If she does that it's clear she's got a boyfriend.
When she suddenly is more interested in beauty and her makeup is a lot stronger
When he only looks at her
It's super easy to tell when a guy got a girlfriend
"What is up?" - "Nothing at all"
"You got a boyfriend right?"
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Japanese people are very good at hiding their feelings so it is really hard to tell
Is she in love? Is he in love?jD
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If she suddenly won't hang out with us anymore - Exactly!
When she is constantly checking her phone
That is when we will start wondering if there is a boy in her life
Araaaa
When you ask her for meals she turns you down?
Like "I am good" - "Let's do it another time"
"I will contact you again about it..."
If she says that we know she's got a boy
And then the other friends will all guess about it
Are you in love?
I am
Well then good timing
Were there any tell-tale signs that she is in love? - Signs?
Did you give me signs? - I only told you after we started dating
Only then yeah
I told her after we started dating so she found out the first time - She did tell me
Was that today? - about one month ago
When she suddenly cut her hair short, I thought that there might be a boy who prefers short hair in her life
And? Did you cut your hair for him?
Well.. that's right.
She could tell
She is a good friend. She could tell.
Of course I could tell. Usually she dresses like this right?
Her hair was to her collar
She suddenly cut it and said she would start wearing more pure looking clothes
I wondered what was wrong with her all of a sudden
I started thinking that that style was maybe what her boyfriend is into
When girls change their hair, it's always a strong sign
Does she have a tell when she is in love?
She got along really well with one of our friends
and I could see both of them interact quite closely
There was no sign, I just could tell that they would start dating soon
Am I that easy to read? - You are. I could tell by your aura
The aura you had when you were talking to that boy was very lovey dovey for sure
The was quite bashful. She was smiling differently, kind of embarrassed looking at the same time
You did a face like that
You really are good buddies
You got each other figured out - Yay
When a friend suddenly looks more beautiful that is a tell sign
And if she suddenly looks more after what she wears and such it's easy to tell she's into someone
What changes when a girl's in love?
When she usually does not wear makeup, and suddenly she starts wearing it
Or her makeup gets stronger, or she wears it even though the usually would not
And you can tell - Yeah and when she usually only wears casual clothes
Yeah and then suddenly her clothing style changes
She usually wears her hair straight, but suddenly she is curling it a little
or she arranges it differently. Little things like that make you wonder if there's someone
Girls are in love when they suddenly look cuter.
Their features change
then soon they will tell you they got a boyfriend
They will change their hairstyle and their makeup style
They will change their clothing style. For example a girl that was not interested in fashion...
will suddenly wear a skirt
Those changes are tell signs
When a girl starts using colored contact lenses and such
Anything to appeal to him a bit more
When a girl suddenly will not hang out with gal-pals and starts looking cuter
When she changes her fashion - Definitely when she starts looking cuter
When her skin looks better - When she tries to show her female skills
Or when she starts to be interested in beauty products and her makeup is a lot thicker
Hey that's like you - That is me
Are you in love right now - She is
I was actually staring at your glittering makeup thinking is looks super cute - Thank you
Was she not wearing something like that before - Not as much
Protect her happiness now - I am doing that already!
When a girl smiles to herself a lot more
When she checks her phone
And when she becomes nicer!
When she is nicer? What?
Usually she doesn't care but suddenly she is all like "omg thank you so much girl"
When she does that, I will wonder if there is someone she likes
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When a girl is not coming out for a second round of drinks!\
When she is the one who goes home early
So you go for drinks and when you try to move bars...?
She will say "I will go home early now" as if someone is waiting
Oh someone is waiting at home~! - Probably
We girls can tell when she doesn't wanna hang out anymore
She becomes hard to get a hold of
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Looking at your Japanese friends, how can you tell a girl is in love or has a boyfriend?
What are the signs?
When she smiles a lot more.
Or when she remembers something and laughs about it
That will give her away!
When she is all smiley and you ask her and she says it's nothing.
"What's up?" - "Nothing at all"
"Ah... you got a boy don't you?"
Japanese girls don't often tell that they got a boyfriend recently. They keep it secret.
Many people keep it a secret in Japan
Why do you think they keep it secret?
I guess they are shy
And also, it would be embarrassing to tell everyone and it does not work out.
If you end up only dating them for a month, then that announcement is a bit embarrassing right
First they watch the situation for about 3 months
And if it goes well they start telling other people about it. I think that happens around me more often.
Once things seem to work out well for a while, girls will tell their friends?
Telling everyone you got a boyfriend, when you are just dating for 2 weeks might a bit too early.
When a girl suddenly is in a really good mood
When she meets a boy and is in a really good mood afterwards
That is how you can tell she might like him
- Her eyes sparkle a little? yeah
When girls get a boyfriend, how long does it take them to tell their girlfriends that they have one?
One week or one month and such?
Girls tell their besties quite fast
Or they might tell them if they need some sort of love advice
But for people who they are not super close with...
they post it on Insta and let everyone know about it that way
Oh we are doing a boy version too?
How can boys tell that a boy is in love?
When he is grinning a lot more and when he looks at his phone more often
Or when he keeps looking straight at the girl he likes
That is how you can tell he likes her or is even dating her
And apart from that? - His eyes will sparkle dude
Usually he looks like a dead fish but when she is close he will smile and his eyes will sparkle the entire time
It is super easy to tell when a boy has a girlfriend
It gets exposed easily - It's just so easy to tell
Some boys get really hyped and excitable
We can joke like "buy me a juice or that there"
he will usually say "no way" and suddenly he buys something for us
I think if a boy is in such a good mood it is easy to tell that he has a girlfriend or is in love
How can you tell a boy is in love? - He stops talking with us!
He won't talk with me anymore
He just wants to focus on his girlfriend then - because of her
So she won't be jealous - yeah usually
we banter like hey hey and bump shoulders but then he will be like 'stop that'
When they do that they got someone
They are careful not to make the girlfriend jealous - yeah
So that's how we can tell if Japanese people are in love.
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