Love will chase you. Love will find you. Love will catch you.
Stop chasing love. Do this now.
Hi everyone. Robert Zink, Miracle Mentor and Alchemy Life Coach.
And today we are soaring high like a big beautiful Eagle.
And we're flying in the direction of your dreams and your goals.
We're here five days a week to empower your life because we believe
that you deserve the money you desire,
the love you crave and the happiness that you deserve.
So let's talk about love.
Love will find you.
Love will chase you as you focus deeper within
yourself and your full potential. Look at high flyers.
I don't believe that any one of us are
completely living our full potential.
I mean, we're just really not.
And because there's always more that we can become, we have no limits.
We have no boundaries. And that's an important thing to remember. Another words,
whatever limit you have given yourself,
whatever boundary you have given yourself,
you can move beyond that limit, beyond that boundary.
So when people chase you,
when people chase you, when relationships chase you,
instead of you chasing relationships,
it's because you have become more magnetic.
You have become more attractive.
You have become vibrationally more beautiful.
It's, it's a, it's a known fact that when two people fall in love,
it's not just the physical attraction that's minor.
It's the subconscious attraction and let's take it even a step deeper.
High flyers. It's more than the subconscious attraction.
It's your energy field. It's your vibrational self.
This is what makes you attractive.
This is what makes you irresistible.
You are irresistible.
You are a magnet for attraction and love and the
relationship that you deserve and desire.
So high flyers. I need to share this story with you for a moment.
I'm working with a client and she's in a really,
really tough spot right now because
her, her ex boyfriend,
has trained her to be needy.
You see,
I believe in my own humble opinion that he's probably a
narcissist and he loves her being in a
needy position.
Now, this happens either way with men and women.
So in this particular case, it's a guy.
So she will sit on the phone with me in our sessions and start
crying and say, well, can I text him?
Can I text him?
I just want to text him.
I just want to hear his voice. I just want to have a response.
And when he doesn't respond,
she freaks out because her whole self worth
high flyers is based on him.
Can I baby? She asked me, can I babysit his dog?
Can I babysit his dog?
I mean, this is really sad,
but narcissists will do this.
They will train you and teach you how to be at
their Beck and call.
Say it right now,
I met no one's back in call.
I serve myself and higher source energy.
I am complete within me.
I believe.
Now I believe that you can have
and incredible loving relationship and people will chase you
like crazy,
but you have to be complete within yourself.
You have to love yourself totally and completely.
And I'm going to share with you absolute and precise steps a
little later on in this video on things you can do that
will make you the kind of love magnet that you always dreamt of
becoming.
Stop chasing love and relationships.
Do this now. Now first, before we get into what you must do,
let me share with you what I believe are false beliefs
that are destroying your opportunity to have the kind of
love and relationships that you deserve in your life and
you, you never deserve to be in a position where you
are needy and doubtful and filled with fear and
anxiety and pain and worry and all of that.
You, you never need to be in that position. So one,
this is a false belief.
He or she will not love me
if I don't call every day. If I don't check in twice a week,
they'll never call me and they'll forget about
me and they'll stop loving me.
High flyers.
If you have to be at someone's Beck and call
day and night,
is that really worth it to you?
In order to have them feel secure about who they are,
they need you to feel insecure about who you are.
Once you understand that,
he or she will love you a whole lot more.
When you start loving yourself and take care of yourself
and walk in your own direction,
follow your own inner calling. That's what makes you attractive.
That's what makes you worth chasing false belief. Number two,
he or she will find someone else.
If I don't go over there every day and check in, if I don't call,
maybe he'll find someone else. Maybe she'll start dating someone else.
It's a free world.
I mean,
they can be living in the same house with you and dating someone else.
That happens all the time.
If you're going to live your life based on that fear,
that is exactly what you're going to attract into your life.
You cannot live your life based on fear
because
you don't want to live that kind of life,
that life doesn't serve you. It doesn't empower you.
It doesn't open you up to your full potential.
And like I said, it's what you attract.
You know, we attract, as we say,
we attract not what we want but what we are.
So if you're leading a fear based life,
that's the kind of outcome you're going to get. High flyers.
It's not worth it.
Well, false belief number three is I need to prove that I'm good enough.
You know,
I just got to show up all the time and I got a call and I got a text and I got
to hang out in front of his house or her house.
