How do you get the conversation going? What are the
first words out of your mouth? I'm gonna be giving those to you today on this
vlog as well as really going and diving deep into what you need to be doing and
what can you be thinking in terms of starting the conversation so make sure
you watch throughout finish the video because we're gonna be going over
everything conversation starters. What do you think is the most common way to meet
a woman? Where do you think guys are meeting women the most? And we're just
talking right now about in person. This is not including apps, not including
dating sites? Where do you think? I'm gonna give you five seconds to guess
where you think the number one place is. I want you to write it down in the
comments right now. I'll wait.
okay what is your guess what do you think is the number-one place to meet
women and I'm starting this off like this so I can give you the first
conversation starter all right pretty simple if you said bar or club then
you'd probably be right right that is a very common place to meet a girl because
there are single girls who are going out it's very commonplace for guys to be
meeting girls so here's the opener that you can use when you meet a girl at a
bar or a club I want you to say this what drink is that or if they don't have
a drink in their hand ask them a recommendation of the best drink to get
here okay so why this one why is this one a top conversation started well what
I'm trying to do here is I'm trying to give you something so easy something so
generic that you'll remember it and that you'll use it because conversation
starters do not need to be incredible women do not remember the conversation
started you can be talking to a girl and you can end up getting her number and he
doesn't want you to do if you're actually dating a girl right now that
you met I want you to text her right now and ask her do you remember the first
thing I said to you nine times out of ten the woman is not gonna remember the
first thing that you said to her she's gonna remember you as a whole
alright here's a little fact about me I don't drink it Tina don't drink coffee I
rarely drink tea and I don't drink service so my intake
of caffeine is pretty much done on a week-to-week day-by-day basis we just
came to this place that is known for amazing coffee but I'm Jeff Duncan right
now so let's keep going with this watch
now until you judge the quality of these before you say oh that's never gonna
work or that's too simple all I need something more creative more funny more
original before you judge it I want you to try it out for yourself
so go and try it and if it doesn't work for you ten times in a row then we can
try moving to something else but trust me when I say that the more simple the
better just about getting you in conversation and getting it started all
right the next place that's common to meet women is during the day on a
sidewalk at a coffee shop you know what would be known as what the internet
calls a day game right meeting girls during the day and I got a great opener
for you one that works very well it's called the Starbucks opener and what you
do is when you see a girl go up turn and say hey where's a good coffee shop that
I could go to that's not Starbucks and it's a really good opener to use and a
good conversation started because it gets conversation started about coffee
something that a lot of people drink like I did today
and also something that other people don't really like so whatever the reason
it doesn't matter but getting in there and starting something about coffee it's
a great way to start it off all right the next common place to meet a girl
would be a networking situation or some sort of social situation like a party
and have a great one for this what you can say when you go up to a girl in this
situation is hey I haven't met you yet very simple right a great little
introduction because it's as if you should have been meeting them because
you're at a party and people are there who know each other you're networking
and people are meant to meet each other it's like these are gatherings where
people are really meant to meet each other yeah same thing with the bar or a
club but if you want you can interchange and use that for a bar a club - because
it's kind of just funny like hey I haven't met you yet you know like why
are you supposed to but it just shows confidence so saying something like that
as a good way to introduce yourself when you're in one of those social situations
so I'm hanging out today by a watt it's w80 that is a temple and there's a lot
of watts around here in Thailand a lot especially in Chiang Mai so I'm having a
very peaceful calm walk today and just checking out the scenery all right about
to head back to the Airbnb I want to give you the last one the last one is an
opener that's used for places that are crowded but also more specifically a
place where you see a girl many times so that could be a bus you know your route
to work you're out to school maybe around school around campus maybe around
work so you keep on repeatedly seeing the same girl over and over so your
opener is gonna be hey I've seen you around here a lot but I haven't gotten
your name okay so it doesn't matter if she's seen you where she hasn't seen you
you're basically just saying like oh you see her a lot because you guys are in
the same area for whatever reason and you haven't got her name yet again don't
think too logically like a trip like that's gonna be weird and if you say
that she's gonna be like well of course you haven't got my name like it doesn't
matter again the whole idea is just making sure that you get yourself in the
conversation it's the most important one of the big philosophies in the trip
advice community is hard work hustle and practice so what does that mean when it
comes to dating it means that you need to be taking this advice and going out
there and practicing it nothing is magic and told us in any of their dating
coaches or any other pickup artists nothing is magic
yes some techniques work better than others but you still need to go and use
them and practice them. I urge you try these out and practice. It might take a
few times to go and use these so I urge you use this stuff. Go out there and try
it for yourself because again it's not necessarily about what you're saying but
just getting some sort of excuse to go in there and start the conversation.
Here's what I want you to do right now. I'm gonna put a little card on the
screen here and I also put this in the link in the description below is a link
to an old video called 33 conversation continuers. This is going to help you
continue conversation after you end up using these lines. Of
course you can also get Chick Crack and I'll put that in a link in the
description below with a link to be able to get that as well. Go ahead and do
that I'll see you on the next video. Have a good one.