When someone likes me, I have a habit of just ghosting instead of saying no.
What do you think about that?
[PENIEL] Like, why ghost?
[pH-1] Like,
I feel bad rejecting you, so it's awkward, and it's hard to say no.
[PENIEL] Okay, okay.
[pH-1] But are you ghosting only that person
Or like to everyone?
- [ASHLEY] Just that person. - [pH-1] I just ghost that one person.
[ASHLEY] When they say they like you?
- [ASHLEY] You ignore them? - [pH-1] It's like
[pH-1] I just make it obvious to that person.
- [ASHLEY] Oh, that you don't like them. - [pH-1] I just don't respond to the text
[pH-1] I don't respond that but I upload an Insta story to tell that I'm online.
I upload an Instagram post
So I let them know.
- [PENIEL] Like, "I'm not interested!" - [pH-1] But I never directly say it.
[pH-1] I just do that.
[sogumm] That's scary.
- [sogumm] I think it's scary. - [pH-1] lol then lemme correct myself
[pH-1] I'll say a proper no.
[sogumm] I don't want to be that kind of person.
like, I don't want to
be hated by you.
- [sogumm] So scary. - [pH-1] Ahhh~
[pH-1] It's all good. I'm not doing it in a scary way.
It's just that if I were to outright say no,
I think they'd get hurt?
It's like no matter how nicely I say it
- [pH-1] It's like, "hey sogumm, I don't like you." - [PENIEL] I think ghosting is worse.
[pH-1] If I just say it like that
Some people may go 'aight' but others might be like "WTF"
- [pH-1] "What do you mean you don't like me?!" - [ASHLEY] Who does that?
[ASHLEY] Is this a K-Drama?
[PENIEL] I think you watch too much dramas.
- [PENIEL] Meanwhile, sogumm watched too much Disney. - [ASHLEY] They do that?
[pH-1] "HOW COULD YOU DO ME LIKE DIS?!?!"
[PENIEL] "WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?!?!"
[ASHLEY] Except
I feel like if I saw someone purposefully ignoring me and posting on Insta would hurt my feelings more. So just communicate from now on.
[pH-1] Yes, m'am :')
[ASHLEY] Peniel would just reject outright. 1022 00:46:10,309 --> 00:46:10,970 [PENIEL] Yes :)
[ASHLEY] Right.
[PENIEL] I'd say "Oh I'm sorry, you're just a friend to me" :D
[pH-1] Dang lol
[ASHLEY]I keep telling white lies.
Of course not about anything big.
I just lie about petty things.
Does that make me a bad person?
[sogumm] Like in reference to speaking honestly?
What does that mean?
[pH-1] They're saying like "I only lie about something unimportant."
[ASHLEY] Hmm.
What's unimportant? Like 'I like this color on you'?
[pH-1] Some white lies, something like that
Or like, for example,
"Ashley, why did you not respond to my text?"
Just,
- [pH-1] Like "I was intending on it but I was taking a shower" - [ASHLEY] Oh, I've said shower before.
[pH-1] Exactly.
[PENIEL] Did you submit this, Ashley?
[ASHLEY] I sometimes do that.
[pH-1] The white lie, but sogumm you don't want to lie so you turn the phone off
[sogumm] Right, I, the white lies
I do that a lot!
[pH-1] About what?
[sogumm] For example,
- [PENIEL] I don't think you do, since you have to think about it so much - [sogumm] No, for example
[sogumm]For example
For example, talking to mom
Taxi.
Taxi, yesterday
- [pH-1] Always about taxis - [sogumm] Too many things about taxis
[sogumm] I needed a taxi but I didn't have any, I went home with the final KTX of the day
The line was so long, I couldn't get my Kakao Taxi
And I had 2% on my phone, so
There are people saying 'Incheon?' over there
So I went to that driver
And they said it was '30,000 won'
I wanted to go home and I had schedule tomorrow
But it was supposed to be 8,600 won but I paid 30,000 won, But
I told mom that it was only 20,000 won
Something like that.
I didn't want mom to scold me for paying that much.
- [pH-1] Oh, okay, okay. - [sogumm] Those things, white lies.
[PENIEL] 8,600 won, you could've just said 15,000 won.
[sogumm] But he wanted to go to Incheon,
Which costs around 30,000 won.
[pH-1] Something like that.
[sogumm] Something like that.
[pH-1] Or something like,
I'm catching up with my parents on the phone
They'll ask, "Junwon, you alright? Healthy?"
I was actually sick, but I just
- [pH-1] keep going 'I'm alright' - [sogumm] Right.
[pH-1] "Anything?" "Nothing, I'm good."
- [sogumm] Right, that. - [pH-1] Pretending that I'm alright.
[sogumm] Right, I do a lot of those lies.
Pretending to be alright.
To my dad.
-[sogumm] Pretending to be okay. -[ASHLEY] I never do that.
[ASHLEY] I'm just like "Daaaaad!!!!! :((("
I guess I'm still a kid.
[pH-1] Peniel, what would you say?
He'd be like, "Ah, yes. I was feeling quite unwell three days prior to this call."
"However, I received a shot and am now feeling much better."
[PENIEL] But,
I don't get sick too often.
[sogumm] You have though?
[PENIEL] Well, I have issues with my disc in my spine
My parents know that I have a bad disc but
I don't really catch a cold
So they'll ask "You're not sick, right?"
"Nope! :D:"
"I'm good fam, don't worry~"
"If I'm hurting, I'll just take care of it. No worries"