I just got to do this because I've got to prove I made a mistake.
I messed up,
Robert, I messed up. Don't you understand? I've got to go overboard.
I've got to apologize every single day for the rest of, come on.
This is ridiculous. I flyers you are.
You are stopping yourself down and
your attractiveness,
your beauty,
your magnetism,
magnetism is being destroyed by this kind of thinking
by this kind of behavior.
These are beliefs you must eradicate right now.
You must promise yourself that these beliefs no longer serve you and
false belief. Number four,
what if his family doesn't like me? What if his parents don't like me?
They don't like me. They don't want anything to do with me.
What's so what?
There's a lot of parents that don't like the choice of their, of their child.
Let that go be the best version of you.
Be the highest version of you. Oh,
we're going to get into what you need to hear in just a second,
but this is very important. You will never, never,
never need to chase someone that the
universe wants you to be with.
Did you hear what I said?
If the universe desires you to be with someone,
you're going to be with that person.
Now,
how do you get the universe to desire that by reflecting to
the universe,
whatever it is that you desire,
becoming that fitting container for the energy,
the vibration that you wish to have in your life.
That's what you do.
High flyers.
The key to attracting someone outside of your life is to
first attract that person inside you in your mind,
in your imagination, in your nightly work,
in your visualization,
but most importantly in your belief it.
I don't know how to explain this.
You have to have absolute belief,
total belief that you are worth it,
that you are worthy, that you are the one.
So high flyers.
I think it begins with giving up limiting beliefs about who
you are and what your power is and how special you are.
Give up limiting beliefs and then it's okay to desire.
I mean that's normal. That's natural. Put out those desires,
put out those intentions,
but then allow the universe to do the work.
Stop trying to force it. Stop chasing.
Let them chase you. They will chase you.
Love will find you.
Love will catch you because you're worth it because you're valuable.
It's absolutely essential that you not put yourself
ever in a position of neediness,
high flyers,
beautiful souls.
Never forget that this is your life journey.
This is your life journey. This is this.
Your life is deeper than just a relationship.
And when you,
and when you returned to focusing on your life journey,
who you are, what you're about, your purpose in life,
you will become more magnetic, intelligent, abundant,
attractive.
But most importantly,
say this with me.
Say it. Are you ready?
I am the one you
need to believe with absolute clarity and certainty
that you are the one.
You are the one and you deserve all the love that you
receive and allow the love to come after you. Why?
Because you are the one.
So high fliers. Do this right now. Here we go.
Five important points. Do this. Now do this.
Instead. Stop doing what you were doing and start doing this. Number one,
declare I am the
one.
Oh yeah.
Feels good to release attachment from outcome.
Don't get stuck in the outcome.
Put the final picture out there for the universe so the universe
knows what you desire, but then let it happen.
Let the universe color in the book so to speak for you.
Um, did I say that right? I don't know.
I've worked with a couple of people this week.
High flyers that have really gotten to me and I,
I'm trying to reach you because this is important.
I don't want to see anyone hurting when they don't need to hurt
release attachment to outcome.
No.
One of the ways I do that is I focus
on the relationship that I ideally would like to have,
but then I always say or someone better.
I always leave the universe the final choice and the
reason I say or someone better, I didn't say someone else,
I said someone better.
The reason I do that high flyers is because I'm taking away
that person's narcissistic power or whatever power they have.
I'm taking away my weakness and I am saying to myself,
I'm open to the best possible version of a
relationship.
Number three, create a relationship within yourself.
So do regular visualization or
imagination work on a regular basis, but don't put a face to it.
Put a feeling to it.
Leave the face out of the picture and focus on the feeling.
Neville Goddard says, the feeling is the secret.
Number four,
develop a magnetic self image of who you are. You are special,
you are magnetic. Stop putting yourself down.
Everybody has traits.
Everybody is, is, has things that they, you know, if they could,
they would probably change about themselves.
But magnetism doesn't come from your physical body.
It comes from your soul. It comes from your vibration.
It comes from your confidence.
It comes from your inner belief that you are the
one and finally recreate your story.
If your story is about being abused or in bad
situations and always having bad relationships,
rewrite that story and see yourself
as moving forward into the light,
into a beautiful life.
And that's the story you focus on. That's the story you tell yourself,
and that's a story you share with others.
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