getting a guy's attention when you don't want a guy's attention it seems like all
the guys tend to be giving you attention and on the other hand when you do want
attention from a guy you actually like it almost feels like you're invisible
well not anymore you sexy single lady in this video I'm gonna show you five
simple tricks to getting his attention keep watching
hey there Adam little chick from sexy confidence calm where I help you create
your love story and since we are coming into the holiday season this video is
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description now before we dive into these five simple tricks to getting a
guy's attention I just want to say you want to avoid these few mistakes first
mistake number one is just because you're getting guys attention doesn't
mean that he'll actually be attracted to you so yes use these tips to get his
attention but I cannot guarantee that he's necessarily going to want to date
you or to be with you and then mistake number two is being immature about the
whole process please don't purposely make him jealous
or worse having a friend tell his friend that you like him it's not middle school
anymore so instead of making those mistakes here are five high-value ways
to get his attention number one exude a high energy and
positive body language when you're around him in a recent study conducted
by speed daters they actually discovered that expansive body language and that's
basically open gestures were significantly more attractive than
closed off body language and I can attest to this when I used to coach men
on how to go out and flirt and meet uu sex the single ladies I always would
notice when we walk into a new venue we look for the type of women who had very
open body language because that meant that it was much more likely that they
would want to actually talk to us the second way to get his attention is to
add him on social media now I remember many years ago when I was at a party one
night and I talked to a number of different people that night but when I
got home that night one of the women I talked to added me as a friend on
Facebook and then I thought hmm that's a pretty good sign it's a very small step
and who knows she could've just added me as a friend just be
she does that with everyone she knows but it's also just a good way to get my
attention to be able to look further into her and see if hey maybe there's
something there and of course if there is it's possible that a guy might
actually message you so don't forget to leverage social media whether it's
Instagram or Facebook or even snapchat til to connect with a guy and guys
attention tip number three is get creative now as I mentioned this video
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know you better because he's trying to buy you a gift because he is your Secret
Santa even though you know he's your Secret Santa on the other hand you could
set it up so that you're his Secret Santa regardless gifts are being
exchanged between the two of you and it's a great way to be able to get his
attention and by the way if his love language is receiving gifts then you're
in a very good place number four is flirt with him now dr. Monica Moore
psychologists and Webster University in st. Louis has conducted research on
flirting techniques used at single bars shopping malls and places where people
will go to meet each other and she concluded through her studies that it's
not the most physically appealing people who get approached but it's actually the
ones who signal their availability in confidence using flirting techniques
like eye contact and smiling so just by signaling your interest in someone gets
you literally halfway there whether you're a man or a woman and
finally number five is break the touch barrier even the slightest touch when
you're having conversation with someone will signal to them that hey I'm
interested in maybe a little bit more than just a friendship or a professional
relationship just the slightest touch on someone's arm or even his shoulder is
going to give him that thought like ah maybe this is a little bit more than
what I was thinking so I want to hear from you have you ever used any of these
tricks or tips to get a guy's attention leave a comment right there below and
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get a guy's attention if you want or at least just be able to get a group of
friends together to create a Secret Santa and finally if you enjoyed this
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watching and I'll speak to you you sex a single lady next week bye bye