- Hey, what's up, it's me, Jessica, J.
And I was just wondering if you've ever sat
and thought to yourself, "Uh, Jessica, what are some
like super-duper subtle signs that she likes me?"
Well, so I'm glad you asked, because today I'm
gonna go over the two top-secret signs that we women
pretty much even hide from ourselves
when it comes to liking you.
And to make sure you never miss out on another opportunity
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Okay so the way this differs from my other videos
about how to know if a girl likes you,
how to know if a girl likes you now since the pandemic
is the fact that with those signs, we women
are very consciously trying to get you to see
that we want to go to pound town with you.
These signs are things that we tend to give off
without realizing and sometimes give off before
we even realize we like you.
The situations these signs are gonna be more pronounced in,
the situations in which these signs are gonna be
more pronounced are usually going to be places and instances
where we shouldn't like you,
or maybe you're a complete stranger,
or maybe we just really think that you are totally
out of our fucking league and you know,
we've already rejected ourselves
'cause that happens too, you know.
Examples would include again, like maybe
you're her boyfriend's best friend
or maybe you guys work together.
Or maybe you actually have a wife or a girlfriend
and it would be really fucking bad
if she showed you these signs.
Either way, these are the most pronounced moments.
So think about it that way.
Take it however you want to.
But the first sign is being very overtly mean
or rude to you.
So you're probably very well aware
that this is something kids do.
This is what we did in grade school, at the playground.
The reason being is that kids in the very beginning
will throw temper tantrums or show the exact
opposite emotion of what they're actually feeling
is because they do not know how to manage
those emotions properly.
And here's the thing about emotions.
Even with adults, emotions make us feel out of control.
Emotions, override all our rational thought processes
which is the core of my entire
Speak To Spark Arousal program
which is using that override effect to get her
having emotional outpourings for you,
whether or not she likes it.
So if our emotions are making us feel out of control,
which they are, and we have emotions for you
when we shouldn't, maybe you are the teacher
at our kids' school, which happens, or maybe
you're our boss, ah, either way, an attempt to control
those emotions or an attempt to mask those emotions
will always look like the exact opposite of those emotions.
So when she likes you and she doesn't want to like you,
or maybe she doesn't want you to know that she likes you
'cause it would be really bad for everybody,
she's going to act like she just really
doesn't fucking like you.
Again, it's you triggering subconscious response
that she might not even realize she's doing.
I have a girlfriend, she's a virgin.
And anytime she likes a guy, I can always tell
because she acts like such a dick to him.
Like not even like in a flirty teasing way,
she's like really fucking mean.
And I know for myself, when I was in college,
I had the hugest crush on my boyfriend's best friend.
So anytime he was around, I was just straight up like,
"Oh, what are you doing here."
And I would always insult his intelligence.
I would always insult his looks.
I would always insult his height.
I didn't realize I liked him, I really didn't,
(laughs comically) but I did, so I was a dick.
So if you yourself are in this situation where
"Maybe Jessica, she wouldn't be so proud of liking me,"
Then definitely be on the lookout for this clue.
The second one is my favorite one to talk to you guys about,
I always drop it as like a bonus tip in random videos.
However, this one is yawning when you yawn.
Did you just yawn?
Here's the thing, like emotions, yawning is contagious
but it is only contagious if we are connected
to that person, in a way.
It only works if we are looking at them or if we are
thinking about them or if we see them
or perceive them, so to speak.
But all it takes is a simple cognitive connection.
So at the very least, if you're in the office and you yawn
and you see her start to yawn across the way,
guess what, that bitch was checking you out.
Or if you're online at the Starbucks and some chick,
you know, is waiting in line behind you
and you start yawning and then she starts yawning,
time to fuck.
To me it's my favorite way to see if a dude
is checking me out and I think that you need
to start doing this from here on out.
Just fucking yawn everywhere you go and just see
what motherfuckers are yawning alongside you.
Which is a great segue into my next video.
On Friday's video I'm gonna talk about the ways to test
to see if a woman likes you.
And this is, you know, at the very least, step one,
to see if she's at least thinking about you from afar.
And you know what, again, these are the super secret ones,
the ones that we try to fight ourselves
and aren't even conscious of, but if she does like you
and she's aware of it and she wants you to want her back,
don't forget to check out my video
on how to tell if she does like you.
I'll see you Friday when how to test if she likes you.
Thanks for watching as always I'll see you guys next time.